r/MMFB • u/Pleasant-Orange5275 • 19d ago
Broke up with my girl freind of a year
I need help guys me and my girlfriend of a year broke up and I need to get over her but I think break up sex would help how do I go about asking for it .secondly it think she is already actively taking to guys or trying to and I think to help me fully move on and understand it’s really over I need to a see a video of her fucking. A new dude so I know it wasn’t me she hasn’t had sex with me in a months and I thought it was because she didn’t think I was attractive and I can actively tell she’s looking to move on should I ask her to do that is that okay is that fucked yo what’s your thoughts
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u/tarltontarlton 19d ago
Yeah man. Sorry you're going through this. Break-ups are hard on the self-esteem for sure. I think pretty much every dude out there has been in the pain you're in right now. It sucks.
I get the feeling you might not have that much experience with relationships. Because it sounds to me like you're thinking about this wrong.
The relationship is over. It's sad. But it is what it is. There's no magical, porn-y hack that can make you okay. Having sex would be very weird to ask her to do. The whole video of her with another guy would be even weirder. She's not with you anymore. What you need to feel better is no longer her problem or responsibility. To ask her to be physical at this point would be just as weird as going door to door asking random strangers to have sex with you so you feel better.
What you're feeling right now is very, very painful. I get it. And it will get better. Mostly by time passing and you meeting new women. But part of what we all learn from breakups is the skill of living with emotional pain until it goes away. And that's a clutch skill.
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u/Admirable-Account144 15d ago
Dude same happened to me but I walked in on them in the act. She was blowing the guy and had just gulped a load and showed it though her mouth. Fixed everything. I guarantee if you asked your fine gal she would help you doing the same.
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u/Jessica_Rabbit1313 19d ago
Bro, leave her alone. Quit being weird. If she doesn't want you, she doesn't want you. Nothing to "get over". Move on with your life. Clearly you only think of her as a sex object, or you wouldn't be talking about "break up sex" or "seeing her fuck another dude".