Three weeks ago I 40(f) met a guy (34) on an app. The first week was so surreal. Constant texting, telling me how amazing I was and I was so gorgeous and beautiful. Then a week into it he does the bait and switch, telling me he realized he’s not ready and he cant give me what I want.

By this time I know he’s a Gemini but I’m trying to give him the benefit of the doubt. I’ve had a bad situation with a different Gemini a year ago that did the same thing to me. The whole love-bombing or whatever you call it in the beginning and then does a 180. Completely messed me up for a bit.

Anyway back to this current guy.. after he tells me he’s not ready, two days goes by and he tells me he had time to think and that he’s ready to give me a chance. Next few days are great again. Then again, just switches.

Now it’s completely done and we are no contact. But these last three weeks was such an emotional whirlwind, and I honestly feel so dumb getting together with another Gemini, knowing what happened to me a year ago.

I think I’m one of those Sagittarius’s that does not have good luck with Gemini’s. So no more for me ever 😂

I feel like a lot of people go on a few dates and get attached. I’m 24 I don’t get attached to men easily. Even after a year of dating I’m still cautious and it’s not like I have trust issues; I’ve never been cheated on. It’s just that for me until I’m married I dont see the point. I have alot of friends who get attached after a few phone calls and texts…I just don’t get it? I’ve lived majority of my life without them so idk 🤣 after you get your heartbroken once it’s like any other breakup or heartbreak is too easy to overcome. What about you guys? Do you get attached easily?

I said what I said. No matter how hard we may act they will bring us to our knees

If not, we should totally have one! I think it would be fun. I mean like one on Reddit. I don't think there is one for us. If I am incorrect can someone direct me to the Sagittarius group chat please!

i just arrived from my sag friend party

we had a fling but currently are distant romantically speaking

she’s leaving to another job across the country

tonight, after drinking a bit and admiring her, i got a bit aroused

so impulsevely asked “would you like to fuck?”

she was surprised and said no, then justified that she was tired

i said that’s okay and apologized later, i didn’t mean to be offensive, bc i saw that i caught her off guard

i really don’t want to make things awkward or be disrespectful. should i text her saying this or leave it alone and just move on?

thanks

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