r/IWantOut • u/chiefskingdom420 • 5d ago
[IWantOut] 22M Canada -> Vietnam/USA
I (22M) am natively Viet. I’ve lived in North America for the past 10 years, 5 years in the US and been in Canada since 2020. I only have Vietnamese citizenship.
I grew up thinking Vietnam isn’t the place to be, yet now I want to give up my life in Canada for it. When I lived in America, people accepted me and treated me as one of their own. I’ve only had 3 real Canadian friends. I am always the outsider here.
Two of them moved to different countries for the same reason I am considering, one I am no longer speaking to because we started dating and it didn’t end well. I am incredibly alone and can’t find a job.
I’ve been traveling in Vietnam with a group of Australians and Americans lately. They were very receptive and it made me feel normal again. Canada has convinced me that there’s something inherently wrong with me and this trip has made me realized that there isn’t. I just don’t fit in Canada’s reserved society, not to mention the economy, job market and incompetent government.
The thought of just calling it quits and moving back to Vietnam for awhile has been heavy on me lately. My Vietnamese isn’t great but there’s so much growth and opportunity here. My family lives here. I am aware of the pollution and corruption but I’ll take those over my life Canada. I would love to move back to America as I have many close friends there, but the immigration process is difficult.
I still think it’s a waste to abandon Canada. I’ve made it so far, only 3 more years until I get my Canadian PR if I just put my head down and find a job. Should I throw it all away, live in Vietnam and find my way back to the US?