r/BeAmazed 14d ago

Miscellaneous / Others Great moment between a father and a son.

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u/rey_gun 14d ago

You're not a party pooper. I was thinking that the entire time. Little kid loses his grip and tumbles into a wave that rolls him, or dad wipes out and it has the same effect. Small children can drown much more easily than adults.

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u/Yehoshua_ANA_EHYEH 14d ago

Small children can drown much more easily than adults.

Can confirm, easier to hold down, smaller lungs.

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u/No-Comfortable9480 14d ago

The kid is Hawaiian, he’ll be fine. Also surrounded by the best surfers/lifeguards in the world (including his dad- Billy Kemper)

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u/1more0z 14d ago

Dad gets knocked out by hitting head on surfboard and other lifeguards are not looking their way when kid falls in. Now what?

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u/mincat36 14d ago

Kid probably swims extremely well in surf and it probably a lot safer without a life jacket, if he knows how to dive under waves; meanwhile in the water with a life jacket on, he can’t dive under, can’t control his position and he is more likely to be tumbled by the waves badly and get a broken neck on a sand bar.

The safest alternative is staying out of the water, next is learning proper water skills and he is doing it with plenty of people around, yes they may not see an incident, but same in a busy pool, kids can quietly drown, but probably not this kid.

Little nippers programme in Australia has groups of kids swimming, paddling etc in surf all the time, and they are lifejacket free

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u/No-Comfortable9480 14d ago edited 14d ago

Ah yes, in your very likely scenario I’d say it plays out like this: Kid swims to the surface, rescues dad by putting him back on the board and brings him to shore, becomes head lifeguard at age 18, then wins Hawaiian triple crown of surfing 10 years in a row.

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u/1more0z 14d ago

I love how willfully ignorant people like you are. Experienced skydiver jumped to his death by forgetting his parachute. Plenty of surfers have been knocked unconscious. But go on with your “it can happen to anyone but me” attitude.

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u/No-Comfortable9480 13d ago

Ok keep living in fear

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u/1more0z 13d ago

Fear and preparation are two very different things, my ignorant friend

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u/fopiecechicken 14d ago

It sorta depends on how competent a swimmer the kid is, life jackets can be kind of a pain when dealing with surf because you can’t submerge and go under the breaking waves causing you to get caught and rolled.

But yeah I’m generally with you on the life jacket thing.

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u/pathofdumbasses 14d ago

Water is fucking dangerous and even very experienced swimmers die in it.

Absolutely stupid to have a child out there without a life jacket.

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u/Academic-Increase951 14d ago

Meh, I don't think they are fine in this scenario, kid is with a group of actual professionals surfers and likely can swim better than most adults. It's a calculated risk but the experience level of the people around would make drowning very unlikely.

There's also lots of harmful effects in living life and growing up avoiding all risks and dangers. There needs to be a balance.

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u/CaptainAmerica_ 14d ago

This is what you call a dumbass mindset

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u/SilliousSoddus 13d ago

People commenting on how to stay safe at the beach when they clearly have no fucking idea what they're talking about.. that's dumbass.

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u/sometimesynot 14d ago

There's also lots of harmful effects in living life and growing up avoiding all risks and dangers. There needs to be a balance.

Wearing a safety device is not "avoiding all risks and dangers". When I went skydiving, I had a backup chute, just in case. I didn't avoid the activity...I just took precautions. A kid that young should not be excluded from the activity but should probably wear some kind of life jacket, just in case.

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u/bitchpleasebp 14d ago

son, kids drown in pools, let alone the vast ocean.

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u/lumpysurfer 14d ago

Wrap yourself and your children in bubble wrap and fuck off

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u/bitchpleasebp 14d ago

you're sick

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u/QuasiKick 14d ago

Having a bad day? 5 minutes walking outside helps!

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u/Academic-Increase951 14d ago

Guess we should ban kids from pools then too, and ban kids from playing sports, and ban kids from being in cars, or from Eating solid food, or drinking water. Let's put them in a bubble and feed them by feeding tube.

The thing is, this kid is probably safer doing this than the average family going to the beach with their kids wearing life vests. Guess you think families should be banned from beaches. He's in familiar waters, surrounded by a group of professional surfers, and surfing with his professional surfer dad.

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u/bitchpleasebp 14d ago

the straw man argument is so predictable, and i'm quite annoyed by it. think more critically

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u/Academic-Increase951 14d ago

You started with the straw man argument, I just retaliated in kind. If that annoys you so much then maybe some self reflection is needed.

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u/bitchpleasebp 14d ago

not how that works, bub.

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u/RagingAnemone 14d ago

That kid's probably been in the water 200 times by that age. He probably can swim to shore by himself.

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u/Neirchill 14d ago

Haha child abuse is hilarious hahaha