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u/JessAllTheTime 1d ago edited 1d ago
I'd say the second one, the second to last and last pictures aren't great/necessary. I can't say for men, but if your goal is a woman then include one with friends doing something other than drinking. One of the tests women do is to make sure their potential partner has reasonable friends who don't just party and get up to suspicious behavior. Make that photo your second one so there is no mistaking who you are.
Also if you haven't already, make sure to write a bio. If a guy doesn't have a bio that tells me either 1. They may just have rude things to say, 2. They aren't good at texting (which is one of the most fun parts about matching on a dating app) or 3. They have something to hide, and that something is their personality.
Though this is all just from my perspective and experience. I may just be an asshole. I hope it helps somewhat though.
Edit: grammar
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u/MeshuggahMe 1d ago
Shave your lip!!
You are cute! You're ruining it with that thing, lol! But seriously, you are good-looking, and that mustache makes you look like an unkempt teenager.
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u/No_Mercy_4_Potatoes 1d ago
Shave your lip!!
I'd like to add to that. Shave a bit above your lips too.
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u/phatballlzzz 1d ago
Less selfies dawg, more photos of you doing stuff, plus maybe some candids. You’re a good looking guy, just gotta have some variety.
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u/Smickey67 1d ago
You look stoned in 2 and 8 to me. Which I mean is fine but it’s not the most presentable look you know? And 3 looks like it could maybe be with an ex even if it’s not. Also 9 is not even you so I’d get rid of all four of those imo.
Edit: a pic while working isn’t a bad idea maybe just redo that one. Idk just my thoughts.
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u/whataweirdy9 1d ago
Ignore the people saying "get rid of your long hair and mustache." Keep all the photos on the far left and the one where you're wearing a hard hat. Is the art in the bottom right yours? If so, keep it. Add pictures of you doing stuff!
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u/MrPryce2 1d ago
Honestly some of your photos you look like a girl
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u/Bunks_ 1d ago
Some of us like that :)
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u/CulturalAdvance955 1d ago
I've never been into guys with long hair, but I'm loving his hair in #7.
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u/justcougit 1d ago
Timothee chalamet is like one of the biggest actors around right now! And he's very feminine.
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u/ronyeezy 1d ago
The 3rd picture is so brilliant! You look happy and content! I hope you get some matches soon as you seem nice!
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u/sitaami1983 1d ago
I think you are an adorable young man. I find nothing wrong per se with any of the ones you have, but adding some fun group shots with friends or family may help you attract a wonderful young lady!
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u/Constant-Limit-2054 1d ago
1- delete 2- delete 3- keep 4- keep 5- keep and make profile pic 6- delete 7- delete 8- keep 9- keep
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u/Vladxxl 1d ago
No offense, but I got confused about your gender. Lose the long hair and mustache it's not doing you any favors.
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u/SoftieSlutt 1d ago
Hard disagree on the long hair. Shit is luscious!
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u/JessAllTheTime 1d ago
I think the short cut in his 3rd pic looks really nice and the one with his long hair looks really nice. Both sides of the extreme works for him best but not necessarily the middle length
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u/justcougit 1d ago
As a woman I disagree so fucking hard.
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u/cinnamonpumpkin18 1d ago
Agree with you as a woman. Not all woman are attracted to traditional masculine men. So yeah I guess it depends on which type of women OP is looking for. OP is cute! I like pic 3 (tho it does reek some “taken by an ex” vibe)
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u/DirtyPie 1d ago
As a woman I agree with them. Would suig OP fine to lose the long hair. It’s all about the type of girl OP wants to attract. Will they be open to dating someone who looks more feminine.
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u/emogothfemboy 1d ago
Mmm you have a really good mix of your showcasing your personality. 2nd pic is a bit of out place, it’s more a snap-worthy picture. you’re very cute so not much needs to change…
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u/Hances 1d ago
First one gives a really good side profile understanding, but maybe move it further?
Second is great, it's like a real nice photo to be cover
Third looks like a photoshoot, so it's nice too
Fourth through eighth are not utilizing full potential (though fifth is nice if you want to show "at home" version of yourself)
I'd suggest you take more pictures at 3x zoom (or 85mm focal length for cameras) whether by asking friends or using tripod
Also as was mentioned before, take some group pictures with friends doing something that is not drinking or partying (hike, maybe? or something that you like)
You are a good-looking fella!
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u/cookingfragsyum 1d ago
You are very pretty but yeah, as stated, lose the stache and wait a few years. I’m 27 and have a way worse beard, still waiting, so I think you’ve got it going for you in a couple of years.
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u/Lolitapop300 1d ago
I would delete the top right corner picture, you look good in it but It would make me think you have a significant other
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u/Asherr18 21h ago
Having all pictures of yourself can be a bit overwhelming. I'd recommend a couple photos with your friends or family if you can.
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u/Federal-Smell-4050 20h ago
Make the smile pic #1 Keep the beach shot, cause it’s proof you have been outside and do stuff. Maybe delete the long hair if that’s not how you look. Maybe get a better shot in your uniform. Maybe delete or move back the one where you’re lying in bed. Too much too soon.
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u/Ehh_Imherealready 19h ago
I’d say delete 2 and 5. The rest of these give us a little glimpse into your life and personality. You also caught some nice angles of your face. 😊
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u/Lorgin 18h ago
I agree you should probably lose the mustache, but more than that, you need photos that show you doing what you love. Whether it's biking, playing pool, video games, hiking, anything that highlights a hobby is good. A bunch of selfies may as well be one picture. Each picture should exemplify a different character trait or specific hobby.
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u/rakzo1597 17h ago
Keep the third and last ones. Take some more action/group pics. 2 or 3 will suffice
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u/ShayDeAurora 17h ago
Keep 1, 3,4 ,5 ,6. 9 is aight 3 is Fave... But whose fingers? Usually it's an ex and we can't include those.
If it's family then whatever.
Yes the mustache, you look so much better without it.
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u/BullsOnParadeFloats 1d ago
Try styling your hair differently. I feel like it being brushed to the side, as opposed to a center part, would do you wonders and make you look a bit more masc.
There's a Sri Lankan tiktoker - he makes videos about chai - who has long dark hair, and that's how he styles it, and it looks great on him.
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u/Videojames199 1d ago
3, 4, and maybe 6? 3 and 4 are great because you’re smiling. And it’s a great smile man! 4 is the best because you’re actually doing something
I actually disagree about the mustache. I think it’s fine. You don’t have to try to be everyone’s cup of tea, just try to show YOU so you find someone who you are THEIR cup of tea.
Just my opinion. Also, show your general profile. Don’t put short open to long term. Just put long term for seeking. Makes a big difference
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u/Alereonn 1d ago
None, if this is who you think you are and what you want to show of yourself in a few pictures then it's perfect.
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u/Sea_Ad5312 1d ago
The first one side profile, not needed. Is there context to the last one? If yes and explained in profile, fine. Otherwise, odd. Personally like the rest
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u/sylenzr89 1d ago
I would say delete the selfies and try to include pictures of you doing something fun where someone took a pic of you. Examples being snowboarding, hiking, traveling, etc. You want to showcase whatever your hobbies or interests are. You have some long hair so I would lean into that. Most people can't pull that off. Also, have some (not all) photos of you in a group setting with friends. I mean no offense, but this looks like you hang out by yourself all the time. Most girls want to know you have a social life too. Again, not saying that is the case, it's all about how women perceive you when they have 2 seconds to swipe left or right. Hope that helps!
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u/sylenzr89 1d ago
Also, just thought of this but you could make a joke (in a self-deprecating way) of your hair in the bio. Examples: 1) Likely to have longer hair than you. 2) Green Flags - must share your conditioner with me. 3) Green Flags - not threatened if I have better hair than you.
Something along those lines! Good luck!
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u/DiscussionExotic3759 23h ago
Number 4 needs a clearer view of the action figures behind you. We need to know more about what you like to collect.
You're definitely going to attract people who want to play with your hair.
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u/RainEnixxx 22h ago
Have you ever shaved your stache? Looks baby hair ish. If shaven you might get a manlier stash
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u/No-Beyond310 22h ago
Dude, I'm not into men, so trust the women's advice over me. Plus I'm far from a tinder hero, met one women that way, and no thanks. I'll meet in person 😂
Delete either 4 or 5, they are way too close to the same picture. I suggest the one not smiley?
Other than that, thanks for having orange wall paper. Favorite color!!
I'm also literally a good luck charm, promise you got this boss!! 😅
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u/Otherwise_Warning_38 22h ago
Honestly make #3 the first photo since it’s artsy, delete #1 and #2 and #4. Keep #5 delete #6 and #8 and replace with more artsy photos instead of just selfies cause it looks rushed
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u/Due_Custard_2643 21h ago
Middle row far left is by far your best picture. I would get rid of the cartoon picture. Pictures without you smiling. You look very welcoming and positive when you're smiling. When you're not, you have a homicidal resting face 🤣
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u/xxscreamfearxx 15h ago
Keep the third and sixth pics and remove the rest. You just have too many selfies. Add a couple more pics where you're with friends or hanging out ideally ones taken by someone else, not just selfies.
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u/Select_Cheetah_9355 2h ago
Women (on average) tend to be more attracted by a smirk, half smile or a serious face. (In that order). So I would rule out the one where you are smiling, because it is a bit too much, almost laughing. As for which ones to choose, look for my other comment.
You can trust my advice: I am a woman and have a lot of experience and knowledge in the field of psychology and relationships in particular.
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u/Choice-Island-1527 1h ago
I like the one of you smiling, the uniform, and the one that shows off that beautiful hair
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u/Mysterious_Nail_1513 1d ago
Stache is fine, people on here pretend to be gurus. Nothing wrong with the look brother. Pic 2, 4 and 5 are real similar.. you could get rid of all 3 and still have 6 solid photos. Not that your selfies are bad but people resonate with photos taken candid or from someone els more. God bless 🙏
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u/rizzyroo 1d ago
No offence but you look like that one girl on tiktok that got viral for cutting her sisters hair its one of my favourite tiktoks
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u/bangladeshiswamphen 1d ago
You have six photos of you not smiling. I’d delete all of those and replace with smiling photos.
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u/gomennasa111 1d ago
I truly do not mean any offense. But delete the mustache!!