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AITA For telling my girlfriend she needs to clean if she's not going to get a job?
 in  r/AmItheAsshole  3m ago

NTA your girlfriend is depressed. She may be using you or she may just not know yet how to take care of herself or be a partner.

She needs at least a part time job. She could even sign up for rover and give herself reasonable goal to make $50-100 a day at least few days a week. She might need to build up her network, so it might be less to start but she should at least try.

Also if she isn't sure about direction, volunteer at something that interests her and get a server or caregiving job to pay the bills. Give her clear expectations she needs to make x a month.

And yes she needs to help around the house unless of course she makes such great money at her new job she can split bills with you evenly and hire a maid to visit weekly j/k.. she still needs to grow up and do household duties.

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Protest in Lincoln City
 in  r/OregonCoast  31m ago

Nice turn out!

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Manzanita Parking
 in  r/OregonCoast  33m ago

Parking is limited in some areas. You might have to get creative and take turns dropping each other off and driving a bit to find parking. You could always ask host if you could pay extra for more parking.

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These are 🔥 fire
 in  r/candy  43m ago

Where, please?

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I'm unemployed. Where can I just relax and use my laptop away from home without needing to spend $3 on coffee each day?
 in  r/Frugal  1h ago

When you type this out do you really think OP hasn't thought about just get a job? I see these type of comments and assume you're a boomer but that's mean to boomers. Simple is as simple does.

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Good paying jobs hiring in or near Lincoln city?
 in  r/OregonCoast  1h ago

Nice!

OP check out property appraiser trainee!

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Being asked to return to office , but wondering if I can dispute it?
 in  r/remotework  1h ago

That's a long commute! Most of us don't commute that far. NYC is the exception for many things compared to most US cities.

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Being asked to return to office , but wondering if I can dispute it?
 in  r/remotework  2h ago

I assumed it wasn't an only US sub. I do think it's interesting because you're right if you're differently abled or have specific needs for WFH, US is not a good fit in general. There are some employers and some states that are more inclusive. Haha I don't think US workers are paid that well given the cost of everything. If we had enough low income housing that would help a lot but the majority of Americans expect to live in more spacious accommodations and sadly not enough builders want to invest in low income housing - too much risk. Some states are better than others when it comes to Healthcare but largely it's way to expensive for many people even if some of it is subsidized by employer.

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Going to Trader Joe’s in an hour. I can only buy 5 snacks. What am I buying?
 in  r/traderjoes  2h ago

Don't hate - black licorice, the spicy trail mix in blue bag, California apricots, PB and chocolate Jo Jo's and gouda Amsterdam cheese. Love the truffle potato chips if you can get 6 items.

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Being asked to return to office , but wondering if I can dispute it?
 in  r/remotework  2h ago

Interesting. Most US states have at will employment so unless you can prove you have a disability that requires you to work from home it is unlikely employers will accommodate. Always exceptions but in general, they can let you go for no reason or just close the position.

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Good paying jobs hiring in or near Lincoln city?
 in  r/OregonCoast  2h ago

Not OP but interested. What is hourly or salary?

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Is there any job or career field that is a good option for people with chronic pain who cannot go to work all the time?
 in  r/careerguidance  2h ago

Try RSO, 1:1 CBD and THC. Also if you can get your hands on it try psilocybin - micro dose to start. Both can be extremely helpful for chronic pain in different ways.

I have chronic pain. Sales is a good option but can't have too many "sick" days but flexible so you can typically work around it.

Substitute teaching?

Hospice caregiver?

Own your own home? Start doing rover and build clientele. Overnights/dog daycare. I know you don't want to start own business but it would give you maximum flexibility.

Remote work is hard, depends on your skill set.

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Good paying jobs hiring in or near Lincoln city?
 in  r/OregonCoast  2h ago

Agreed would be good opportunity. Hard to get into but good option. Definitely be competing with people who have degrees and experience.

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Best mattress under 1000 dollars that actually last? I'm done with fugazis/lemons
 in  r/Frugal  2h ago

I'm obsessed with my Casper. It's best mattress I have ever had. I got it because low profile for daschund can easily get on/off. Frame is low, don't need "box" spring. I love it. Chronic pain and it definitely helps.

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$3,495 on FB, if I insist my husband will buy it, worth it??
 in  r/midcenturymodern  3h ago

I LOVE IT. I think it's perfect. If you can afford it (ex. 6 month emergency fund and bills paid). I say go for it after you inspect for bed bugs. It's a total vibe;)

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Good paying jobs hiring in or near Lincoln city?
 in  r/OregonCoast  3h ago

Sales or remote sales?

Or Chinook winds? https://recruiting.paylocity.com/Recruiting/Jobs/Details/3128814

What is the minimum pay you're looking for?

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Even in conservative roseburg..
 in  r/oregon  4h ago

Yes just left Clackamas town center, great turn out. Nice to see everyone standing up and showing support!

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Kind of spiraling here…could DNA results be mistaken?
 in  r/AncestryDNA  7h ago

Not go after his mom, talk to her? Explain that he has taken the test and some of it doesn't make sense based on the information he knows. Yes mom may know nothing or may deny things. The simplest way to the truth is to talk to mom.

Based on OP comments he knows grandfather is not his bio granddad. Of course he could go directly to dad but that is going to be way more dramatic if dad suspects anything?

Huh? It doesn't need to be dramatic or inflammatory? I understand stand he doesn't have good relationship with mom but if you want answers then she would be the simplest path.

Given he matched on her side we know it wasn't babies switched at birth.

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The funniest comment wins!
 in  r/democrats  9h ago

Melanie, my diaper is full!

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What is your favorite vegetable and way to cook it??
 in  r/AskRedditFood  9h ago

Sautéed onions and portobello mushrooms - butter, olive oil, garlic, onion powder and garlic powder.

I love brocoli with some fresh parm

Roasted Brussel sprouts with siracacha (you can melt some pepper jack on top)

I love making homemade sweet potatoes chips and kale chips.

Pumpkin puree soup with fresh sage (garlic, nutmeg and onion).

Spaghetti squash roasted - olive oil, salt and pepper.

Stir fry mix of vegetables with sobe noodles or in a tortilla

In general put a Lil fresh parm on it, always taste better

Went vegetarian last year and slowly evolved to pescatarian. Try to eat at least 75% veggies per meal.

u/Gracieloves 21h ago

Elon Musk's super PAC America First wants to delete this video evidence of election interference off the internet. You know what to do. Fuck Musk!

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What is this?
 in  r/kitchenremodel  21h ago

Barbie pool