Graduation is on the horizon. I've finally gotten my photoshoot and toga fitted. I'm just surviving to walk the stage and get my diploma. I'm taking the time to have a little reflection before I move on.
School/College is the perfect environment to ask for help. You are free to fail without real-world consequences (aside from not being able to graduate). Dumb questions don't sound so dumb especially when it helps you build your understanding on a topic. This extends to teachers and fellow students.
Try to take advantage of consultation hours, especially if you're looking to get a good grade on a certain prof. Professors can give you more personalized feedback during in-person consultations. Did your paper not get a good grade? Your project/lab went wrong? Press your prof to give you concrete evidence on what went wrong. This serves as a good feedback loop to help you improve. Assuming you are unlucky enough to get a terror prof, this helps you figure out what appeases them.
Your fellow students are your friends. Everyone is in the same boat here. We don't care about hitting the top. We all just want to pass/excel. Share notes when you can. It definitely helps create interesting bonds during your stay. More importantly, your fellow classmates might cover material that your prof might try to blindside you with. The more prepared everyone is, the easier it is to surf through school.
- Mental health matters more than you think
I personally struggled with this for all of college. It was barely an inconvenience for me during high school. Entering college, I find myself having to consciously exert effort to stay "sane". However, I only started working on it when it was too overwhelming. By that time, I am already too late. I could not function enough to work outside of class hours. I could not focus enough to retain anything during class discussion.
Whatever your issue may be, please find a way to address it. The two hours you spend working on it per day will save you weeks/months of debilitating pain. My acads got affected to the point where even my self-worth as a student added unto the already long check list fueling my anxiety.
If a school counsellor is available to you, I strongly suggest scheduling an appointment with them. If you are fortunate enough to afford a therapist, by all means, consistently see them. Having a professional that can help you ask the right questions provides so much value by directing your attention towards the right ideas. Sometimes, all we need is a little validation to let us know we aren't crazy for feeling the way we do.
The power of good sleep helps your brain actually think. Exhaustion is your enemy here. This is a marathon, not a sprint. Similar to the earlier point, ignoring this need will hurt you in the long run. It can also make emotional regulation more difficult.
What if I need to cram something over night? Welp, hate to break it to you but that's poor planning (or really bad luck). You have two choices: a.) risk affecting the next n number of days and finish the deliverable tonight; b.) accept the penalty and rest to save the many classes you will have to face the next day. One way to discern is checking how big this one deliverable will hit your grade vs. the combined value of those in the future. This brings me to my next point
I know this has been said before, but I swear it can't be emphasized enough. Planning your day and scheduling the work you will put out for your deliverables help immensely. Doing them the day/night before is one of the worst case scenarios around. Spread them out to account for unforeseen difficulties.
Assuming you are able to get away with cramming, you are unknowingly building complacency. I stagnated to knowing the basic knowledge of a topic instead of understanding it deeply. You probably won't remember half of what you crammed during the panic.
Not to sound crazy, but you got to have your own voice in your head. You need to be able to think with intention. It's easy to lose yourself in this fast-paced environment of meeting one deadline after the other. But there are times where you got to be able to take a moment and figure out if you are on auto-pilot or not. Sometimes, you will realize that the options you have are not all there is to choose. Sometimes, your prof will be unfair. You can't just quietly accept that. You got to have your own voice to stand up and justify why you can't let it slide.
Most importantly, this helps you figure out what you want out of your education. The simplest answer is usually for job security. Some go so far to answer that learning is a passion. Whatever your answer is, that should be able to guide you long past the graduation march.
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I hope you find these helpful. Feel free to add, correct, or even share anything to help your fellow students out. We're all in this together. Eventually, we will also be running the world (lemme borrow this, Beyoncé hehe). I hope you all get value out of your education. Peace ✌️