r/IncreasinglyVerbose 2d ago

Request *ahem* mentlegen?

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u/Miserable-Willow6105 2d ago

You cannot apply the labels like "top" or "bottom" to yourself, as they are sexually charged with respective meanings of active and passive role in sexual act, and you, as a fourteen years old, are a minor, who is too young to willfully participate in such an act

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u/SEA_griffondeur 2d ago

But a lot of people already had sex by that time ?

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u/Miserable-Willow6105 2d ago

This does not remotely sound like something that should be taken as normal or encouraged

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u/SEA_griffondeur 2d ago

Average age for it is 17 years old, this puts a lot of people doing it around 14-15-16

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u/Miserable-Willow6105 2d ago

Is it the average, the most common, or the median? All the three terms have vastly different meanings

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u/SEA_griffondeur 2d ago

It's the mean in this case

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u/SaltySpice_Archiver 2d ago

That's disgusting because that's infering that a lot of people UNDER 14 are doing it

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u/MurtTheWort 2d ago

Im not joking I knew an 11 year old who had already done it and they did it well before they were 11. She grew up in a terrible environment tho so That’s most likely the reason.

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u/Sad_Luck7223 2d ago

Jesus we really do live in a Fucked up world

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u/Sad_Luck7223 2d ago

And Probably Traumatising No Shit People under 18 Can’t Fuck They are Still not Adults

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u/LoopyZoopOcto 2d ago

Tell that to literally any highschooler. You were a kid once, surely you remember what it's like. As long as they're only fucking their classmates or other kids their age, it's fine.

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u/belike_dat 2d ago

i mean, they can, the law won't prosecute them is theyre both minors and atleast 13

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u/LoopyZoopOcto 2d ago

Tell that to literally any highschooler. You were a kid once, surely you remember what it's like. As long as they're only fucking their classmates or other kids their age, it's fine.

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u/VillageHomie 2d ago

Have you never been to a public school? Especially one with majority black and Hispanic students? That was definitely the norm in southern California when I was there

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u/SaltySpice_Archiver 2d ago

A: That's Rasict

B: Yes. Yes I have. But They were never understood 14. It was 15+ all the time. Maybe there was a couple of Gooners who wanted to get it on under 14, but it's still disgusting

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u/Thereal_waluigi 1d ago

Bro thinks bc he didn't say the n word he's not racist💀💀

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u/VillageHomie 2d ago

That's not what racism is my man. It's a stereotype maybe but I'm saying that was just a fact of life back then. It's a cultural thing not a race thing. Saying Chinese are good at math and computers isn't racist. I'm not disparaging any race, I literally own land in Kenya and China. I love me some African friends lol

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u/SaltySpice_Archiver 1d ago

Stereotyping is literally one of the main causes of rasicm. And saying "it's a way of life" is apart of stereotyping, because that's saying that it's normal and that they just do it

Black people have the "Criminal Stereotype" (Not saying it's true) and taking your logic into consideration, that means they all Do Criminal acts, and that they just "Have to" because it's "Their way of life"

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u/VillageHomie 1d ago

When tf did I say they were criminals? I didn't mention crime at all lol you're being racist now haha April's fools was a few days ago buddy, stop playing

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u/SaltySpice_Archiver 1d ago

Bro it was an example

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u/Calm_Plenty_2992 2d ago

The average age in the US is now 18.3: https://worldpopulationreview.com/country-rankings/average-age-to-lose-virginity-by-country

Teens are (thankfully) becoming smarter and waiting until they're older

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u/Southern-Wafer-6375 2d ago

I’m a be honesty a lot of it is not peaple waiting till their older its more a like ,”skill” issue if that makes since

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u/LoopyZoopOcto 2d ago

If the average age is 18 then that still means that half the country lost their virginity before that point.