r/Accutane • u/no_more_spoons • Jan 11 '25
I am so freaking dry!!! (30F) 148lbs 5 months in 80mg daily. I’ve been on the 80 mg for one month. My eyes, under my nose, inside my nose bridge, lips, and corners of mouth. Like I look like I’m sick. I’m in a lot of pain with all this dryness. We’re in the coldest winter months in Wyoming and this sucks. 😥 When does this get better?
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Thank you. I do not have it in writing, just verbal at this time.
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Thank you so much for writing all of this. I laid down and thought about it all night. Thank you very very much. 👏
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Thank you so much for writing all of this. I laid down and thought about it all night. Thank you very very much. 👏
r/Divorce • u/no_more_spoons • Dec 29 '24
(30F) I have been married to my husband for 3 years. It has been a very rocky marriage. He is a narcissist and a gaslighter. He has physically, mentally, emotionally, and sexually abused me over our marriage. We just don’t have the same goals in life or hobbies. I honestly just can’t stand him anymore. He criticizes me and belittles me daily. I recently lost 120 lbs and finished my Master’s degree and he (33M) is still trying to get into his career in law enforcement. He has lost his job 3 times in 2 two years and wants to quit his current job. We had to file Chapter 7 last year because it would take months for him to get a job. I have a list on my phone of things I hate about him and our marriage. He has been caught cheating on me twice…. I despise him and cringe when he gets near me. I am working on moving into my own place with our two girls. I am looking into the divorce process. He says everything in the house is his and I don’t want to fight him over it. I am just so anxious about this whole process. I have threatened to leave before, but not like this. I am motivated to leave. How do you stay strong during this process? It’s so stressful trying to find my own affordable rental, all new furniture, lawyers, etc. He is being so awful saying he is going to prolong this and make it as miserable as possible for me. In the past, it’s been easier to just stay…. I want to get out. For fucks sake I am in social work and know this is unacceptable behavior and I need to get out. Why is it so freaking hard? How do you stay strong during this process? How do you heal from a narcissist?….
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Looks like 💩
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Ew.
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What is the flying fuck?!?
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Definitely fits the definition of someone who would do something like this 😂😂
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Evanston, WY
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I am still on 2.4. I hope to do this until around March and then start tapering down to every 2-3 weeks.
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About 14 months so far.
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I have lost 119 lbs total. Just keep trusting the process. I would plateau for like a month and then suddenly drop like 6 lbs. Take sugar free Metamucil gummies daily for more fiber. Definitely a lifesaver.
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Yes, I was losing weight automatically. I was averaging 10-15 lbs per month. Started slowing down when I went to 1.7 and now 2.4.
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That’s incredible and a huge accomplishment! Keep going! 🩷
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Thank you! I did lose a lot of hair the past year and had to cut it short to restart the growth process.
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No one has ever told me that before, so thank you!! 😊
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It was around April when I started really getting involved with therapy and around 1 mg dose I believe.
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Definitely a lot of lifestyle changes as well. No soda and lots of water, very limited fast food, smaller portions (less calories), and CrossFit 2-3x a week. Therapy for my mental health and DBT/CBT once a month. It’s been a whole changing process. It took me months (I think around April) to really start making conscious changes. It was really hard, but I think therapy for dealing with my trauma and learning coping skills has been the biggest help for me.
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Trust the process. I had good weeks and bad weeks. 🩷 good luck!
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Thank you. 😊 I have never been told that before!
r/WegovyWeightLoss • u/no_more_spoons • Dec 07 '24
30 (F) HW (275) CW(156) GW (140)
I started this journey on 10/17/23. As of today, I have lost 119 lbs!! I have gone from a shirt size 1X to a medium and a size 18 pants to a 10. I still have about 14 lbs to my goal weight, but I am so happy with my journey. I went from obese to a normal BMI. Sometimes I still look in the mirror and dislike my body, but when I compare side by side pictures like this, it’s astonishing how far I have come! I am learning to listen and respect my body. I have changed my eating habits. I have changed my sleeping habits. I exercise 2-3 times per week. I am taking care of myself. I am learning to love myself. 🩷 Change is possible and learn to trust the process!
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Dec 29 '24
Thank you so much! That’s a good idea to thrift items and I can also FB Marketplace as well. I’m really looking forward for a new start, it’s just very scary. I’m sorry you went through something similar. I’m happy you were able to get out.