r/blackcats Dec 10 '24

Mourning Kitty was rescued over 14 years ago, and from the day I met him, he demanded I bathe him. He crossed over yesterday and I miss him so much πŸ˜žπŸ–€

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u/JamesMosesAngleton Dec 10 '24

Straight to heaven, little guy. The angels can groom you now.

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

Most definitely πŸ₯ΉπŸͺ½πŸŒˆ

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u/jdubya12880 Dec 10 '24

Looks like he was a gentleman. Sorry for your loss. Keep your head up and memories strong.

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

He sure was!!! Thank you πŸˆβ€β¬›πŸ–€

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u/Pungent_Bill Dec 10 '24

Evidently you bathed him well, human

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

I was honoured to be his servant πŸ–€πŸ˜ž

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u/Pungent_Bill Dec 10 '24

I'm high and I'm sorry if this appears inappropriate to say but I can't decide whether the slightly sad eyes of the 2nd pic are looking through the lens of the camera in that moment to witness your sadness in this moment, or I am merely being slightly infected by your grief at having lost a loved one, having also done. It'll never quite be the same

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

I appreciate you sharing, and assure you it is not inappropriate at all. Kitty was fondly referred to as The Oracle in our household, because he had such soulful eyes. He always looked so deep in thought (and slightly sad at times 😭), so I’m glad you’re able to see that. πŸˆβ€β¬›πŸ–€πŸŒˆπŸŒ€

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u/olhamariaa Dec 10 '24

wow, yes, very expressive cat indeed, i’m sure he felt your emotions and kept you company at all moments. he’ll do that forever, op. my heart hugs yours. πŸ’œ

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u/Esme145 Dec 10 '24

Sorry for your loss he is a cute little guy

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

Thanks so much 😒 He was truly one of a kind πŸ–€

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u/giantwalrus56 Dec 10 '24

Sorry for your loss. Remember the great times, not the heartbreak you feel right now. You are both better for the times you shared

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

Most definitely πŸ–€πŸ™πŸ½πŸˆβ€β¬›

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u/ResearchOk3380 Dec 10 '24

Precious baby boy πŸ’™

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

Such a baby πŸ˜’πŸ–€

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u/bubbleskj Dec 10 '24

I'm so sorry for your loss. It never gets easier to say goodbye.❀️

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

So true 😭 Thank you πŸˆβ€β¬›

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u/annrkea πŸ–€ Dec 10 '24

Look at that handsome boy! He was so loved, and so were you. β™₯οΈπŸˆβ€β¬›

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

πŸ₯ΉπŸ₯Ή Thank you for appreciating his beauty πŸ–€

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u/[deleted] Dec 10 '24

Precious

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u/EidelonofAsgard Dec 10 '24

So sorry for your loss.

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

Many thanks! πŸ™πŸ½ πŸ’™πŸ˜’

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u/Even_Section5620 Dec 10 '24

Sorry for your loss, very handsome fella

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

Thank you πŸ™πŸ½πŸ™πŸ½πŸ™πŸ½πŸ™πŸ½πŸ™πŸ½πŸ™πŸ½

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u/7865435 Dec 10 '24

The rainbow bridge where he will always be warm and frolic with other kitties he is in a happy place

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

Thank you πŸ–€πŸŒˆ

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u/karmaisourfriend Dec 10 '24

He will be waiting for you ❀️

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

I truly believe that! πŸ–€ Thank you πŸ™πŸ½

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u/7865435 Dec 10 '24

Stinker is my baby and she will be 7in June I m 62 and she will be the last pet I'll ever own ,I don't need to die and leave a pet to starve to death

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u/7865435 Dec 10 '24

Hoping stinker has a few Years left

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

She’s so cute πŸ₯ΉπŸ–€

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u/7865435 Dec 10 '24

My baby stinker

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u/Truthseeker-001 Dec 10 '24

I’m so sorry. He was a handsome boy. Thank you for loving and caring for him. The positive he crossed over the rainbow bridge KNOWING he was a very loved boy. Sadly too many don’t have that. Hugs.

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

Thank you for this. I will be doing more to help other kitties in need in his honor. I wish I could rescue and love them all πŸ–€

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u/Truthseeker-001 Dec 10 '24

I have NO doubt you will. Your post showed me you are a good human. I feel so many will benefit from your kind heart, compassion and love. I wish you nothing but the absolute best. Take Care. πŸ™πŸΌβ€οΈπŸ€—

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u/MooneyOne Dec 10 '24

Aww, I’m sorry. I hope to get at least one bath in with either of my cats, but that seems extremely unlikely at 5 and 7yo. What a unique little guy.

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

Aww, maybe one day they will randomly decide to join you! My calico started expressing interest lately, seemingly out of the blue! Perhaps she finally realized it’s a great way to get more attention.

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u/MooneyOne Dec 11 '24

Imagine if she’s just humoring you?

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u/akaals Dec 10 '24

I’m very sorry for your loss. May your time as Kitty’s staff be a blessing. πŸ’”

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

Such an honour! πŸ–€πŸˆβ€β¬›πŸ™πŸ½

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u/notyourmama827 Dec 10 '24

I'm so sorry for your loss πŸ’™ πŸ«‚

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

Thank you so much πŸ–€

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u/IM-Vine Dec 10 '24

All my love you OP. You are not alone. We all have lost our babies.

They are in kitty heaven. Thank you for being a wonderful parent. Take solace in the fact you filled them with love.

Thank you for being an awesome human.

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

Thank you for the kind words πŸ–€ I imagine he’s in heaven anticipating the new season of Dexter. We can watch together again one day. He was my constant companion πŸ˜­πŸ–€

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u/7865435 Dec 10 '24

It's always a sad day when a kitty passes

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u/7865435 Dec 10 '24

This made me cry

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

Hugs πŸ˜’πŸ–€πŸˆβ€β¬›

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u/meowqct Dec 10 '24

Losing a beloved cat hurts so much. My sincere condolences, op.

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

Thank you πŸͺ½πŸ’™

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u/LushDogg99 Dec 10 '24

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

πŸ–€πŸ–€πŸ–€πŸ–€πŸ–€

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u/Blkmgcwmnjlm Dec 10 '24

THIS ⬆️

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u/Longjumping-Theory44 Dec 10 '24

πŸ˜”πŸ™πŸ’•πŸˆβ€β¬›πŸ’•πŸ˜˜

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u/jbarneswilson Dec 10 '24

πŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œ

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u/Trailergem_24 Dec 10 '24

Aww, precious baby.

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u/Bitter_Pineapple_882 Dec 10 '24

A cat who liked baths? That one was very special! My condolences.

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

He had his very own washcloths, and would patiently await his turn. Truly special πŸˆβ€β¬› As a tiny baby, he would jump in, lol

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u/Mabbernathy Dec 10 '24

What a handsome gentleman!

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u/Elemcie Dec 10 '24

πŸ–€πŸ–€πŸ–€

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u/FlipFlopPantyDrop Dec 10 '24

I lost my 17yo best friend in March and I can tell you it didn't feel like it will, but I does get better <3 And remember that he's most likely getting someone ready to keep an eye on you for him <3

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

Sorry for your loss πŸ’™πŸͺ½

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u/Chrissy6388 Dec 10 '24

He was beautiful! Sending love your way 🌈

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

πŸ’™πŸ’™πŸ’™πŸ’™πŸ’™πŸ’™πŸ™πŸ½

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u/methromine Dec 10 '24

Such a beautiful boy ❀️

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

The sweetest demeanor πŸˆβ€β¬›πŸ–€

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u/v123345555555555 Dec 10 '24

Lost my little girl of 15 years yesterday. I know the pain you’re feeling.

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

I’m so sorry for your loss 😒 πŸ–€πŸŒˆπŸ–€

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u/HalloweenPapi28 Dec 10 '24

Sorry for your loss 🩡. Kitty is at peace in Heaven.

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

For sure! Endless snacks and baths 🧼 πŸ’™πŸͺ½

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u/Ayellowbeard Dec 10 '24

This hit home! Our Theo is 14! Sorry for your loss!

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

Please give Theo extra kisses if he permits those πŸ–€

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u/Ayellowbeard Dec 10 '24

He does and I will while thinking about your Kitty!

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u/Redmonkey_71 Dec 10 '24

Im so sorry for your loss 🌈❀️

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

πŸ™πŸ½πŸ’™πŸŒˆ

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u/DarkGoron Dec 10 '24

Looks like my boy that went a few years ago rip

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

πŸ–€πŸˆβ€β¬›πŸ–€

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u/FireFlyNightSky Dec 10 '24

Sorry for your loss.

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

πŸ™πŸ½πŸ’™

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u/Dude-with-hat Dec 10 '24

I had a black cat pass two February ago same story. Loved baths

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

Sorry your your loss πŸ–€πŸˆβ€β¬› Some of them are just so different, lol πŸ’™πŸ’™

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u/aldo_rossi Dec 10 '24

πŸ˜₯πŸ˜₯πŸ˜₯❀️❀️❀️ sorry for your loss. My Nero passed during the pandemic, and I still lose it when I tead posts like yours. You gave him a great life!

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

Aww, Nero 😭😭😭 Thank you πŸ–€πŸˆβ€β¬›

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u/TadpoleIll4886 Dec 10 '24

What an amazing life. I feel your pain, as I lost my boy 4 days ago. Reach out if you want support , I’m here for you.

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

Sorry for your loss πŸ˜’πŸ–€

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u/commanderofmyrmidon Dec 10 '24

I am so very sorry for your loss... he looked so very handsome πŸ’™

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

Thank you! πŸ™πŸ½

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u/Nibzynoo Dec 10 '24

There isn’t anything that can be said to make your pain go away, just know that you have given that rescue kitty the best 14 years ever.

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

I did my best! Thank you πŸ™πŸ½

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u/Ok-Bullfrog-4339 Dec 10 '24

I am so sorry for your loss.

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

πŸ™πŸ½πŸ™πŸ½

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u/patchworkpirate Dec 10 '24

I am so sorry for the loss of your sweet void. He looks like he was the most distinguished gentleman.

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

Thank you πŸ™πŸ½ He was such a love bug πŸ–€

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u/badsteff94 Dec 10 '24

THAT LOOKS LIKE MY OLD GUY! WE GOT THIS GUY IN 1999 AND HE WAS AN ADULT CAT!! I AM SORRY ABOUT YOUR OLD GUYS PASSING, I KNOW WHEN MY GUY PASSES HE HAD A WONDERFUL LIFE

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u/badsteff94 Dec 10 '24

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

Aww, so cute! Kisses for him! πŸ–€

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u/RowanWhiteWoods Dec 10 '24

Sorry for your loss. What a handsome fellow he was. Take care.

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

πŸ–€πŸˆβ€β¬› Thank you!

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u/DesignerSuccessful35 Dec 10 '24

I'm so sorry for your loss. He is such a handsome boy and looks so comfortable and well taken care of. I know you have given him a fantastic life. R.I.P.

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

Thank you for the kind words πŸ–€πŸ–€πŸ–€ He was very loved and doted on.

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u/Verias83 Dec 10 '24

Look at that fancy man in a bow tie. He has joined my furbaby across the rainbow bridge and hopefully in enjoying himself playing with all the other furbabies.

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

May they all have the best time together πŸˆβ€β¬›πŸ–€πŸˆβ€β¬›

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u/[deleted] Dec 10 '24

I am so sorry for your loss

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

Thank you πŸˆβ€β¬›πŸ–€

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u/Sammieluvsrose Dec 10 '24

I lost my 21 year old baby 5 days ago, I know how you feel 😒 sending love and positivity ❀️ he’s up there chasing mice with my Sophie

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

Oh no, so sorry for your loss πŸ˜’πŸ–€

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u/[deleted] Dec 10 '24

He was a handsome little thing. Love the bowtie.

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

πŸ–€πŸˆβ€β¬›

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u/[deleted] Dec 10 '24

Aw
You reckon you'll get another one?
When mine passed I didn't think I could take the heartbreak again. Then covid hit and a neighbour was trying to get rid of kittens. So now I have good boy 2, who also rocks a bowtie. I've also discovered that half my street feeds him because of the cute tie! He's a little prostitiute :p

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

Haha awww, you have a smart one!! I have two other senior kitties at home, but will definitely keep my heart open πŸ₯ΉπŸ–€πŸˆβ€β¬› I always say that I want to be a billionaire (the oddity that didn’t exploit the masses) JUST for the sole purpose of having the means to save them all. I would have dozens if i had the means.

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u/AlternativeWindow669 Dec 10 '24

ugh I’m so sorry for your lossπŸ–€πŸ’”

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

Thank you πŸ–€

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u/TripleBanjo357 Dec 10 '24

Our fur friends always go too soon. When they're gone, they leave a grief-lined hole. May your grief soon be filled by fond memories of the time you were together ❀️

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

I appreciate your words. Thank you πŸ–€

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u/Deleted_User_1 Dec 10 '24

πŸ’”

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

πŸˆβ€β¬›πŸ–€

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u/[deleted] Dec 10 '24

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

Beautiful πŸ’™

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u/RouxBingo1028 Dec 10 '24

Handsome. I just lost my sweet boy too. Love to you.

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

So sorry to hear πŸ˜’πŸ–€ Stay strong 🌈

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u/acerjt61 Dec 10 '24

Kitty was quite the handsome one! I am truly sorry for your loss and I know all too well the hole left behind when they’re gone. They really are wonderful creatures. The love for them stays with you. πŸ™πŸ˜’πŸŒˆπŸ’”πŸΎπŸˆβ€β¬›

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

They love us unconditionally and teach us so much. Thank you for the kind words πŸ–€

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u/Striking_Ad_6501 Dec 10 '24

Dam :3 how you doing

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

Honestly, trying to distract myself 😞πŸ₯Ή

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u/ckh69 Dec 10 '24

I’m so sorry for your loss. The two of you had a special bond. I’m sure when your time comes the you will meet again 🩷

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

I can only hope! πŸ–€πŸ™πŸ½ Thank you!!

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u/ckh69 Dec 10 '24

I hope to be surrounded by all my little furry family members and hubby I’ve loved. πŸ™πŸ©·

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

A reunion to look forward to!! πŸͺ½

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u/Dazzling_Hunt_5630 Dec 10 '24

Because of you, he knew love, kindness and beauty. He had a wonderful life and his spirit lives in our hearts and minds. Sending you and your loved ones all the thoughts and prayers for peace and warmth. He watches over you now

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

I appreciate your kind words πŸ–€πŸ–€πŸ–€πŸ–€

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u/Dazzling_Hunt_5630 Dec 10 '24

It’s my pleasure. He looks so much like my kitty and my heart goes out to you

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u/Doctor_Toe Dec 10 '24

I am so sorry for your loss. You're not alone.

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u/Dependent-Block5875 Dec 10 '24

πŸ™πŸ’•πŸΎπŸΎ

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

πŸ–€πŸˆβ€β¬›πŸ–€

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u/Southern-Mall Dec 10 '24

I’m sure you gave him 14 years of love!!

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 10 '24

I like to think so!! πŸ™πŸ½πŸ™πŸ½

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u/TobyDaMan8894 Dec 10 '24

Rest In Power sweet Kitty. πŸˆβ€β¬› wait for you human at the rainbow 🌈 bridge.

So sorry for your loss, my Diamond is 14.

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 11 '24

Extra snuggles for Diamond πŸ’ŽπŸ–€

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u/Queenpitbull202 Dec 10 '24

πŸ–€πŸ–€πŸ–€πŸ–€

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 11 '24

πŸΎπŸˆβ€β¬›πŸ–€

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u/Jewlzkitty Dec 10 '24

I’m so sorry for your loss πŸ’”

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 11 '24

πŸ–€πŸˆβ€β¬›πŸ–€

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u/goat-logic Dec 10 '24

Your second picture looks so much like my guy. He's 18 and I'm not looking forward to when he's no longer with me. You where my favorite hello, but my hardest goodbye. 🌈 πŸˆβ€β¬› πŸ–€

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 11 '24

Aww, cheers for 18 years!! πŸˆβ€β¬›πŸΎ

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u/ShadowPirate114 Dec 11 '24

So sorry for your loss. There's just no getting over this one.

I can't say it gets any easier because I still miss my boy so horribly, but what I found really healing was just to write down everything we had and my feelings. It forced me to address my grief, and hopefully, at some point soon, I'll be able to remember all the past shenanigans with a smile rather than just pain.

You can look at my profile and see what I wrote. It really did help.

Wishing you all the best and I hope you can feel comfort that you were there for your little guy, his entire life.

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 11 '24

Will definitely look it up! I appreciate you sharing πŸ–€ Thank you πŸ™πŸ½

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u/justanormalchat Dec 11 '24

I’m so sorry 😞 it’s never easy and he looks like a perfect baby πŸ’” πŸ–€

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 11 '24

So purrfect πŸˆβ€β¬›πŸΎπŸ–€πŸ₯Ή

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u/tdawg782020 Dec 11 '24

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 11 '24

I love this, thank you πŸˆβ€β¬›

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u/tdawg782020 Dec 11 '24

Your welcome

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u/mawky_jp Dec 11 '24

Aww, sorry to hear that. He was a majestic cat. πŸ’—

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 12 '24

Thank you!! πŸ™πŸ½ πŸˆβ€β¬›πŸΎ

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u/Heebie-jeebies386 Dec 12 '24

These post rip my heart put every time . I am void addicted . Every time one passes I adopt another one . I will have a void til,the day I’m gone . Each has a special place in my heart and each has been different . Every one I’ve had has been the sweetest of my cats . Moms aren’t supposed to have favorites , but I can’t help it . I’ve always gravitated to the underdog , and because people are still superstitious they don’t get adopted as frequently . Therefore they are the first thing I look for . I’m sorry for your loss . As soon as you feel up to it go rescue a πŸˆβ€β¬› .

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 12 '24

They are definitely the sweetest, and I have the same sentiments about favourites 😭😭😭😭😭 I’ve had a total of three black kitties for the same reason you chose them, and would probably only choose black cats. They just have so much love to offer and are still so often overlooked πŸ–€πŸˆβ€β¬›πŸΎ

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u/Heebie-jeebies386 Dec 12 '24

πŸ’―percent .

This is my current boy . I love large cats, and males Tend to be snugglers .

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 12 '24

And this one looks like my Hannibal, lol. Snuggles for life!

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u/Heebie-jeebies386 Dec 12 '24

This is my previous void (Igor) . I still miss sleeping with him. He would press his forehead to Mine and purr like a motorboat.

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 12 '24

Awww πŸ₯° He was beautiful 😻 Looks like my Hannah, that passed in 2020 πŸ–€

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u/u53rnam3tak3n Dec 12 '24

My condolences.

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u/Disastrous_Task2344 Dec 12 '24

Thank you πŸ™πŸ½