red pillers lashing out

[u/Fun-Employment9933]

is it a perfectly normal response for them to insult you over the most benign things. i made a pretty harmless statement and had tons of them attacking my personal appearance

[u/wheremylaserzat]

All you have to do is exist and reflect light and they'll trash your appearance lol

[u/SecretPerfectMaster]

yeah i know right? who would have thought the Epic Stoic FrameMaxxing guys were actually all low functioning low class bpd men lmfao

[u/cocoabutterpaladin]

The only value they believe women provide is physical aesthetic and sex, so them insulting your looks is peak insult to them and if you were to retort and call them an incel or unfuckable, you’re playing into their world view because they’d argue that you’re conceding that you only have sex value to offer

Instead, call them uninteresting, unlovable, unoriginal or insignificant. You’ll see how “stoic” they are then

[u/scruntbaby → u/cocoabutterpaladin]

Yeah!!!!! IMO replying to these guys with "ok ugly virgin LOL" reinforces the Nickelodeon sitcom mean girl stereotype they have of women & ur just giving them more kindling 4 that worldview

I think at this point one has to ask themselves what they want the outcome of an encounter with someone like this to be: do you want to punish them & make them feel bad (perhaps valid based on their treatment of you, and how it's arguably not your job to help other people develop emotionally), or do you want this to get real interesting and maybe hit em with a "hey bud, you ok?" or something to instead throw some kindling into challenging their perspective

[u/es_muss_sein135 → u/scruntbaby]

Exactly. This is why I usually respond to them in a very rational way and am just like "you are not helping yourself, also if everyone acted the way that you are acting now, society would continue to absolutely deteriorate and there would be zero social trust in all situations, you need to actually think critically about what would help bc this isn't it". Crazy how some guys who proudly proclaim that they only see women as sex objects and that they don't care what women think bc women have no valuable thoughts suddenly really really care what women think

[u/fatwiggywiggles → u/cocoabutterpaladin]

I wish more women understood this. The number of memes these guys have where a twitter woman's retort boils down to "nobody wants to bang you and you probably have tiny pp" is off the charts. They love that response

[u/Sr_Srsly]

In this vein, I have sadly seen some guys I know slowly worm their way down the mgtow hole. Ive tried helping them, but they either realize they are wrong on their own or never return. There really is no way to help them in my unfortuate experiences.

[u/WindyPwny → u/Sr_Srsly]

Yeah I'm sure you tried so hard to actually understand their struggles and didn't dismiss their thoughts/feelings.

[u/Sr_Srsly → u/WindyPwny]

I actually did because i dabbled in it in my early 20s, and my point stands. No one could have turned me around either besides myself. I have and still do understand their reasoning behind turning to the redpill

[u/TomShoe → u/WindyPwny]

What's their to understand about being desperate for pussy? Tale as old as time. These guys have always existed, there just wasn't a name for them before the internet.

[u/RoyalWabwy0430]

A lot of those guys will mistake women trying to compliment men for insults and still lash out. Utterly pathetic.

[u/CryInteresting5631]

Always go after appearance because that's all they really care about.

[u/Original_Data1808 → u/CryInteresting5631]

Point out their bald spot

[u/AppointmentNo3297 → u/Original_Data1808]

They'll call you a shallow whore if you do that, they want women to accept them for their soul regardless of their outward appearance while they themselves will only date hot women

[u/Original_Data1808 → u/AppointmentNo3297]

Yeah who cares, that’s how you know you got them deep

[u/Acrobatic-Skill6350]

They are massive losers and often low status. Why not just tell them why they are low status if they lash out? Like make fun of their lack of education, how they look, or ask if any woman ever has wanted to be in a relationship with them over time?

[u/ColumbiaHouse-sub → u/Acrobatic-Skill6350]

It’s honestly not worth engaging with these people. 

The absolute worst ones I’ve seen are like bitter divorced men in their 40s posting face on profile pictures and saying the most vitriolic things to random women online. Zero opsec or shame. Their lives being in shambles is why they are so worked up in the first place.

[u/Eastern-Pie-8482]

They refuse to carry their burden, so they try to throw it on someone else.

[u/OniFloppa]

It's cause they were hurt by women. And since the dream of true pove seems irrepairable (since most women trully are unloving and only love themselves) , they lash out and hurt back.

That's why there is so much wiseness in turning the other cheek. I will not let the beauty of love die because of other people.

[u/Beneficial_Read3805]

Ignore them, you are beautiful and strong <3

[u/ElSapio]

When do you interact with people like this?

[u/Fun-Employment9933 → u/[deleted]]

It was a disagreement that i had on a post about single moms. It was something along the lines of "why are men not blamed but women are when they raise a child by themselves". A harmless comment and i wasn't insulting anyone-but i got pelted with them myself

[u/ffa1985 → u/Fun-Employment9933]

Probably an out of sight out of mind thing. My friend hates his drug addict mother for abusing him but he's never met his dad.

[u/Unusual_Usual_3235 → u/[deleted]]

I think what OP is trying to talk about is the amount of criticism and tearing down that single moms receive is unbalanced. The criticism for deadbeats dads stops at “they weren’t there” because there is nothing to meaningfully critique because they are the absent party. But because single moms actually do step up, the entirety of the development of a child gets put upon them. It’s just the kind of problem that happens when one party is willing to engage with a problem and another isn’t; obviously there is more room for critique for the party that intervenes because they actually did something. I am male so this isn’t some man-hating sentiment, it’s just something that’s obvious if you have seen discussions around single moms on the internet.

[u/rs_x-ModTeam → u/[deleted]]

Can’t use Reddit no-no words

[u/Unusual_Usual_3235 → u/rs_x-ModTeam]

Lmfao I’m curious what he said, I am also curious why single mom discussion evoke so much rage in men. Many such cases!