My parents are still together but my dad is a no-go on anything LGBTQA+. My momma is fine, but I'm still scared. She's processing right now (I'm 32NB female) and I'm just struggling with the wait time. She said she still loves me and I'll never lose her, but I had to explain what pansexual and non-binary meant even though I'm marrying a cis man. You know, explain that I'm still monogamous (had to define that) and whatnot, and why that doesn't make me any less queer (she hates that word).
Idk how to feel because it went well, but she's also upset that other (more liberal) family members knew before her. And now she has to keep a secret from my dad and she's soooooo bad at that.