Aww thank you. Death is shit in the best of times, but having a funeral where only 10 people can attend (crem was small, I think legally up to 30 but grandad wanted that smaller crem as it's where his daughter was taken 6years ago and he felt they handled it so well) and I'm not allowed to hug my dad as he broke during the eulogy was horrendous.
But we were there together.
No wake. Nowhere was open and not allowed to meet at home. I missed that, as I've always got some closure from the wake, talking about happy memories over wine and nibbles.
But this was a weird huddle in the car park. Knowing that was probably breaking the law. All masked up. But we wanted to see if we were all OK.
My advice from this experience: try not to doe right now, like weddings, you funeral won't be the grandure you deserve. Please, please wait.
Stay safe my unknown friends, and please stay in. Don't be "that guy", coz that guy is a cunt.
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u/Mahhrat Jan 03 '21
Mate, I'm so sorry to hear that. Just hope you're all doing okay.