How Not To Give A Fuck Anymore

[u/Clean_Discussion2990]

My boyfriend of 2 years said he not into having sex with me anymore. It done gt boring and tired of it, and not into it anymore. He just just worried about making money that's it , how can you tell me it's boring. He said we done it too much now, he told me that's my problem that all i think about we ned to jux be thinking about making money.

I said how do I not think about it when we only have sex now one every 2 weeks, which is twice a month. He told me maybe I should leave little bit, I was going to go the day of he told me I don't have to go. Nothing has changed no talk of sex no kiss no touch. He told me he don't have to do that anymore but loves me.

I am going to just move on Thursday why stay with someone if I have to go through this. I said it use to not be this way said why now all opinions appreciated thanks.

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[u/luigi636]

Time to leave, that's that.

[u/Honest_Richard → u/luigi636]

I’m just going to hijack the top post to ask you guys what yesterday was, what the title of this sub is, and what the contents of post describe.

r/whoosh

[u/mizeeyore]

Some people just don't know how to say the party's over. And these are the same people that really have no reason to end it. Mostly avoidants, sometimes full blown narcissists do this.

[u/Nice_Calligrapher452]

Didnt really understand grammatically what this post is saying but I get the gist. The communication here (between you and your bf) sounds very poor and the relationship sounds stale. For your own sake, just break up with him. Try to avoid an argument and just make it happen. Be nice, be mean, be truthful, or straight up lie about why you want to break up, it does not matter. Just break up and focus on yourself.

Why? It's quite obvious, you are in a relationship with someone who is not meant for you. You have spent enough time to get to know them and now you know that being in a relationship with them is a pain and you really don't need to deal with that when there's SO MANY potential partners out there. On the other hand, you also need time to reflect what you did to make them feel this way, how you act, how you react. This way, in the next relationship, you can be more aware of your negative traits as well as red flags for you.

[u/cbreez411]

This is when a man is tired of the relationship

[u/pudingrid]

Signs that something changed Maybe he is having some trouble and don’t want to talk about it (like he is really desperate) - but this isn’t an excuse bcs in a relationship it’s necessary to have a good communication about problems, so….

Maybe he is cheating on u, bcs he will look for sex if he still wanting you(at least that’s what every man says)

Ask yourself if u want to try some real conversation about it or just really end this for your own peace ✌️

[u/[deleted]]

Jesus Christ you boyfriend has a clone! I’ve went through the same exact thing recently

[u/mushroompizzadad]

Maybe hes not just focusing on money. Maybe he is focusing on weiners?

[u/Adorable-Trip-1519]

He’s trying to lower your self esteem and control you, he doesn’t love you. Got to leave as this will only get worse. Take it from someone who was treated like this 3 months into a relationship, and stayed for 5 years. It’s not you, it’s him.

[u/Fun_Quit_312]

Find someone else to fuck. Just that simple.

[u/Ok-Hat1260]

Excuse me? Please don’t lower yourself worth for settling for somebody that treats you this way you deserve better, just leave and find it.

[u/LuvLifts]

~Something happened, then ~MAYBE Find out what had HAPPENED!! Apologize, Sincerely and SEE If that HELPS!??

[u/Yokomo_Hoyo]

Honest questions: 1. How much do you weight? 2. Is he Jewish?

[u/I_Dont_Stutter]

It's ok OP, I won't get bored of laying pipe in you 😜