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u/kingtibius ☑️ 4d ago
Nah, they risked their jobs to fuck her up? What is their story? I have questions.
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u/Mass3999 4d ago
She probably used to work there. Talked shit, stole some money, and maybe slept with the wrong person's person or the wrong people's people. Then, she went back up there on a date to flex. She just didn't count on the beef being that big of a deal... apparently, it was...
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u/Lazy_Osprey ☑️ 4d ago
Especially when you consider all the shit bartenders have to deal with on a regular basis.
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u/HKLifer_ ☑️ 4d ago
Was it the people from Cardi case? I don't remember the people names, but maybe one of her friends was on a first date? That's the first thing that popped in my head. 🤣
Yes. That lives rent free in my head. 🤣 Yes. It was a strip club, but technically they have bars. 🤣
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u/DarkRyter 4d ago
That food must have been really good if it was worth the risk.
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4d ago
lol, this woman straight up knew she was hated and still brought a first date there. "I WILL NEVER BE BACK HERE" kinda vibes.
By the way when y'all say that... every customer service person wants to just say "Good." but we know you'll be back.
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u/pekingsewer ☑️ 4d ago
At my first barista job you could see a Dunkin donuts out of the window. When people would complain about the prices(third wave shop) I would point to the Dunkin sign and tell them they have cheaper coffee over there if our prices are too expensive 😂
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u/Curiouso_Giorgio 4d ago
Or she thought this guy was going to beat the guys for her. Which is dumb, but she may not have the best judgement to start with.
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u/Comatose_Koala 4d ago
A friend of mine went on a date with a girl he had been seeing for a couple months.
One evening they went out to a restaurant that she worked at. After a few minutes she got up and said she’d be right back like she was going to say hi to her coworkers. 15min went by and he sees this girl walk behind the bar and start working a full shift.
Meanwhile he’s sitting there like… what.. the fuck??
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u/ItsWelp 4d ago
Hope she got a raise, catfishing some dude over two months into coming to the restaurant is real commitment.
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u/Comatose_Koala 4d ago
I wouldn’t call it catfishing. This was date #10 lmao
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u/ItsWelp 4d ago
I mean yeah, it's more likely she got ambushed with a surprise shift she couldn't/wouldn't refuse. Another reason NOT to go on a date where you work unless you got discounts, bc why tf would you want to spend more time there??? And have your colleagues and boss kniw about your personal business... but the idea that she went ten dates just to bring that guy back to the restaurant is funnier.
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u/PeachesOntheLeft 3d ago
I’m a chef, I don’t exist on days I’m not scheduled to be there. Love my boss, will not spend money at an establishment I work 50 hours a week at
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u/Sturdevant 4d ago
If it was date #10, I would been like cool, but could you comp my meal at least??
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u/throwaway17197 4d ago
Rookie fucking mistake coming in on your off time your coworkers are all suddenly gonna start feeling faint
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u/MothMonsterMan300 4d ago
Facts, when I still worked in food I turned my phone notifications off and wouldnt be within 5 miles of the place
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u/ThePlumThief 4d ago
I do have friends that have dated bartenders and it's not uncommon to go their bar/restaurant when it's slow to spend some time with them.
That's at best a casual hang out though, if you're calling that a date yall both better be incredibly busy and constantly working or have crazy low standards lol
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u/thebeardedman88 4d ago
My second "date" with my now wife was a coffee presentation/tasting for her to level up at Starbucks or some shit. She needed a head count, I was counting on head.
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u/Untamed_Meerkat 4d ago
She was drumming up business. It's called ✨innovation ✨. Probably 5 other dudes at the restaurant that night on her roster too.
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u/OrganizationNo1298 2d ago
Did he continue to date her? She could've at least let him know something before she started. This would've irritated me.
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u/BedHeadRedemption427 4d ago
Nigga told me we were going to a spoken word lounge…. He took me to the STUDIO, where him and his niggas was freestyling their conscious raps.
This was before uber. So I was stuck there in the yo for three hours with Mr. KRS1 jr. I hated it.
That was the day I learned…take your own car , Dont ride with these niggas 😭
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u/IcyProperty89 4d ago
Spoken word lounge lmao. Dylon thought he could trap you and then wear you down with his bars.
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u/ThePlumThief 4d ago
He was 100% trying to flex and thought you'd be impressed 😂 I've worked as a studio engineer before and sometimes it works and the girl is like "omg what an artist 😍😍😍" and sometimes you have a visibly bored women scrolling instagram for 30 min then calling an uber lmao
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u/thatsnuckinfutz ☑️ 4d ago
take your own car , Dont ride with these niggas 😭
1000%. I took the bus to a date once while my car was getting dealt with lmao i will NOT be stranded
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u/DidYouSetItTo-Wumbo 4d ago
Sis wanted an advantage in a three to one fight she knew was coming and thought he was gonna be the type to jump in 😂.
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u/dat_boy_lurks 4d ago
Three bartenders?? *ON SHIFT?!?!***
Ion know what she did, but she did that shit.
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u/Bubbly_Satisfaction2 ☑️ 4d ago
I think my worst date was me being stranded in Five Towns (here in Queens) after my date was arrested. He accidentally cut off a cop car as he left the parking lot. Cops pulled us over.
My date had a warrant out for his arrest.
The asshole-cops didn’t even bother to take me to a more well-lit area, where the stores were located at least.
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u/ForefathersOneandAll 4d ago
One of my old coworkers went on a date with a guy she met on tinder. On their way to Outback, he ran over a dog on accident and pulled over. She's shook and he gets out to inspect the damage and check on the dog. After a minute he gets back in and continued to drive.
My friend asked what happened to the dog, and this nigga goes, "oh it's dead, I threw it in the trunk." She forced him to pull over and took a Lyft home.
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u/msanthropedoglady 4d ago
Was it a Waffle House?
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u/JesusStarbox 4d ago
They don't have bartenders at the Waffle House.
Good thing, too.
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u/joshJFSU 4d ago
Waffle House with a full bar would be a damn warzone. I mean, I would stop by but there will be protection.
Also who would be the bartender at a Waffle House? Ghetto joker?
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u/TheBereWolf 4d ago
Waffle House bartender would have a job requirement of currently on parole and wearing an ankle monitor at all times.
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u/ShikaMoru 4d ago
Ah hell nah I can't imagine the chaos. They would need state patrol on watch all night every night
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u/Bubbly_Satisfaction2 ☑️ 4d ago
In regards to the OOP, I am not shocked by his date’s audacity.
I knew someone in college, who tried to pledge a sorority that had four people, who she had beef with.
Like…
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u/Solo_Fisticuffs ☑️Sunshine ☀️ 4d ago
went to a fridays with a dude where ik a ton of people who worked and frequented there. most people in the building knew my older sister too (large age gap). i went to the bathroom and came out and everyone was yellin at him and before i could ask what happened my sister was callin my phone. when they told him to leave he revealed he left his wallet so i asked them to separate what i ordered from what he did and ubered home
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u/JennyBeckman ☑️ All of the above 4d ago
Did you ever find out what all the ruckus was about?
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u/Solo_Fisticuffs ☑️Sunshine ☀️ 4d ago
he hit on my sister's friend who was the bartender at the time 😂
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u/sloppy_steaks24 4d ago
Why did she choose that one??? Was that the only restaurant in that town or something?
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u/Itsprobablysarcasm Candace Owens Baby shower attendee 👶🏼 4d ago edited 4d ago
Okay. So over in that other thread about "Good sex leads to bad problems", when us old heads were talking about don't put your dick in crazy...
This wildcat brought a first date to a rumble! 100% sure the sex is gonna be fire with this one, but...
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u/WashedUpRiver 4d ago
Hey, gotta give credit where credit is due-- that one's pretty memorable and the spirit of it is unique. For better or worse, he may never experience another date quite like it again lol
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u/Brattyybunnyy 🍑 PAWG 4d ago
If all 3 of them jumped her she deffo deserved it. He was smart for not doing anything ab it.
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u/Chaos_Ice 4d ago
My friends and I went out to a restaurant where unbeknownst to us (she was aware), one of the bartenders hated her guts. They purposely spiked her drink which the server was not aware and because we ordered the same thing….was given to me. I almost died of alcohol poisoning.
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u/Phoenix0390 2d ago
Omg that's so messed up! I hope you pressed criminal charges and that bartender was held responsible! I'm so sorry that happened to you 😔
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u/Chaos_Ice 2d ago
I didn’t. This was almost a decade ago. I was 19 and I wasn’t thinking that way.
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u/Phoenix0390 2d ago
I hope you kicked that friend to the curb then 🥺😔 This makes me so angry and sad for you regardless of how long ago it was. It's so messed up 😭
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u/pragmaticweirdo ☑️ 2d ago
If three people are willing to lose their jobs and catch charges to whoop your ass on sight, you’re the problem
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u/Legitimate-Kick8427 3d ago
Do you think she wanted to see if op would defend her or do you think she wantted to impress op with her combat skills
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u/bengraven 1d ago
It feels like she was testing him to see if he would get her back. I can imagine her at home with her girls and an ice pack on her forehead going “he’s not the one, he could have swung on at least one of those MF”.
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u/beepbopbeepboopydoop 1d ago
She absolutely wanted someone to either protect her or jump them with her 💀
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u/mvpsupreme 20h ago
His ex showed up at the place we were at. They argued outside and I called my sister to pick me up
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u/Deathstriker88 4d ago
The way he said it makes it sound like he didn't help her at all. He was just looking: