r/mildlyinfuriating 11h ago

I wanted a customized embroidered sweater of my deceased cat. Here’s the picture of my cat I sent in vs the sweater I received

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u/bowiesux 10h ago

hey op what area are you in? i embroider quite a bit and i'm willing to try and fix it up for you (for free), i live in canada so if you're in another country shopping might be a bit much, but i hate to see this stuff happening to grieving people :(

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u/whoreforchalupas 9h ago

This is so incredibly kind of you

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u/tatk_tale310 9h ago

So incredibly Canadian (complimentary).

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u/concertcuntie 7h ago

Wow you are so sweet. Thank you so much for the offer, I’m from Ontario. However I wouldn’t be able to take any work for free, thank you though. So appreciated

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u/bowiesux 5h ago

of course🩷 the offer is still on the table if you want, just dm me anytime. but i completely understand that. i'm very sorry for your loss of your baby🫶🏻

u/milly_moonstoned 47m ago

don’t think of it as free, it’s a donation for your loss.

my heart feels for you 🥺🫶🏻

u/concertcuntie 33m ago

That’s such a sweet comment, thank you❤️

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u/AwkwardDorkyNerd PURPLE 8h ago

Hey, you probably already know this, but you’re an amazing individual. The world needs more people like you. Please never stop being a beacon of light.

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u/AcadianViking 9h ago

You are good people. World needs more like you.

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u/Primary_Writer6608 11h ago

Okay I need to know how much you paid for this item. That's what's going to determine HOW upset I'd be lol

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u/concertcuntie 11h ago

$80🙃 it was worth it to me because it was my second time purchasing from them and they did a great job the first time. Not sure what happened here

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u/JCtheWanderingCrow 10h ago

It honestly looks like they mixed up yours with another order, especially if you’ve ordered from them before and had good results.

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u/concertcuntie 10h ago

That’s what I thought too but after contacting them, it wasn’t a mixup

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u/JCtheWanderingCrow 9h ago

Woof. They should be embarrassed then, that’s not even remotely the same cat!

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u/AncientNectarine 9h ago

I think you mean meow?

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u/Moistfruitcake 9h ago

If you squint really fucking hard then they look fairly similar.

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u/catshateTERFs 8h ago

Got ears, eyes and whiskers at least!

They’re not even the same colour, sorry this company did you dirty OP!

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u/itsveron 7h ago

I went all the way and closed my eyes, it's all good now.

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u/Specialist-Web7854 2h ago

In the dark.

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u/Personal_Good_5013 6h ago

It looks like they just did the wrong color thread for the lighter color parts, otherwise it’s really not bad. 

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u/concertcuntie 6h ago

No it really is that bad, thank you.

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u/Berdzerd 10h ago

Do you have a picture of the first one?

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u/Impossible-River3399 4h ago

I second this!

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u/No-Strawberry-5804 11h ago

Time for a one star review on Google

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u/FallOdd5098 5h ago

If it was a dog he could use Yelp.

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u/AltruisticCucumber58 11h ago

The third cat is looking nervous now.

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u/C_beside_the_seaside 2h ago

Contrast issues, whoever processed the image into the embroidery machine file left it too dark to pick out any tabby stripes except the ones above the eyes.

Just lost my soulmate cat, I feel you 🖤

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u/A_very_smol_Lugia 8h ago

Jesus I could get a digital mario kart game for that price

Do they not do refunds

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u/robjohnlechmere 11h ago

Oh! Oh this is much better than I hoped. When you said you wanted a sweater of your deceased cat, what I pictured was... disquieting.

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u/PotentialLow6772 10h ago

I too thought it was woven out of hair balls

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u/GomerStuckInIowa 11h ago

What examples did you see from this company that made you choose them? Did they not show you a proof before they made the face? I agree it’s far from close. Was it just the patch or the whole outfit? Super angry if was the whole outfit. If not, then went didn’t you return it?

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u/concertcuntie 11h ago

The pictures online showed that the company embroiders as much detail as possible, and this was actually my second time purchasing from them. The first time I got a sweater for my friend of her dogs, and they did an incredible job. They do not show the sketch before embroidering it. I didn’t return it because they wanted me to pay for the shipping back which was basically half the price of what I paid already

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u/EssieAmnesia 11h ago

You really should return it. They will keep doing this as long as they can get away with it. Alternatively, try to do a charge back through your bank.

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u/concertcuntie 11h ago

I tried to get them to pay for the shipping back and all they did was offer me an $8 refund which I didn’t take. A lot of back and fourth and I did end up doing a chargeback which went through

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u/EssieAmnesia 10h ago

I’m glad you did a chargeback! I hope I didnt come off as bossy or snarky. Usually I’d go the same route as you originally but for $80 they really should be delivering what they’re advertising. I’m so sorry about your cat and I hope you can honor their memory in another way.

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u/concertcuntie 10h ago

No not at all:) thank you so much though. I ended up buying a star and named it after him instead. Planning on throwing out the sweater soon

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u/bellefante 10h ago

Maybe sell it online for cheap? Other people will see it as just a random cat design

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u/Particular-Peanut-64 7h ago

Instead of tossing Donate it to a cat rescue for a fundraising raffle item

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u/concertcuntie 7h ago

That’s actually a good idea thank you!

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u/EssieAmnesia 10h ago

That’s so sweet! Your little star going home

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u/Chihuahuapocalypse 10h ago

I was ona sy pu should put it in the sane box it came in and write "return to sender"

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u/No-Strawberry-5804 11h ago

I was gonna say maybe they mixed it up but since they're trying to make you pay shipping then they just sound like a shitty company. I'm sorry you didn't get your picture of your baby

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u/redgatoradeeeeee 10h ago

There are reputable retailers that do this. I got one for my boyfriend on Etsy and they sent me a proof before it was produced so I knew what it was going to look like. I’m sorry you got scammed.

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u/Crayzeemike 10h ago

OP said they used them before and they were good

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u/AwkwardDorkyNerd PURPLE 8h ago

Hey OP, I’m so sorry for your loss, and for not getting what you paid for. If you need someone to talk to, my DMs are open to talk about your beloved cat, and all the good times you had together. I hope brighter times are in store for you.

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u/concertcuntie 8h ago

You are so sweet, thank you❤️

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u/AwkwardDorkyNerd PURPLE 8h ago

Thanks for the compliment :)

Your cat is a gorgeous little tiger btw

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u/concertcuntie 7h ago

That’s such a cute comment😭 thank you

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u/Skoguu 11h ago

It was likely a mix up, have you contacted them?

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u/concertcuntie 11h ago

Yes and it was not a mixup

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u/Firm_Tie7629 10h ago

Are you getting a refund? Apology?

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u/concertcuntie 7h ago

They offered me an $8 refund. I ended up doing a chargeback after a bunch of back and fourth with them

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u/MsKarmaKay 11h ago

I'm going to thread lightly here… but that's a total cat-tastrophe. Completely missed the mark!

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u/ASingleBraid 10h ago

A puuurrrfect response

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u/ConsuelaApplebee 8h ago

OP should claw their money back

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u/ArgyllFire 10h ago

Read too fast. Thought you wanted a sweater made OF your cat.... Sorry for your loss. I still think I see my cat from time to time out of the corner of my eye, and then I remember he's been gone for months. I like to think it's just his spirit still patrolling the house.

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u/Final_Lingonberry586 10h ago

It’s the right shape. But the colours are infuriating.

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u/Irlttp 8h ago

So sorry this happened! I’ve ordered from pupssentials and they did a great job if you’re still looking for a place to do this

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u/concertcuntie 7h ago

Thank you! Appreciate it

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u/WhyDrinkKoolaid 11h ago

I hope you didn't pay a lot, but that is a priceless story :-)

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u/Cute_Reflection_9414 10h ago

OP said it was $80

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u/Deep-Recording-4593 10h ago

I get that you are disappointed. I really like it as sweaters go. Sorry you lost your cat :(

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u/TreacleFit3847 9h ago

customized where?? its not bad but it absolutely NOTHING like your cat…

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u/BhamsterPine 8h ago

Thankful it is not a tattoo - missed the mark

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u/chayannexnicole 8h ago

This happened to me too with my family dog who passed. I went back and forth with the company and they “redesigned it” and then sent the original design anyway. I’m wondering if we got duped by the same company

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u/CosmicHorrorHorses 7h ago

It looks like the largest area that was supposed to be brown ended up dark gray/black, almost as dark as the markings. If that was the proper color, then I could possibly see how this would be a better depiction of your beautiful kitty. Glad to read that you were able to get a chargeback. Sorry for your loss. <\3

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u/Critical-Ad-5215 6h ago

That's so frustrating. Are there any tailors nearby? You might be able to find one who's willing to embroider your cat on a different clothing item you have.

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u/nigliazzo5626 BLUE 5h ago edited 5h ago

I’d ask for a refund or charge back too. You clearly don’t have a black cat. If they can embroider whiskers, they can do the face stripes. And brown ones at that. The outline should be brown. The nose should be pink too.

They didn’t even try. They just used a basic cat template.

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u/Lizzyluvvv 10h ago

Sorry for your loss ❤️💔

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u/MYOB3 8h ago

That is wrong on so many levels. As a cat lover, and an embroidery enthusiast, I am upset for you. I have software that would turn your photo into a cross stitch chart, that would be a lot more accurate than THAT! ( Heck, there are websites that would do it for free and be more accurate than that)

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u/concertcuntie 7h ago

Right, I genuinely don’t know how they messed up so bad. Thank you though

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u/Fearless-Rhubarb-333 10h ago

Definitely ask them to redo it! That’s not acceptable.

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u/Roundels 10h ago

They tried…and got the whiskers kind of correct. Otherwise its a devil cat.

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u/LaChicaGo 8h ago

Where did you order from? Curious if it was Etsy business or somewhere else?

I'm sorry for your loss. A very cute idea to commemorate

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u/tokidokilover88 7h ago

This happened to me when i ordered one for my dog and one for my bf's cat. Total scam

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u/2scoops4me 5h ago

As an embroidery machine operator, it looks like they selected the wrong needle number so the thread colours got mixed up. (Eg. Instead of needle 7 with brown thread they selected 8 with black) Lord knows how they didn’t catch it and change it (possibly something wrong with the plot from the digitiser)

But yeah. Super shitty that they didn’t own up to their mistake. Please drop their name so we can steer clear of the company and leave an honest review! ❤️

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u/Abwettar 4h ago

The mouth matches up so I wonder if they put the wrong thread in the machine and then just didn't want to deal with fixing it and hope you'd not kick up a fuss. Such a shame, but don't be disheartened! You got your money back so hopefully you can try again elsewhere :)

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u/catsashole 11h ago

Nailed it

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u/DogDelicious9212 10h ago

I’d ask them to remake it. The coloring is all off!

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u/Fabulous-Gazelle3642 10h ago

The chin looks ok.

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u/EmmerdoesNOTrepme 6h ago

Nananana-Nananana-Nananana-Nananana-BatCat!

Apparently they envisioned your cat as the Superhero BatCat, OP!

Not what you wanted, but a Superhero cat isn't terrible!💖

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u/cee-eighty 11h ago

The chin almost matches.

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u/Cute_Reflection_9414 11h ago

Prior to ordering, did you see other examples of their work that would have set your expectations higher?

Edit: Nevermind, I see that this was already answered

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u/overwatchretiree 10h ago

This exact thing happened to someone I know and their greyhound. I think the business is misrepresenting what they do

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u/EmmetyBenton 4h ago

I'm so sorry for your loss ♥️ They're such a beautiful kitty.

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u/Jpop31 4h ago

Looks like he’s gonna rob you

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u/Beyond_ok_6670 4h ago

Have you contacted them, cause they could have sent you the wrong sweater

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u/concertcuntie 4h ago

Yes and they did not send the wrong sweater. Just royally messed up

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u/Beyond_ok_6670 3h ago

That really sucks

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u/SmegConnoisseur 3h ago

Were the ads much better?

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u/concertcuntie 3h ago

Yes and I’ve also purchased from them before and it turned out great the first time

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u/Artistic_Sea_7535 9h ago

Did they send you the wrong order by mistake??

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u/concertcuntie 9h ago

They didn’t. I contacted them thinking that’s what happened but they really just messed up badly

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u/Artistic_Sea_7535 9h ago

I would tell them that you will leave bad reviews all over their socials unless they fix it or refund you (or both). I am so sorry. I'm sorry about the loss of your beloved friend as well.

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u/HoneyStripes 4h ago

Solution : get a new cat that looks exactly like that

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u/ZeroCandleLight 11h ago

I don’t think that jacket is even made out of your cat

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u/Alfimaster 6h ago

Close enough

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u/IslandPlumber 11h ago

It's a cat.