Idk if this will make sense to anyone else, but here goes!

My gender is just lesbian. My womanhood exists alongside being a lesbian. I love women in a lesbian way. I’m a feminine a-f-a-b, but I don’t feel like a cis woman outside of the fact I know i’m a lesbian. If sexualities didn’t get associated into labels then I would just want to be genderless. I don’t always want to be perceived as a woman by the whole world, but I would love if my girlfriend called me her girlfriend too. If someone sees me as a woman because I call myself a lesbian then that’s fine. If someone sees me as genderless because they don’t know my sexuality that’s fine too. I want people to think i’m a woman because i’m a lesbian, not because of what I was assigned at birth.

I hope this makes sense. I know what I feel, but it’s hard to put into words.

I keep getting mobbed on TikTok and I feel like I'm losing my mind over this. I feel like my whole identity as a lesbian gets invalidated constantly on there.

This is about the 'lesbian men' stuff. I agree you can be trans masc and use he/hil and be a lesbian if you aren't a man but I keep getting attack for saying MEN/MALE identities can't be lesbian?

I don't want to cause infighting in our community but I feel this is something that is important and needs to be called out. Men being lesbian invalidates our whole identity and our history.

I understand some labels are broad but some, like lesbian are specific? Am I just going insane? I genuinely can't tell anymore.

(I hope this doesn't break any rules, I don't want to breed any homophobia and transphobia but I need to talk to other lesbians about this :<)

We got married last year on August 31st 2024. We met online on an app for written roleplay . I feel like us sapphics always fall in love in the most unconventional of places.

I’m so bored rn- how is yalls day going?? <3

while i completely understand that your pronouns are a label to make you feel more comfortable, they are also heavily tied to your gender identity and expression. so the concept of a lesbian (noun: a woman who is sexually or romantically attracted exclusively to other women; a gay woman.), using he/him pronouns feels like an oxymoron.

is this an offensive take, do we understand where i am coming from, or could someone provide an explanation that helps this concept make more sense ?

The people demand, I deliver

third time seeing each other after six months!! love this loser so much ❤️💚

literally she’s everything i’ve ever wanted, she was just hiding on here!!!

So I was wondering something.

I know reddit in general is filled with Americans or people whose mother tongue is English(nothing wrong with that obv) and I've seen people from Europe here and there. But where are my Balkan lesbians? I'm from the Balkans and I've seen maybe 2 people from comment section mentioning that they live in the Balkans(from my 2 year old career of reading posts and commenting). So, can anyone prove me that Balkan lesbians aren't just a myth that I allowed myself to believe?

smh.

I was talking with one of my friends about potentially being gay and she was kind of trying to ask specific questions about certain feelings, but was trying to be as vauge as possible. I am giving her about 3 months before she realizes the closet is made of glass.

However, that got me thinking. What was your gay awakening? For me is was Kim Possible and Shego as far as the first time I thought girls were hot. I'm curious as to what others might be!

Hey everyone, I’m posting on behalf of my little sister because she’s too shy to do it herself (but also lowkey chaotic and dramatic enough to approve this idea). She’s single, fine, and femme—and she’s only into femmes. Specifically, dom femmes. So if that’s you… keep reading.

Her name’s Shiloh (IG: @shiloh_moonn), she’s 20, bi, and based in Atlanta, GA. She’s a singer-songwriter with a voice that sounds like velvet and a vibe that’s goth-but-playful. Think soft-spoken with a mischievous streak. She’s funny without trying, a little awkward in a cute way, and romantic to the core.

She’s tired of hookup culture and dating apps full of “I’m too shy to talk to girls” energy. She wants a real connection—with someone confident, intentional, and feminine. Bonus points if you can dress.

She’s also super creative, smells amazing (don’t ask how I know), and will probably send you the cutest voice notes if she likes you. If you’re in ATL and femme with dom energy, do us both a favor and slide into her DMs.

She’ll pretend to be embarrassed I posted this but I promise she secretly loves it.

Also… okay fine, it’s me. I am the sister. I wrote this entire thing about myself. But can you blame me? I deserve love too. lol 😂

as it says in the title i lost my virginity last night. i’m a 19 y/o lesbian and it was with someone ive known since i was young but haven’t seen in a long time. anyways we ended up having sex after a party last night and for some reason, i mentally enjoyed the sex but physically i didn’t feel anything. which is odd cause i thought i would since it’s not like difficult for me to get horny. i didn’t cum but i made her cum. which is perfectly fine for me since i still had sex and enjoyed it to some degree so that’s pretty cool. we didn’t do much foreplay so that could be it but when i was eating her out and stuff i still wasn’t feeling anything. im just wondering why i wasn’t physically turned on. any others who’ve experienced the same thing?

I love women

If I saw this woman on a corner, I'd buy a pack of cigarettes, lean on the wall next to her, suss out the situation, and ask her out. Only one? 🤷‍♀️

My dad is getting married, and my future stepmom made me a bridesmaid! We looked at dresses yesterday and while looking at all the corny Mr. and Mrs. stuff, I realized that yeah, I do want to get married. When I thought I liked men I was adamant I didn't want to get married but it turns out, I really do want to marry a woman one day. I WANT to do all the corny Mrs. and Mrs. stuff. I want to plan my dream wedding with a woman. Pick out an absurdly expensive dress to wear. I want to plan a stupidly expensive honeymoon with my wife, buy a house with her, decorate it because we're married, and get a few cats because we're married. I want to put a ring on someone's finger and love her forever.

Manifesting this for myself and all the other girlies here who want the same thing 🫶🏼