r/DecidingToBeBetter • u/Ascension_Codex • 5d ago
Sharing Helpful Tips The Old Frequency Isn’t You - It’s an Energetic Entity That Fears It’s Own Death
If you’ve ever been on the edge of making a big life shift—something that feels deeply important or aligned—but suddenly got hit with fear, doubt, or emotional chaos… you’re not alone.
That’s not just “resistance.” That’s your old frequency trying to survive.
What most people don’t realize is that the old frequency isn’t just a mindset or a mood. That’s the first mistake — because the moment you label it that way, you’ve already identified with it.
In truth, it’s an unconscious energetic entity — a dense field of habitual thoughts, emotions, and patterns that you’ve co-created over years, even decades, by unconsciously identifying with it.
It has a voice. A tone. A personality. And most of all — it has an agenda: to keep everything exactly the same.
It will even make things feel worse on purpose — triggering your fear, your doubt, your shame — anything it can use to pull you back in, especially when you’re trying to shift into a higher frequency.
Like all entities, it’s self-preserving. It doesn’t want to die. The universe naturally seeks equilibrium — and when you start to rise, that equilibrium pulls back.
You have to realize: You are not free when you’re still being pulled into the deeply distorted personality of your old frequency.
Until you can recognize when you’re operating from that unconscious bundle of thoughts and emotions, you’re not actually in control of your life.
You’re being steered by a version of you that was built for survival, not alignment.
And the path forward isn’t to fight it. It’s to witness it. To depersonalize it. To name it.
I call mine Graspus.
He’s a little scarcity goblin who panics about money, clings to control, and loses his shit every time I try to expand.
When he shows up, I don’t collapse into fear anymore. I say, “Hey Graspus. I see you. You’re scared. But I’m not.” “You’re not driving this time. I’ve got it from here.”
Especially in those moments when my heartbeat quickens, my stomach drops, and the fear feels overwhelming — naming the entity gives me just enough distance to respond differently. Even when the emotion is still there, I can respond from a different place.
Because real transformation isn’t just about action. It’s about energetic sovereignty.
You don’t just quit the job. You quit identifying with the frequency that told you you couldn’t.
You don’t just build the business. You unhook from the voice that believed you wouldn’t succeed.
You don’t just find the right partner. You let go of the belief that you weren’t worthy of love.
The old frequency gets loudest right before the breakthrough. The fear, chaos, and doubt are actually a good sign. It means you’re giving the old identity heat.
Just don’t confuse its voice for your own.
Name it. Thank it. And move in alignment anyway.
If this resonated, thank you for doing the most important work there is: inner purification. It’s the true prerequisite between you and your desired reality. Feel free to DM me if you’d like to explore it deeper or just talk through where you’re at.