TLDR: I graduated last semester with a B.S. ME, the job hunt has been miserable, and I've never felt so lost in my life. I'm (desperately) seeking any guidance on starting my career, navigating into the right industries, and finding the right path. I've spent a lot of time trying to figure this out but a lot of information I find is either outdated or not particularly relevant to me.
About me: I have really solid internship experience that involved engineering work like CAD, GD&T, R&D, as well as some unique product and project management work at a brake OEM. In school I was interested in thermodynamics and fluids, especially turbomachinery, gas turbine engines, and ICEs. I was quite good with the coding projects (MATLAB) and enjoy doing that. My senior project was a massive conceptual aerospace project, in which I did a lot of independent research on aircraft design.
As you probably deduced, I've been targeting the aerospace industry as that is where (I think) my passion lies within the broad scope of ME. I am yet to have any success getting my foot in. At the same time, I often think about software engineering and how computers/coding has been an interest of mine. I considered majoring in CS and sometimes feel like maybe I should've. I even taught myself C# so I could program and develop my own games in Unity.
My questions: How can I get into the aerospace industry? Is it worth starting in another industry and will it be realistic to switch? What other industries or positions should I seek, given I like to code? Is it worth pursuing SWE even though I already got an ME degree? What are valuable roles employers NEED and are really looking for?
I know I'm just spilling a lot of random info here but overall I just don't know what to do now that I graduated. I've had 3 months of thinking, applying to jobs, and more thinking, to the point where I am second-guessing every thought I have.
Please help me straighten my head out! I'd appreciate any and all thoughts or questions. Thank you for taking the time to read this.