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Academic Research How do we feel about this tism community?

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u/autism-ModTeam 15h ago

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u/contemplatio_07 18h ago

THIS IS NOT DINING CUTLERY it's plating utensils.

The knife is either cake or quiche one. The fork is baked veg or potato fondant fork.

u/heyitscory 17h ago

This sub lately:

[Holds up ladle]

Does this trigger you!?!

u/fractal_frog Autistic Parent of Autistic Children 17h ago

Depends. If it's the Spoonful of Comfort ladle I see in all the ads I get in my games, I don't want it. The one we'll be using to serve up spaghetti sauce later? I love that ladle!

(Honorable mention for the Nessie ladle sitting in the drawer, I almost want to pull it out for stuff in the vein of rubber duck debugging. But I can just pull a duck off the dash of my Jeep for that.)

u/heyitscory 17h ago

I just saw that Nessie while I was looking up how to spell ladle because every combination of letters looks wrong.  I was irrationally excited.

u/help_pls_2112 ASD Level 2 16h ago

lædl

u/imaginechi_reborn AuDHD 16h ago

Too accurate. We are not animals; we have taste.

u/Daminica 16h ago

Depends, it might trigger someone's hyperfocus on extraordinary and extravagant oddly specific cutlery.

I recently saw a yt short about a weird cutlery tool specific for cutting tomatoes.

u/bipolarat ASD Moderate Support Needs 15h ago

Foreal it’s as if the utensil preference is what makes us autistic in this group not our diagnosis and support needs

u/The_Barbelo This ain’t your mother’s spectrum.. 16h ago

ARE YA TRIGGERED, SON?

(I found this in a brook. W.M Rodgers and Son, Circa mid 1800s. I just wanted to share my newest artifact find.)

u/AeroSquid262 Autsitic x Ace 18h ago

This is someone who knows their cutlery. I think. I don't know what these are used for. I just know I would despise using them for anything. 😅

u/contemplatio_07 17h ago

So, when you think "fondant potatoes" - they ale small, perfectly rounded and caramelized on the outside. So if you'd try to stab em with normal fork - they go into puree in seconds. If you'd try to use soup spoon - they'd run away from you.

Lo' and behold - this invention! it has enough spiky edge to give some friction but not so much to break caramelized outside, but also is shallow and rounded enough to hold a ball made of carbs and calories when you move it to your plate.

My granny was kinda crazy about cutlery and "the proper way" to use it. I had this knowledge bashed into my head before I know how to tie a shoelace.

u/unicornica ASD 16h ago

Honestly I am super interested to hear more about niche or interesting utensils in your writing style, that was fun to read. So, if you ever feel the urge to reminisce on things your granny taught you… 🙈

u/elkab0ng ASD adult-ish 18h ago

It’s not a fork, it’s a fivek.

u/SmoothSailer1997 AuDHD. Highway to.. OH LOOK A SQUIRREL! 17h ago

I see what you did there haha. Good one!

u/doktornein Autistic 16h ago

I'm a little unsettled by the amount of people who genuinely think these are supposed to be used to put things in your mouth. I know next to nothing about utensils, I despise the "rules" of fine dining, and even I know you'd look like a complete lunatic if you tried to eat with a serving utensil.

Is it like... nobody cares to notice what the "servants" use to put things on their place (i.e. mom), or is this a "kids these days" scenario?

God, do I hate this stupid silverware fad...

u/luz-c-o 16h ago

what did i miss with this silverware?? why are people posting it?

u/doktornein Autistic 16h ago

It's some kind of stupid, endlessly repeated joke conflating autism with having strict preferences in spoons.

I think someone with AI energy misunderstood the whole spoon/energy metaphor, or it's the equivalent of the "hello, fellow kids" meme for autism.

I hoped it was dead, but my hopes are again dashed.

u/The_Barbelo This ain’t your mother’s spectrum.. 16h ago

You either die the cool kid, or live long enough to see yourself become the cringe.

u/Patro_trancilo 18h ago

Cool fork tho

u/chrischi3 Asperger's 16h ago

Pretty sure that is a fish knife.

u/sparklychestnut 16h ago

It is a fish knife.

u/BookishHobbit 17h ago

I think it’s actually a fish knife but yeah, it has a different purpose to a standard dinner knife.

u/black_mamba866 16h ago

A fish knife would be much smaller, in proportion to the cutlery set being used for dining. This particular knife is most definitely a serving tool. It may be for serving fish, but the distinction between service and cutlery is what they've focused on.

u/Tech4Axons 16h ago

🤣🤣🤣

u/NobleVulpes Suspecting ASD 19h ago

Artisticly they are beautiful. I would absolutely never want to use them to eat with though.

u/Obversity 17h ago

I actually think they’re cool enough that it would offset the actual utility issues for me personally? For a while at least 

u/Enough_Ratio_7161 19h ago

I like the knife for decor reasons but the fork invokes a rage in me

u/SokkaHaikuBot 19h ago

Sokka-Haiku by Enough_Ratio_7161:

I like the knife for

Decor reasons but the fork

Invokes a rage in me


Remember that one time Sokka accidentally used an extra syllable in that Haiku Battle in Ba Sing Se? That was a Sokka Haiku and you just made one.

u/tootjevox 18h ago

Good bot

u/cleb255 19h ago

How do you fit that fork into your mouth??

u/spacescaptain 18h ago

You don't, this is for serving.

u/isshearobot 17h ago

Nah, you’re never touching food with my fancy fork, that goes in a curio cabinet as god and my 90s mom intended.

u/roxskin156 17h ago

THIS is the right response

u/Consistent_Box_3465 16h ago

I’d probably find it and not remember to ask you to use it

u/Dear_Scientist6710 AuDHD 17h ago

I can put anything in my mouth given enough willpower.

Edit: almost anything.

u/Mr_Phoenix_E 18h ago

To reiterate...

How do you fit that fork into your mouth??

u/Pikminicus 17h ago

Open wide like a gamecube :3

u/Mr_Phoenix_E 17h ago

The console that took mini-dvds because it was too small?

u/eatlikedirt AuDHD 17h ago

Carefully.

u/Bonnelli72 19h ago

Those are Monster Hunter weapon options

u/NetworkNo4478 AuDHD 19h ago

Beautiful Victorian (?) cutlery.

u/No-Routine-7598 Diagnosed with Autism, MSN 18h ago

What does autism have to do with cutlery?

u/Limitless-Reddit Suspecting AuADHD 19h ago

As cutlery or silverware, No, Ew, Yucky.

As weapons of order, Yes!

u/ilovemymomsomuchguys AuDHD 19h ago

i just shivered

u/FeaturelessPat 18h ago

I don't know about the fork but the knife looks a bit like my old cake knife. Nevertheless these are not for putting in your mouth.

u/Wise-Key-3442 ASD 18h ago

I'm not an expert in silverware, but I'm pretty sure those aren't meant to be near our plates. Seem more like to be the "server's tools".

u/LynksRacc Neurodivergent 19h ago

BAD

u/Melodic_Spot9522 Autistic 18h ago

NO

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u/Independent-Feed-372 18h ago

I don’t know if you eat with it but first I can taste the metallic and dust and then I think I would be interested in how the design feels on the tongue.

u/cuteanimals11 18h ago

Hell yeah

u/Kosh7226 18h ago

Are you trying to slay the dinner? That's an unrealisticly large knife.

u/Radiant-Chef-8810 18h ago

fuck yeah 🔥🔥🙏🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽

u/SnooDrawings6556 High functioning autism 18h ago

Beautiful ivory handle and engraving- perfect for serving a big fish at the table

u/DaStizzMan AuDHD 18h ago

I would use these to slay Norse Gods

u/SaintedStars 18h ago

Somewhere a demonic butler is looking for new weapons

u/Ariel-Luv 18h ago

"tism community" >.>

Anyway, the knife reminds me of a mini glaive, I think I'd find it quite fun to use. Probably not the fork though, the tines look far too wide. But still, this is just by looking at them in a picture, I'd need to actually hold them myself to know how they felt in my hands (and to use) before I could say anything for certain.

u/jupiter_surf Autistic Adult 17h ago

I can't tell if the 'tism' hurts more than the cutlery or not

u/Scorpio-says-no 19h ago

As tools, fine. Not anywhere near the mouth though.

u/luz-c-o 16h ago

because they’re not for your mouth

u/Number1Bg3Fan Autistic Adult 19h ago

Looks absolutely badass but I could probably never use it. The knife kinda reminds me of something you’d find in monster hunter 😂.

u/CF-Gamer4life 18h ago

Would be fun to see as a switch axe weapon lol. The fork being the axe and the life being the sword that is....

u/Number1Bg3Fan Autistic Adult 18h ago

Yessss! That’s so true. I was originally seeing the knife as like a greatsword or one part of a dual blade but it works so much better as a switch axe with the fork!

u/CF-Gamer4life 18h ago

And now I'm sad it isn't a real MH switch axe weapon because it would be fun if they made more silly weapons or at least layered gear for weapons 🥲

u/Number1Bg3Fan Autistic Adult 18h ago

Yeah I agree! It’s definitely sad coz I think it would look so cool.

u/CF-Gamer4life 18h ago

You weren't wrong about the dual blades idea. Make the fork one blade and the knife the other. Also a solid choice

u/Number1Bg3Fan Autistic Adult 18h ago

Awesome, I love that! I am a dual blade main so very much appeals.

u/CF-Gamer4life 18h ago

Would be fun to see as a switch axe weapon lol. The fork being the axe and the life being the sword that is....

u/raggedylemon 18h ago

It looks absolutely horrible to clean...all the grooves...

That said: that makes me want to turn inside out 

u/jeronreddit ASD Level 2 19h ago

Why. Just, why?

u/BrOwHaTtHe3 18h ago

WHAT ARE THOSE? MEDIEVAL WEAPONS?

u/Amriohacks 18h ago

The knife looks cool, hate the fork, would not use either of them

u/riz_ze--3971 18h ago

So scared

u/EinsamerZuhausi Autistic 18h ago

Firk and miniature machete with engravings

u/Mr_Phoenix_E 18h ago

Knife could be nice as an occasional novelty.

The fork is 8,000% a no go.

u/leeee_Oh MSN 18h ago

Unfriendly

u/oiseaufeux 18h ago

That knife would be my oil paint palette cleaner cause I never really clean it. And when it’s dried, it’s hard to clean it with my palette knives.

u/ledusu 18h ago

fork is slightly asymmetrical so I hate it I guess..

u/JurASSic_Fan0405 18h ago

Knife looks cool af

u/20Krpm 18h ago

Would kill in one go

u/UnicornGlitterLizard 18h ago

I feel like I'd end up dead if I used these at all.

u/Leading-Green9854 18h ago

This is serving cutlery and thus do not qualify as eating implements.

u/Haydenh3ll 18h ago

What the fuck is that

u/fivecoloursgirl 18h ago

that is a fivek - no words for that knife though

u/rmannyconda78 ASD Low Support Needs 18h ago

Looks like you would carve up and serve a roast suckling pig with this

u/Ganondorf7 18h ago

I like em! Wider the fork the better!

u/Impossible_Radio3322 18h ago

what the hell is that

u/-----fuck----- 18h ago

There's too much happening on them...

u/derSchokoladenkuchen 18h ago

They're pretty but I def would not want them in my mouth

u/friedbrice ADHD dx@6, ASD dx@39 18h ago

That is an amazing cuff!

u/jul0wl 18h ago

I feel threatened by them

u/pashmina_princess 18h ago

Visually YES Practicality Noooooo Me likely the tiniest of forks my lord.

u/Amethyst271 Suspecting ASD 18h ago

i hate how they look

u/Illithid_Substances 18h ago

I once had a spasm in my hand and stabbed myself in the back of the throat with a fork

I'm very glad it wasn't this fork

u/TerribleYou7914 ASD Level 2 + ADHD, HPD, GAD (Diagnosed) 18h ago

Ew

No

No

No

No

No

u/Cocostar319 18h ago

That's a cutlass, not a knife. You can't fool me lol

u/shprotiks 18h ago

I'm scared for my mouth safety with this fork

u/DKBeahn 18h ago

There were no forks IN medieval times, so there are no forks AT Medieval Times...wait...OK, I guess there were forks in medieval times, still none at Medieval Times. Would you like a refill on your Pepsi?

u/billiemint 18h ago

Love. Would collect.

u/TwinSong Autistic adult 18h ago

They look more like weapons than food-related.

u/dochitaidosta 18h ago

Fork - I like handles on my fork but that is too much fork for my mouth, could be used to pick up clementine slices if you are feeling fancy.

Knife - Looks good enough to cut through the baguettes I eat, other than that, mainly only for decoration.

u/sirayaball watch enthusiast 18h ago

I’ll take your entire stock 

u/RozeTheWitch 18h ago

HATE ;-;

u/Soup_oi 17h ago

Good looking, sexy looking even. But I don't think I will ever encounter anything that they would need to actually be used on/with. They look like something I'd put up in the kitchen in a frame as decor, not something I'd actually use.

u/CassieSkzz 17h ago

Get that away from me

u/Bunbun2024 17h ago

Pretty to look at or for decor Burn them for any other purpose besides that.

u/wiseguy4519 17h ago

Looks cool, but I wouldn't eat with them

u/Unusual-Jackfruit741 Neurodivergent 17h ago

This has some serious Klingon style dining vibes going on.

u/GreenDreamForever 17h ago

I feel like I am visiting gandma's house. (If I had a grandma).

u/Opposite_of_Icarus 17h ago

They look like they're gonna give you lead poisoning lol

u/cumadam Diagnosed ADHD, Suspecting Audhd 17h ago

That's not a knife, that's a fucking glaive.

u/lyra-88 17h ago

VIKING UTENSILS!

u/Alkemian 17h ago

A stabby-stabby and mini-scimitar? I digg it.

u/MountainDrew757 17h ago

I want the little guandao

u/Lapis-lad 17h ago

Are you 9 feet tall?

u/earnhart67 17h ago

Bad fork amazing back scratcher

u/lola_the_lesbian AuDHD 17h ago

That

Is

A

Crime

u/EndMaster0 17h ago

as a piece of art they're beautiful. As serving utensils I feel they'd be a bit impractical for daily use but fine for special occasions. As eating utensils they'd be completely impractical and horrendous to use

u/magicmammoth 17h ago

For eating or murder?

u/RoultRunning 17h ago

Cast it into the fire! Destroy it!

u/ResponsibilityNo8076 17h ago

These are for display only Unless there's a home invader

u/AGoodDragon 17h ago

The only thing that bothers me is that fucking fork has 5 prongs why

u/-paprikaaa- autistic/adhd with misophonia and anxiety/depression 17h ago

the knife....ew......the texture might be gross. but the fork could be used for cake

u/DifficultComb4430 17h ago

No is a full scentence

u/EquivalentOwn2185 17h ago

server utensils as regular utensils = physics 👌 i like it.

u/Sweezy_Clooch 17h ago

It'd be such a power move to invite someone over for dinner, give them regular silverware, and whip these out for yourself

u/Interesting-Ad1352 17h ago

Cool display piece

u/Small-Kaleidoscope-4 17h ago

Now ik damn well aint nobody eatin with these

u/Emergency-Dog7669 17h ago

You need an over sized set of dininchairs and table to go with it. Along with oversized plates and other diningware. Then you can rp being a hobbit

u/Loser-In-A-Hoodie ASD Level 1 17h ago

Idk anything, but the knife looks cool and I want it

u/Noimnotareddituser 17h ago

Irrationally angry

u/Fluffy_Town 17h ago

Pretty. Wouldn't eat with it.

u/Roryguy 17h ago

too many prongs on the fork for me

u/stoner-bug Autism is stored in the balls 17h ago

I loveeeee that knife

u/crook888 17h ago

Shmancy n useless

u/AxDeath 17h ago

Are you about to eat or battle Godfrey the First Elden Lord

u/lilsiibee07 Late-diagnosed autistic female 17h ago

Where did you get these medieval weapons from? /j

u/zorreX Self-Diagnosed 17h ago

Wow I've never seen a fivek before. Plenty of threeks and twoks, but never a fivek.

u/Round_Arachnid3765 AuDHD 17h ago

Now THIS is how you eat food!

The bigger the better

u/help_pls_2112 ASD Level 2 16h ago

my grandmother has a very similar looking set hung up on her kitchen wall next to some decorative copper ladles

u/MixMasterPants 16h ago

Horrifying.

u/SirLlama123 16h ago

it’s a fivek

u/autisticgarnet ASD Moderate Support Needs 16h ago

Well, the first question that comes to my mind is: How do you eat with these?

u/IAmFullOfDed AuDHD 16h ago

Silverware that’s actually made of silver? Fuck. Yes.

u/aeb9818 16h ago

Hard pass 😅😭💯

I'm physically uncomfortable after seeing this haha

u/angry-key-smash6693 16h ago

They're pretty enough for me to want to stab the individual who designed and crafted this, there is no other use for it

u/xxbluetifulaliix245 hyperfixated on making stories 📖 16h ago

Too much metal

u/KittyKatKombo2 16h ago

that’s not a fork anymore that’s a fivek. and the tiny pirate sword knife looks fun but not very practical

u/Upbeat-alien 16h ago

The knife looks good for spreading icing on a big old sponge cake.

u/corvus_da 16h ago

very pretty, not good for eating

u/Javayandere 16h ago

I WANT THE VIKING UTENSILS GIMME THE PRETTY FORK

u/ILoveYouZim High functioning autism 16h ago

BURN THEM

u/alldogsareperfect ASD Level 1 16h ago

Sick

u/No_Age5019 16h ago

I feel like I'm going to war.

u/Practical-Owl-5365 AuDHD 16h ago

omg i want that

u/Actual_Swingset 16h ago

NO WHERE NEAR THE MOUTH but they are pretty

u/JASPERKV ASD Moderate Support Needs 16h ago

That fork should be classified as a weapon, as for the knife I would LOVE that for spreads, it looks like it’d be incredibly smooth

u/Willow-Whispered 16h ago

I like the fivek, I think it would stab my tongue if I used it as a fork but it would be worth it

u/siththebasementpanda 16h ago

are we back in the 1400s and eating dinner with an English king?

u/Otherwiseclueless ASD Level 2 16h ago

I feel near blinding rage at seeing this same post every single time I open this God damned sub.

'How do we feel about' 'how do we feel about' 'HoW Do We FeEl AbOuT'

u/EmmyWolf222 16h ago

That’s foul

u/SurfinRay12 AuDHD 16h ago

THIS IS NOT ALLOWED

u/Best_Egg_6199 16h ago

Am i the only one that doesn't care about the shape of my forks and spoons? I see so many photos online about it and it confuses me... Is that a austim trait????

u/Same-Rise-7286 16h ago

I like them...... Just about the size for my big old bear paws....🤣 Seriously tho, I have big hands, I like big things..... I like bigger, heavier utensils. & the more unique it is the more I like it...

u/DragonOfCulture The father (autism) son (ADHD) and holy Spirit (OCD) 16h ago

Using that knife for something else because It doesn't deserve to be used as a knife.

Like that would make an awesome weapon.

u/dt7cv ASD Level 2 16h ago

brass

u/Cartoon_Fan69 15h ago

I really love the knife (it has a silly shape!) but the pronks on the fork just look weird to me

u/kuroicoeur 15h ago

I need a miniaturized version to eat with but also if that is cleaned with anything but a brush I will scream

u/Optimal-Note9264 asd adhd ocd bpd 15h ago

OH HELLLLLL NAH

u/_MotherOfVermin_ 15h ago

Pretty but I'd rather starve.

u/AOhKayy 15h ago

The knife is very pretty at least, but the fork is stressing me out tbh.

u/natarata13 15h ago

I actually want to throw up I don’t care that it’s not for dining why do they look like that yuck

u/LordHiler ASD Level 2, OCD, ADHD 19h ago

Burn it with fire.

u/giraffe912 Autism, ADHD, Tourette’s, OCD, RLS 18h ago

These are for stabbing your mortal enemy, not for food.

u/antmanfan3911 18h ago

HELL NAW

u/EpicMuttonChops AuDHD 18h ago

For display only

u/ShadowEnderWolf56 Diagnosed 2024, ASD Level 1/2 18h ago

My eyes!

u/Indorilionn diagnosed asperger's 18h ago

I would go to battle with those. I would not use them as cutlery.

u/jcb127 Aspie 18h ago

I hate it

u/AffectionateDelay921 ASD 18h ago

COLLECT IT NEED (would never use it only keep it as display)