r/MadeMeSmile • u/mindyour • Feb 19 '25

Wholesome Moments Her 85-year-old neighbour hand-delivered an invitation to his birthday party.

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u/ashleebryn Feb 19 '25

We don't like to get "new members" because it means they're hurting from a recent loss. Most of them never remarry. But we love welcoming them. The flip side is that we've also seen many of our sweet member pass on themselves. So it's a bittersweet trade off but worth every moment. And thank you for saying that ⚘️

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u/heliumeyes Feb 19 '25

This is so bittersweet. The losses suck but it’s great that people have a place where others can empathize.

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u/lwp775 Feb 19 '25

The support is needed. Your mother did a wonderful thing. So sorry for your losses.

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u/Lola-Ugfuglio-Skumpy Feb 20 '25

Thank you for sharing this, it’s truly beautiful. Everyone needs friends to get through the tough times. Your group sounds wonderful