r/Tinder 1d ago

Is this gaslighting? - read my comment

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u/MonoAonoM 1d ago

Yes, couldn't be bothered to show up, and more than likely too cowardly to admit it. Block em and move on. 

Also, your comment isn't showing up for some reason. 

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u/ria_rokz 1d ago

Your comment didn’t show up for me, so I think others might not have seen it either

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u/Electroboss 1d ago

Maybe OP is gaslightning us

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u/HubbaMaBubba 1d ago

Nah the comment counter says 9 but I only count 7 (not including mine), that means comments are getting removed.

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u/AllenKll 1d ago

Looks like Grey text isn't getting Purple text's messages. It's a technology issue.

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u/99_kitten 22h ago

The double check marks means the message was received and read though, doesn't it? Read receipts.

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u/Equal-Necessary-8750 16h ago

No, double Grey means it was received. Double blue means read. Single Grey means it was sent but not received.

WhatsApp sometimes has messages that don't reach the sender but from my experience they stay single Grey. It looks like she has her "read" messages turned off so people can't see when she reads people's texts.

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u/eiuquag 1d ago

I've had issues like this with technology (with people I know). Use a different app to communicate, or both restart your phones. I certainly wouldn't jump to the conclusion that it is malicious or lies without more to go on.

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u/ImpeccablyDangerous 13h ago

Exactly this.

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u/Equal-Necessary-8750 16h ago

If this is whatsapp, which I think it is... then she just has the "read message " indicator turned off so the messages never turn blue. If there was a a situation that his messages just were not being recieved thier would only be one Grey che mark.

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u/ImpeccablyDangerous 13h ago

Might be, might be legitimate issues with Whats app. Which wouldnt be particularly strange. Did you try ... I dont know. Calling them using the phone?

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u/Illustrious-Item-437 1d ago

Yes block em and don’t look back

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u/randomguy5612 4h ago

back in the days i used the phone to call on a phone. worked like a charme