You cannot use the labels "Top" or "Bottom" to describe yourself, as both are used to describe being the more dominant or the more submissive person when proceeding with sexual intercourse. You are of 14 years of age, and as of most places in the world, are too young to be legally having such sexual intercourse.
Top and bottom refers specifically to who penetrates whom, regardless of who acts more dominant or submissive. Dom tops and sub bottoms are more common, but sub tops and dom bottoms are also a thing.
Also, a lot of jurisdictions have close-in-age exceptions. In 20 US states, the age of consent is 14 or lower for partners with similar ages. In Canada there's no age of consent at all for partners of similar ages (which I think makes sense. If a 4-year-old and a 7-year-old are having sex they need therapy, not the police). Also in China and most of Latin America the regular age of consent is 14 or 13, and in many Muslim countries there's no age of consent for married partners, and the marriageable age is horrifyingly low.
But in any case I would argue that it is definitely seen as bizarre by the majority of more economically developed countries if you're having intercourse at 14. I'm Chinese too, perhaps it isn't illegal but it's certainly something you'd be toast for if you got found out
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u/ADMINISTATOR_CYRUS 2d ago
You cannot use the labels "Top" or "Bottom" to describe yourself, as both are used to describe being the more dominant or the more submissive person when proceeding with sexual intercourse. You are of 14 years of age, and as of most places in the world, are too young to be legally having such sexual intercourse.