r/GuysBeingDudes • u/issa_said_pro • 3d ago

Bro found out the truth

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u/SmartAlec13 2d ago

Boomer level humor here

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u/Dense-Mud-2880 2d ago

Nah. This is more like evergreen humor. Coz it's always true.

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u/SmartAlec13 2d ago

Hah not at all. That’s what I’m saying, it’s boomer as hell lol. There are plenty of men and women out there who have great relationships where this shit doesn’t happen.

Source: I am in one.

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u/Dense-Mud-2880 2d ago

U are in a relationship where this doesn't happen. So?

If you don't know about the country Libya, does that mean the country doesn't exist on the map? Whats ur logic here? Lmao

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u/SmartAlec13 2d ago

No. I’m saying the existence of my relationship immediately proves you are wrong. You said “it’s always true”. When it’s not. It’s not always true. Disagreements in relationships aren’t “the wife is always right” like this suggests, nor “just keep the wife happy”. They don’t have to be, at least.

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u/Dense-Mud-2880 2d ago

You said “it’s always true”.

You must be some special kind of a person. See one guy in a wheelchair is faster than me. But when I say I'm faster than guys in wheelchairs, it doesn't mean its not true. Give your head a shake.

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u/SmartAlec13 2d ago

….what?

You really are dense as mud lol.

You said this is evergreen humor because the point being made is “always true”. I proved you are incorrect, it is not always true, because I am in a relationship where this is not true. I know many other people in relationships where this is not true.

So your statement is false, this is not always true in relationships.

It’s boomer ass level humor because it’s “huh huh hate wife” brand.

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u/Dense-Mud-2880 2d ago

Just say jokes where women are the butt of the jokes trigger you somehow. Because you're fragile af.

“huh huh hate wife” brand.

U actually think jokes are hatred. Lmao. U might think jokes on husband are hate crimes as well. Just learn to take jokes as jokes. Coz usually men and women with good sense of humor do so.

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u/SmartAlec13 2d ago

I’m not fragile for thinking this brand of jokes is boring, old, and displays an underlying issue with how relationships are constructed. It’s simply not funny, and not an “always true” thing like you claimed it to be.

That’s it lol. I’m not a broken little piece of glass over this joke. I get that it’s a joke. It’s just a lame one, and one I don’t find funny. I’ve never found this style of humor to be funny, even as a kid, a teen, and now adult.

It’s cringe

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u/Dense-Mud-2880 2d ago

It's not boring if people laugh at it and still enjoy it. If u don't enjoy it or feel it triggers you, that's fine. Don't laugh at it

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u/PoopingOnCompanyTim 2d ago

Are you married tho?

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u/SmartAlec13 2d ago

I’ve been living with my fiancé for almost 10 years now. Getting married at this point is just putting it in legal and having a party to celebrate lol. That is to say, we are very deep in our relationship and comfortable with each other. And our relationship is founded on trust, honesty, and genuine communication.

If I think she’s wrong about something, I have no issue telling her. If she thinks I’m wrong about something, she has no issue telling me. Arguments don’t go like the joke here shows; we might go back and forth a bit (as any argument does) but we come together to figure it out, it’s not about proving who’s right or trying to play petty games with eachother.

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u/PoopingOnCompanyTim 2d ago

I was in the exact same situation as you with my now current wife. Lived together for a decade-ish, and got married. I'm not saying your relationship will change on a fundamental level, but the stakes are considerably larger when married vs engaged. I'm not dogging on yalls relationship, yall sound great, but when it takes a judge to officially separate the 2 of you, its much more serious. That seriousness leads to you wagering, is this argument/disagreement worth it. Most of the time it's no, so you concede. I thought this was boomer humor right when you're currently at, and now 2 years married, it's true. Happy wife, happy wife is legit and real. You can have the most level headed partner, and it's still true(My wife is amazing and smarter than me, and very level headed). It's not about hating your wife, and being forced into submission. It just isn't worth arguing over stupid shit. Congrats BTW!