r/Muslim • u/unknown_person50 • 1d ago

Question ❓ Ending a haram relationship

A frnd of mine a female had a close frndship w a boy and it seems like mutual love,a problem happened that led them to part ways,but the way he dealt w it wasn't bad, but he ended up blocking her,and thenyesterday he apologised to her w a letter that expresses emotions and him clarifying that he should've dealt w the problem better ,my frnd for context knows its haram to have a frndship w an opposite gender but love blinded her,know she supposingly repented and wants to end this relationship but doesn't really know what to write to end the relationship and how to sort things out,she's a close frnd of mine and I rlly want to help, I'll be so grateful for yalls help.

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u/MujtabaNeyaz3395 1d ago

Just simply blkock.and move on

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u/unknown_person50 1d ago

Isn't it better to clarify that she wants to end it since he knows that she likes him ?

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u/MujtabaNeyaz3395 1d ago

The more you keep "trying" to end it .. the more it will not end . If you wnn end it ..just block all contacts and leave

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u/unknown_person50 1d ago

Appreciate that ,I'll try convincing her

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u/MujtabaNeyaz3395 1d ago

Search on youtube there are several videos how to end a haram relationship

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u/unknown_person50 1d ago

Will do that. appreciate ur advice a lot

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u/rhannah99 1d ago

 how to sort things out

What is there to sort out? To end the relationship you just wish each other well and say bye. It sounds like it was more than friendship.

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u/zeey1 1d ago

Pretty simple..ask him to marry her..if he says no, then end it and knowing that the boy didnt love her anyway and was using her and it was fake love

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u/unknown_person50 1d ago

She's in scl lol

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u/zeey1 1d ago

Not sure what scl means

But if in relation then she should get divorce..thats the real way to repent rather then destroying significant other life

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u/unknown_person50 1d ago

They r in high school

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u/zeey1 21h ago

Nothing wrong in getting enaged or married (if above 16-18 depending upon local laws) in high school.

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u/unknown_person50 21h ago

Ur right, but that's not possible for them, I appreciate ur help

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u/zeey1 20h ago

Why not.. have seen plenty of Americans, british and western married at 18(or even younger).. so its possible..its just "inconvenient"..halal is always inconvenient

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u/unknown_person50 19h ago

I meant that it's not a choice for them

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u/Odd-Guest-6055 23h ago

Respectfully your grammar is atrocious and it’s difficult make out what you’re trying to get at. Just tell your friend to just cut him off and say farewell.

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u/unknown_person50 22h ago

Appreciate that,but what's the main issue w my writting?

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u/Bulldozer9X 7h ago

Relationship is not an option in Islam. If they like each other, get the Nikaah done. Otherwise, control their nafs and immediately stop seeing or talking to each other because one thing leads to another, before you can even know about it.

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u/unknown_person50 11m ago

Ur def right, appreciate it