r/Hair 2d ago

Conversation Starter 25. When I married a couple years ago I finally stopped pulling them out

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Only a couple of people have been brave enough to point it out but I honestly feel like this has to be the first thing people see

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u/KaceyCats0714 2d ago

I absolutely love the look of silver strands. You look awesome šŸ¤

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u/Large_Pi 2d ago

my boyfriend is 21 and has a lot. i find it cute. i love his hair.

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u/arizona-lake 2d ago

Looks like you have a silver streak in 1 spot (which is generally thought of as a ā€œcoolā€ look) and lovely thick hair !

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u/extinct_banana 2d ago

girl same i just turned 28 and i have a patch in the front too! mines huge though. when i part my hair to the right it almost looks like my whites are a money piece! iā€™ve been parting my hair on the left so it doesnā€™t seem like so in your face but i was looking at myself in the mirror like so this is what im gonna look like now?

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u/Successful-Arrival87 2d ago

Lol it has to be on the side that I part my hair, I considered changing it up but it just looks weird parted differently

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u/joeyseriously 2d ago

I love grey hairs

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u/beige-king Hair Noob 2d ago

I'm 28 and wonder sometimes what my gray hair will look like.

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u/MorgaineDulac 2d ago

Thatā€™s why I wonā€™t dye mine. Iā€™m kinda fascinated by the transition and feeling all wizardry.

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u/Brieat22 2d ago

What am I seeing? I think you have beautiful thick hair.

I also do the same and stress pick. Itā€™s an ocd and bi polar related issue for me annnnd maybe some anxiety, lol. Anyways Iā€™m glad things have turned around for you and youā€™ve moved past that stage in your life where youā€™re now happier and have more control over your internal thoughts. You are lovely in my eyes.

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u/Successful-Arrival87 2d ago

What a nice comment, thank you!

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u/nightmares_dealer 2d ago

21 here and I already have a few myself! To be honest I've always loved them and was so excited when I got my first ones! My mom said she was dyeing her hair at 16 because her genes made it she was getting white hairs since she was 10, I've always been jealous I didn't inherit it. At 48, she has a full head of white hairs, and I believe it looks gorgeous! But she still dyes it, I've only seen her with all white hair once or twice. I personally begged her not to dye it, but she doesn't like it as much as I do:(

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u/EvenPossible5918 2d ago

I was in my early 20ā€™s too when I started getting grey hairs. They look great.

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u/EWSflash 2d ago

Looks good! When I retired 4 years ago I gave up coloring my hair and was very surprised that I love it. I say, rock on. A friend in high school had a lot of gray streaks and she was 16. It's genetic

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u/Ouachita2022 2d ago

It's beautiful and don't ever color it, you'll regret it for sure when you get in your 40's! Your hair (and you!) will be so much healthier if you don't use hair dye.

I'm speaking from first hand knowledge and I adore my salt and pepper hair! And my "salt" is all kinds of different colors. Gray, silver, almost white and a lot of strands are gray, then my natural color dark, dark brown (black when wet) then gray then brown. It's like that particular strand of hair shows the color is pestering out in that area. It's wild. Nature is awesome. Your hair is beautiful!

Anyone says anything about it just say "Gray is a color, not a number!" I had gray hairs starting in high school-age 15.

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u/Tygie19 2d ago

Pfft, you hardly have any! Iā€™m 47F and letting mine grey naturally. I started a new job recently and one of my new colleagues thought I had paid to have nice looking foils in my hair. She was genuinely surprised when I said itā€™s my natural colour with grey throughout. Apparently it looks good!

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u/Perfect_Travel930 1d ago

Oh donā€™t pull your hair out, I have a gf whoā€™s 55 who did that when she was younger & now her hair is super damaged it never grew back right

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u/Successful-Arrival87 1d ago

Iā€™d have a bald spot if I tried to pull them out now!

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u/Overanydrama25 16h ago

I ā™„ļøit! Embrace your beautyšŸ„°

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u/Complete-Chemist9863 2d ago

A little more copper in your diet please

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u/Successful-Arrival87 2d ago

Actually I have been lol, thereā€™s no going back from this

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u/rmatthai 2d ago

Not sure why this was downvoted. Supplementing with copper and zinc is something worth looking further into.

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u/AMSparkles Hair Noob 2d ago

I think it was probably the ā€œpleaseā€ added to the end.

(I didnā€™t downvote, though!)