r/OldManDog • u/Last_Insect6012 • 17d ago
RIP Goodbye to my sweet, Roxi. We spent 12 beautiful years together but yesterday was her time 💔. She will forever be in my heart.
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u/Rundle1999 17d ago
As I departed I saw you weeping. Cry a bit, then No more tears. Know I lived life Joyous in your keeping, And you were mine, For all those years.
- Dog
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u/crows_n_octopus 16d ago
Oh boy.
We're in the goodbye stages of the last of our two companions. They're both 18. I'm steeling myself for that day that will be their last.
Your poem just broke me. It's beautiful.
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u/QueenV59 16d ago
Same! I have one that is going to be 16 next month and she has showed signs only within the last couple of months that things are slowly changing. This part sucks! It sucks so much that some people don’t want to get a dog or pet just precisely for this part of life, but we wouldn’t give up anything of our time with her. She will be missed when her time comes, and we are prepping as well. Tearing up as I write this but she is right here next to me. 🥰❤️
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u/crows_n_octopus 16d ago
All I see is lots of hugs, kisses, and love brimming over in your dog's life over her remaining time with you. Wishing you strength.
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u/QueenV59 16d ago
Thank you that is so sweet of you. She’s a stubborn old girl so I wouldn’t be surprised if she just kept right on going, but like I said we’ve seen the decline which I’m all too familiar with having multiple dogs throughout my life.
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u/crows_n_octopus 16d ago
Right there with you!
Our dog has developed dementia along with blindness recently so it's really tough. He's been deaf and incontinent for a year but was totally fine otherwise before he started to lose his vision.
He's 18 and has lots of moments when he's happily following us around, gets excited, and still keeps 'sentry' over the house.
For both our 18 year old cat and 18 year old dog, it's more a matter of which will be their last season. It's quite emotionally draining. I'm so happy both our pets have come through spring!
It's all a matter of balance between good days and bad days these days for our pets, isn't it?
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u/QueenV59 16d ago
Yes it is! Chloe has cataracts that look worse the last couple months. I think that is why she doesn’t want to tackle going down the stairs anymore although she went down the stairs once last week with my other three dogs and didn’t even hesitate or pause so IDK. But funny she can spot a cat entering the yard, no problem before the other dogs see it. When I want to get her outside, she jogs around the house and does a lap. I think she thinks she is outsmarting me. lol. Going #2 in the house is happening more b/c I think she holds it b/c she is sleeping a lot (which she always has) but can’t hold it like she used too so that is newer. Wow,,,you have definitely done well to have two 18 year olds. ❤️Chloe’s is one of my oldest.
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u/crows_n_octopus 16d ago
I think she thinks she is outsmarting me. lol.
Hahaha. They never lose their unique personalities!
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u/NicNikKnit 17d ago
So sorry for your loss. 💔 She was obviously very much loved in her life with you.
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u/Last_Insect6012 17d ago
Thank you 💔🫶🏾
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u/AssignmentClean8726 16d ago
Her silver face..such a beauty...she left you happy and knowing she was loved
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u/OberKrieger 17d ago
You know how they say some dogs look like their owners?
Big whatever-that-is kind of energy here.
Rest easy, Roxi—and you do the same, OP.
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u/rarepinkhippo 17d ago
❤️ Oh man, I’m so sorry OP. She has such a soulful look in that third photo, and all the photos show what a good and happy life she clearly had with you. I feel like nothing really hurts in the same way as losing your pup because they’re this mixture that doesn’t exist anywhere else of best friend + child. And they’re usually the one to help you through hard times so when they’re the one you’re missing, you’re not only missing them but also the one who would otherwise be your rock through a sad time.
It’s so clear from your post and pictures how much Roxi is and has been loved thanks to you, so I hope it can bring at least a little comfort to know that you gave her a happy life (and I feel like being a big part of their person’s world is kind of the dream of all dogs, but not all dogs get it — some are ignored or abandoned or abused or never find a home, but Roxi was loved every single day because you two found each other).
I’m so sorry. But so glad she got to be loved so well!
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u/anders235 16d ago
There is something about that third photo that is just incredible. I so empathize with the loss.
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u/crows_n_octopus 16d ago
I feel like nothing really hurts in the same way as losing your pup because they’re this mixture that doesn’t exist anywhere else of best friend + child.
You've really captured the magic of pets. So, so true.
Our pets see the 'most' of us - more than we let ourselves be seen by our significant other, parents, or best friend. When we lose our beloved pets, we lose a bit of our truth.
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u/rarepinkhippo 16d ago
Now YOU’VE really captured the magic of pets!! So well put. To them and with them we are different than we are with any human. Like, my S.O. and I are both our dog’s people, and the three of us are often all together. But when S.O. isn’t there, our dog sees the deepest me, since even to my S.O. I am in some way trying to be what they need or who they think I am or want me to be. Our dog just wants me to be me, and loves me no matter who that is, and sees me in a way that maybe humans can’t because our words are sometimes used (even if unintentionally) to obfuscate, but the dog doesn’t need them to see us. I love just about all animals, but there is absolutely no one like a dog. Pure magic, and a very specific and awful heartbreak when you are missing them. ❤️
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u/soverysadone 17d ago
What a happy looking girl. Sorry op. Please accept my condolences. These guys are just heart breakers. When mine have passed in the past I always keep them with me inside. Makes me know they are always with me.
Good luck op and take care of yourself. The grief is real.
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u/Last_Insect6012 17d ago
They really are. My heart is completely broken but time heals all wounds. 💔🫶🏾
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u/UnderdogFetishist17 17d ago
You chose such beautiful pictures to share with us. May her memory be a blessing. One day you’ll smile more than cry when you remember her.
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u/RangeUpset6852 17d ago
Roxi loved her momma, and her momma loved her. Roxi is now your guardian angel across the Rainbow bridge. My condolences on your loss, and may you be granted some peace of mind during this troubling time.
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u/dogs_and_dogettes 17d ago
I’m so sorry. It’s such a difficult time. She looked very happy with you.
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u/notyourgrammaspearlz 17d ago
Sweet frosty faced Roxi, it looks like you had so much fun with your person. Rest peacefully pretty girl ❤️🌈
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u/_Wolfszeit_ 17d ago
I'm so sorry for your loss, it hurts so much 😭💔 Roxi is beautiful and had an amazing life ❤️
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u/Extra-Definition-811 17d ago
I can look at Roxi and see that she was your rock. What a beautiful pup! I send my condolences. I'm still going through emotions and it's been a year. Take the time you need to mourn that sweet baby. She is running around pain free with the rest of the awesome dog's.
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u/Last_Insect6012 15d ago
She really was my rock. We navigated young adulthood together. She’ll truly be missed 💔
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u/tha_bozack 17d ago
What a beautiful girl. She definitely lived a life full of love and adventure. I just know she’s running free on paths like the one in the first photo, and she’ll be there waiting for you when you meet again one day.
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u/fiveliterlx1990 17d ago
Such a beautiful looking girl, so sorry for your loss, my deepest condolences
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u/Travelingtheland 17d ago
Sorry for your loss, it’s the most heartbreaking part of having a dog🙏🏻❤️😂
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u/Kevinb888 17d ago
Roxi is such a cute, cute, sweet lil puppy!!!! You gave her a great life, I am so sorry for your loss 😞😞😞😞😞😞
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u/JakeNEPA 17d ago
I'm so, so sorry. What a beautiful girl! The love & bond you shared & will continue to share is obvious! Much love to you ❤️ 🐾 🌈
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u/whatchawhy 17d ago
That powder sugar face is so dang sweet. I'm sorry for your loss, but those 12 years will be amazing memories and lessons you learned. Take time to grieve and tell the good stories about her.
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u/s8rlink 17d ago
That first photo looks like she is running into doggy heaven, so at least to me it looks like you have her heaven here on earth, she was lucky to have found you! I hope you find solace soon
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u/Last_Insect6012 15d ago
Our favorite hobby was to find new trails on the weekend. I’ll truly miss my hiking buddy. 💔
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u/athanathios 17d ago
Clearly Roxi had an amazing life soo full of love and care, you two looked so happy together, she was a true beauty.
May the love you shared, and memories made warm you all your day and may you find wisdom through your suffering.
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u/ReindeerRoyal4960 17d ago
The last pic with her white hairs 🥰😭 Having pets is so bitter sweet. It'll never be enough time 💗
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u/sunnychoudhary_ 17d ago
I’m so sorry for your loss. 12 beautiful years together is a gift, but saying goodbye is never easy. Wishing you peace and comfort during this time. ❤️
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u/MasterpieceActual176 17d ago
Roxy was a sweet and lovely dog and you gave her a wonderful life. So sorry she is gone. I know it hurts.💕❤️
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u/cntrovrsal 16d ago
Rip Roxi enjoy your stay at the rainbow bridge and the unlimited treats and love there 🥺🌈🐾🕊️
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u/Boatingnut92 16d ago
OP sorry for your loss. You gave Roxi an amazing life full of memories for the both of you. Last August we had to put down our 14 year old beagle Diesel down. Her memory will live on with you forever. RIP Roxi ❤️
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u/Tired_Of_Beein_Tired 16d ago
I’m so sorry 😢 🐾🙏🏻💔
Here is a poem that helped me too…
When tomorrow starts without me And I’m not there to see; The sun will rise to find your eyes All filled with tears for me. I know how much you love me, As much as I love you And each time that you think of me, I know you’ll miss me too. But when tomorrow starts without me Please try to understand, That an angel came and called my name And petted me with her hand. I thought about our lives together; I know you must be sad, I thought of all the love we shared And all the fun times we had. So when tomorrow starts without me Don’t think we’re far apart. For everytime you think of me, I’m right there in your heart. -anonymous. ❤🙏
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u/Dntaskmeimjustagirl 16d ago
Safe travels to the other side Roxi. Save a good spot in heaven for OP ❤️
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u/janesadd 16d ago
I’m so sorry OP. She had a wonderful life and knew she was so loved. Thank you for being her person.
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u/SubterrelProspector 16d ago
What a sweetheart. My condolences. You'll see that precious face again one day. 🌈🐶
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u/Evelynmd214 16d ago
I’ve never known unconditional love except from my Abby. She left me far too soon
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u/Jsommers113 16d ago
Their the only family members we get to pick and we never have arguments. Its a tough pill to swallow. Sorry for your loss. She misses you too im sure.
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u/Palace-meen 16d ago
My heart hurts for you. The photos of you both are beautiful. I’m so sorry. Run free Roxi.
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u/kidgalaxy19 16d ago
Precious and loved Roxi! I’m so truly sorry for your loss. Cherish the memories you made together and never stop talking to her - she is always with you! 🫶🏼💛
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u/PositiveReference872 16d ago
Many blessings to you for your love and care of Roxi. May another worthy of Roxis status cross your path ✨️✨️✨️
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u/bobbyindiapers 16d ago
I AM OK
Hugs my humans, I am sitting here at the Rainbow Bridge. I don't want you to worry about me. There are other dogs and cats here with me. I know Mom was worried that I would be warm enough, she always was a worrier, but the weather here is bright and sunny. I am missing my ball. I did find a whole bunch of toys so I think I will find something to play with. It is so nice here, grass, creeks, ponds, and lakes. Trees and bushes, birds flying all around, and we don't have to worry about ever being picked on. I just met a Collie named Jack and he is taking me around to meet the others. Even the cats are friendly. Scarlet is a gray kitty and she showed me where the treats were, she even took a nap with me. Please don't get me wrong. I miss you all and one day we will meet again at the Rainbow Bridge until we do, don't worry about me. Until we meet again, thank you for giving me a life I truly enjoyed. I hope that I gave you many good times also. So until that day comes I will be waiting for you at the Rainbow Bridge.
R.Stanley Kuhn
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u/madlogic 16d ago
I’m so sorry for your loss of beautiful Roxi. There is a Facebook group called “The Loss of a Dog.” Every member is going through or has been through what you’re going through right now. They are great people who are very supportive and compassionate. Please consider joining. Here is the link to that group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/127386303953290/ There is also a phone number for a pet grief support helpline. It’s called Pet Compassion Careline. They are available 24/7 and their phone number is 1 (855) 245-8214. If you feel you need help coping with your loss, there are grief counselors to help you. I’m just putting it out there in case you would like to talk to someone on the phone about what you’re going through. Prayers of comfort to you and prayers of peace to this sweet pup. God bless.
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u/PilgrimPayne59 16d ago
As I walk across your heart and find my place to stay, nearer to you I will be and will never ever go away.
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u/fangirloffloof 16d ago
🥺💔never easy saying goodbye,but can't imagine a life without them...my condolences on your loss,she'll be waiting for you🌈🐾😢💕
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u/Alternative-Cap-7461 16d ago
Awww Roxy kinda reminds me of my Cocoa. I am so sorry you lost your sweet girl. You can tell how much you loved each other in these pictures! She’ll always be with you in your heart. ❤️🐾
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u/Beneficial_Owl_5055 16d ago
i lost my old girl Roxie in 2018, i still remember her smell and i’ve made a shrine for her with her collar. things will get better, im so sorry for your loss.
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u/Amoyamoyamoya 16d ago
Sorry for your loss.
RIP Roxi! Play in Paradise!
My Amoretto, Vision, Carson, and all of our babies that have gone before will look for you next to the Rainbow Bridge so you can all play in the Field together!
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u/Skiifast315 16d ago
Roxy is beautiful. No more pain for her,just you. But that emptiness is just her taking part of you with her. So she can still have you with her ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
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u/rodinatorrr 16d ago
I’m so sorry for your loss. She was beautiful, and she had a wonderful owner to call her best friend. You will always have those beautiful memories and grief is just love enduring
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u/TaminoPup 15d ago
I am sorry you had to say goodbye to Roxi here on Earth. May Roxi be happy and waiting for you, over the Rainbow Bridge 💕🐾
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u/Deerreed2 15d ago
God bless her; God bless you.
It’s just so sad on so many levels.
I’m truly sorry for her and for you. 😫💦🙏
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u/Echo5Romeo0311 15d ago
I'm so sorry for your loss!!! Rest in peace, sweet Roxi. Thank you for sharing pictures of your beautiful girl.
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u/kittendollie13 14d ago
Those are wonderful pictures. I am so sorry. I know you will see your beautiful dog again.
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