r/TuxedoCats 19h ago

🌈 MEMORIAL / MOURNING 🕊️ I had to say goodbye to my son today.

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Bru was the first pet I had as an adult. I didn’t think I’d lose him this soon in my early 20s. He always knew how to bring me joy or make me laugh. He had extensive, irreversible kidney damage. His vet said he was probably genetically predisposed. Let it be known that he was cherished everyday, and I lived to spoil him. He was my handsome and he is already desperately missed. rest in peace bru bru. 💔

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u/livtiger 18h ago

I’m so sorry. I keep photos off all my kitties, even the ones who have passed on, as my rotating wall paper on my phone. I still get to see their sweet faces every day. It helps. I also made photo books with stories about them.

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u/shlbwlsn 17h ago

I do the same!! My Lock Screen is still my kitty that passed last Halloween. It’s so hard and the only thing that made me feel better is when I rescued another kitten and spoiled her rotten ❤️

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u/livtiger 17h ago

Yes, that has always been the only thing that has helped me feel better after losing one of my beloved cats. Now I have room to rescue another. They are all different, with different personalities, but still all wonderful.

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u/GirlInRed600 11h ago

this is a great idea, thank you

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u/Derivgal 19h ago

Deepest condolences.

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u/GirlInRed600 11h ago

thank you :)

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u/TweetOfBabyBear 18h ago

#Bru4Ever!

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u/GirlInRed600 11h ago

may bru’s memory never die

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u/IceniQueen69 11h ago

Awww. Sweet kitty.

My guy Max died during the pandemic, but they could have been twinsies.

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u/GirlInRed600 11h ago

my childhood dog died march 2020. i understand how hard it was

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u/IHateOnions8 15h ago

I’m so sorry.

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u/GirlInRed600 11h ago

thank you

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u/GirlInRed600 11h ago

losing pets is so so so hard

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u/FlyingKelpie 5h ago

I’m so sorry. You loved him and he love you in return. It is a rare privilege but an experience that will be with you forever. Bru is with you 🌈