r/wholesome • u/Mundane-Winter-8935 • 5d ago
Happy Transgender Day of Visibility. 🏳️⚧️❤️
Growing up and being so uncomfortable in my body, going through all the awkward male puberty changes that I wish I didnt have to experience. I was just alive and not living then. There is alot of things I feel like I missed out on growing up, wanting to have different memories when i look back at my childhood and teenage years. I believe everything happens for a reason and this was the path I was supposed to go down. Im incredibly happy and fortunate that im able to live as my authentic self, even though we live in such a hateful world where others dont understand my existence. I just wish people would have empathy and patience and a little more understanding. Little B if I can go back in time and tell you that things will get easier I would, but things were rough and there will be moments along the way that you felt like you weren't going to make it any further but you kept pushing yourself because you knew that you'd eventually get to where you are at today. I am alot stronger than I expected and this journey is not for the weak. 🏳️⚧️❤️
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u/smalltownchilis 5d ago
Some people are just so stunning no matter what gender! Congrats OP!
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u/The_Huntress_1121 5d ago
Was going to say the same thing, a handsome man and a gorgeous woman, should be illegal to look that good as both ❤️
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u/Mundane-Winter-8935 5d ago
Thank you 😊
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u/graveybrains 5d ago
Yeah, congrats on going from model hot to… Jamie Lee Curtis in True Lies.
Lucky bastard. shakes fist
😂🥰
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u/SapphireOwl1793 5d ago
It’s amazing how authenticity can make someone even more stunning. Huge congrats to OP for living their truth and shining brightly
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u/SicklyThinSausage 5d ago
It's almost unfair. This one looks hot as a man and a woman? What the hell? Leave something for the rest of us!
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u/Superb_Narwhal6101 5d ago
Yes! What a gorgeous human!! Not going to lie, this girl is a lil jealous.
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u/WaffleBot626 5d ago
I'm happy you found yourself and became who you wanted to be. Life is too short to not be your true self.
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u/xavierfern3751 5d ago
You’ve made it this far, and your journey ahead is filled with more opportunities to shine as your true self. Stay proud, stay strong, and know that your story is one that makes a difference.
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u/notwhoyouthinkmaybe 5d ago
You know what makes me mad about a lot of trans people?
I'm a cisgender male, I am and have always been funny looking, but some of you get to be good looking in 2 or more genders and I can't do it in one!
Ok so maybe "mad" isn't the right word, jealous. I'm jealous.
(Just in case, this was a joke, there's no hate.)
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u/Grimscriven 5d ago
If it makes you feel better, I'm trans and have always been ugly as different genders. 😂 I may be FTM but I'll always be Assigned Ugly At Birth.
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u/seppukucoconuts 5d ago
This is reddit. Take comfort in the fact that you're not the only ugly person here.
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u/fletch229 5d ago
You ma’am are the reason Republicans are afraid of transgender people they find you way too attractive and it makes them uncomfortable 😂 happy transgender visibility day
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u/Internal-Ad-4869 5d ago
Girrrrrr you look insane in that black mini dress!!!!!! Love it!!!! I’m so happy you’ve found yourself!
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u/DragonBoooster 5d ago
You are someone who won the looks lottery in both genders. I hope you have a wonderful future ahead ma'am 🤠
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u/rwalsh1981 5d ago
I was thinking the same thing she is just a good looking human period.
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u/Regular-Track-3745 5d ago
You look great either way tbh, but I’m so glad you’re happy with yourself :)
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u/Inalum_Ardellian 5d ago edited 5d ago
This was so nice to watch! Thank you for sharing it!
Edit: Did it sound weird? I sincerely think it's wholesome...
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u/Audginator 5d ago
Hey! If your edit is because of the down votes, I believe some transphobes down voted a toooon of the compliment comments. I just went through and upvoted them all 😂
I don't think your comment was weird personally! Im not OP obviously though, and shes the last word cuz its her post, but I think you're okay. 😊
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u/Inalum_Ardellian 5d ago
Oh thank you! Feel a bit better now... yeah the edit is because of downvotes
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u/That_Jonesy 5d ago
If there's anything I've learned from the trans community it's that attractive people are attractive.
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u/wakeuptomorrow 5d ago
Wow you are absolutely drop dead gorgeous! Such a beautiful transformation. Big love OP. Go rock the hell out of life 🤘
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u/Xrachelll 5d ago
You’re beautiful in any skin you’re in! Trans rights forever, friend ♥️ may every space you inhabit be a safe one
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u/whatsthisevenfor 5d ago
What a great day to be Pan 😂🥰 you are absolutely stunning!! Congratulations on your successful journey, I hope you have a wonderful day
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u/jnaylornz 5d ago
I think you're beautiful! ❤️🥰
Happy Belated Transgender Day of Visibility to you too! 🙂 ❤️ 🏳️🌈 🏳️⚧️
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u/BrilliantHeavy 5d ago
Gorge absolutely beautiful I’m proud of this community everyday for seeing people not afraid of being themselves in the world we live in
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u/Periwinkleditor 5d ago
Quite the trans-formation! (is that pun okay?) You went through quite a few hairstyles there! How many years timeframe was this?
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u/Mundane-Winter-8935 5d ago
I think each picture after the 3rd one, was about 1-2 years inbetween. Starting at at 6-31. So 25 years in total. I started my transition with the mullet style hair cut, which was in 2022.
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u/Commercial-Housing23 5d ago
You were and are beautiful the whole way through. I just love how your smile gets more and more real xoxoo
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u/Zealousideal_Lie_328 5d ago
Nothing more important than to love yourself in this life, cause you ultimately have to be your own advocate! Congrats on being amazing throughout your whole journey!
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u/XXBubblesLaRouxXX 5d ago
I'm creating throwaway accounts, just to upvote this post as much as I can. So happy for you.
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u/Bobby_The_Kidd 5d ago
Fire timeline girle
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u/Mundane-Winter-8935 5d ago
Thank you 😊
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u/Bobby_The_Kidd 5d ago
The editing was really good too! I hope to get a timeline like yours one day!
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u/Rumpelteazer45 5d ago
Damn girl, your makeup is one point!!! I’m so jealous.
You are gorgeous and I can feel your happiness!!
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u/Threedogs_nm 5d ago
Thank you for sharing the photos of your journey. I love seeing you as you are.
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u/Audginator 5d ago
Ooooh the way my eyebrows went up post transition!
Of course you looked lovely pre-transition too, but post you just looked so much happier that I swear I could FEEL it through the internet.
Im so happy for you girl ❤️
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u/Left_Ad3575 5d ago
I can see the sadness in your eyes gradually leaving as this video progresses. At least that's how it seems to me. Much love.
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u/danielm316 5d ago
I am not trans, but I have heard 2 rumors:
That trans people have severe health problems because of the hormones
That trans people face severe discrimination in the working world.
Is there any truth in that? I am asking you very respectfully. I am just wanting a true or false answer on my 2 questions, please.
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u/AshyWhiteGuy 5d ago
You. Are. Gorgeous. GEEEZ. Also you had some awesome hair back in the day. Haha
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u/Lady_Black_Cats 5d ago
Beautiful no matter what you do 💕 I'm happy you found a way to be comfortable in your skin 😄
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u/joscun86 5d ago
You have always been beautiful! I’m glad you have found where you feel comfortable with yourself and your soul
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u/rrhodes76 5d ago
Is this what they call a "glow up"? Gorgeous then, gorgeous now. Beauty comes from happiness and you look happy.
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u/New_Lake5484 5d ago
- This is fascinating
- What a beautiful human
- Have you thought of writing a book? I would love to read about your journey. 💕🤞👉🏼👏👈🏼🤩
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u/AnAbsurdlyAngryGoose 5d ago edited 5d ago
The report button abuse has been escalated to the admins. Kindly stop before you attract yourselves a suspension.
Love is love. Trans rights are human rights. If that’s an issue for you, this probably isn’t the subreddit for you. The door is over there.
Happy transgender day of visibility. We see you. You’re valid. You’re welcome here.