r/IncreasinglyVerbose 2d ago

Request *ahem* mentlegen?

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u/Miserable-Willow6105 2d ago

You cannot apply the labels like "top" or "bottom" to yourself, as they are sexually charged with respective meanings of active and passive role in sexual act, and you, as a fourteen years old, are a minor, who is too young to willfully participate in such an act

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u/SEA_griffondeur 2d ago

But a lot of people already had sex by that time ?

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u/Last_Swordfish9135 2d ago

Having had sex once is not the same as being sexually experienced enough to label yourself a top or a bottom, though, and also most of the people I know who were having sex at 14 weren't exactly shining examples of mental health.