r/TuxedoCats Dec 02 '24

🤍 JUST ADOPTED 🤍 Little guy followed my boyfriend home from the bar.

He waltzed through the front door and snuggled right in. We've had him for a few weeks now and I'm so happy. I grew up with lots of cats but never had a tuxie, he's so sweet, he's 50% sleep, 40% lovies, and 10% mischief. His name is Possum. We love him.

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u/MCM_Airbnb_Host Dec 02 '24

The cat distribution system at its finest!

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u/Oobedoo321 Dec 02 '24

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u/MCM_Airbnb_Host Dec 02 '24

Of course there is! Lol

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u/Select_Asparagus3451 Dec 03 '24

So. Damn. Cute!

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u/Good-Personality-209 Dec 03 '24

Well, you need to KEEP this cutie pie

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u/grammy_smasher Dec 05 '24

I want this to happen to me

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u/Specialist_Ask_3639 Dec 03 '24

I got a defective one.

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u/tempusrimeblood Dec 03 '24

All cats are defective in some way, but the CDS ensures the right defects are matched with compatible humans.

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u/lemonrence Dec 03 '24

Soon. Your time will come

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u/crazycatdermy Dec 03 '24

My CDS is defective too. I tried taking in one of the friendly colony cats that I feed (he was sick and had to go to the vet) but he was NOT having it. Yowled all day for three days straight, didn't eat or pee. He went back outside and is his happy self again.

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u/Specialist_Ask_3639 Dec 03 '24

I'm hoping she grows out of it, they usually do, but she's the worst I've ever had. Little monster is completely immune to bite training. On the plus side she picked up litter training extremely quickly, which makes me believe she's just smart enough to be malicious.

I attend every meeting like I just fought off Freddy.

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u/alterEd39 Dec 03 '24

Those aren’t defects, those are features

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u/kao_nyc Dec 02 '24

He looks like he’s been there his whole life! Thank you for sharing this great story & photos.

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u/RedditUser28947 Dec 02 '24

The first pic was his first night home after a bath ❤️

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u/Mixed-Meta-Force Dec 02 '24

He let you give him a bath?!? How? LOL. I need some tips! I have three that will each cause my arms to look like a road map if I even try to put them near a tub of water, although they are fascinated by it, and will watch the sink faucet run and the toilet flush all damn day. They even have a fountain they love to play with drink out of. Oh, wait… Maybe he is someone’s lost pet? Did you take him to a vet to see if he has a microchip?

Edit-add: Those pics tho! Omg. It looks like he loves being with you. I love how he is so trusting with belly up all the time!

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u/RedditUser28947 Dec 02 '24

Definitely not a lost pet, he's smaller than he looks, he was about 10 weeks so his mama was probably just starting to ditch him. I think having lived outside initially he was pretty used to getting wet and he was also so exhausted when he came in the house he was so docile for anything. He was okay with the warm water initially, only cried when it started to get cold.

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u/Mixed-Meta-Force Dec 02 '24

Awwwww. Pretty cool that he’s so easy-going. Tuxies are such characters! Ya can’t help but love them.

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u/Neonlikebjork Dec 02 '24

Oof all kitties get at least a partial bath when I adopt. It’s not the best, but a Dawn bath wipe down of some sort. I’ll wear long sleeves and scruff if need be. No dirty kitties here. Then some nail clipping and Churu after. I seek help on the nail clipping.

I feel like all this introduces them to who their new mama or daddy is grooming them. It’s not an easy job!

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u/Mixed-Meta-Force Dec 02 '24

Yes, I do the wipe-downs with them, and I trim their nails (they actually don’t mind that for some reason). I bought these online: they smell really good and the kittehs love the rubbin’s! They do try to take them away and/or “play” with the wipes, but we get it done.

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u/Neonlikebjork Dec 03 '24

Ooh I’m going to get these. Now they bathe each other, but they could use a holiday wipe down. Haha

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u/Mixed-Meta-Force Dec 03 '24

lol. Yes. They are a pretty good solution. I love Burt’s Bees. I bought these because their chapstick kicks ass.

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u/RealCommercial9788 Dec 03 '24

This information has made my day! I love Burt’s chapsticks so now me & my void can be twins of sorts! 😅

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u/[deleted] Dec 02 '24

and Churu after.

This is the way!

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u/Plate-Extreme Dec 02 '24

That a boy Possum !!! Live your best life !!! Good job Hoomans !!!

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u/HibiscusBlades Dec 03 '24

If not for the chin, I would think that was my girl Penguin!

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u/Plate-Extreme Dec 03 '24

Hello Penguin 🌹

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u/Zarde312 Dec 03 '24

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u/dat_asssss Dec 03 '24

when I thought I had joined all the cat subs…

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u/Plate-Extreme Dec 03 '24

He been there !!

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u/Zarde312 Dec 03 '24

Of course he has!

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u/ThrowRAyikesidkman Dec 02 '24

i love when cats just show up and are like “yep i live here now” he’s soooooooo cute ☺️

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u/EssSeeDee89 Dec 02 '24

Happened to me…3 damn times 😂 (4 if I include the girl cat I rehomed too)

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u/Dogesneakers Dec 02 '24

Love when cats just know who have good vibes

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u/RedditUser28947 Dec 02 '24

He's his little shadow now haha

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u/Adventurous-Writing1 Dec 02 '24

Bless you , the community of pet lovers thank you for your kindness

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u/hates_writing_checks Dec 03 '24

When you get a cute picture of the two of them together, PLEASE share it in /r/MenSmittenWithKittens. Bonus: if the cat looks back at your BF, they will enjoy it at /r/CatsMirin.

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u/LongjumpingPush2690 Dec 02 '24

He is adorable and you are very kind to offer him a home 🥰

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u/Reader124-Logan Dec 02 '24

He was waiting outside the bar for the right guy to come along. Looks like kitty hit the jackpot. They know the bath means the humans really care.

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u/RedditUser28947 Dec 02 '24

I told my bf who didn't grow up with cats that we are the ones who hit the jackpot lol. Born feral can go so many different ways but he clearly yearned for a softer lifestyle.

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u/Repulsive_Meat2124 Dec 02 '24

Yes I understand, men love the idea of a woodsman life but really once they get a sofa and soft clothes there’s no going back.

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u/Classic_Cauliflower4 Dec 03 '24

I theorize he arrived and realized he was overdressed for that particular bar, so he waited around until he found a guy he could hang out with.

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u/cturkosi Dec 03 '24

See, this is why going to bars is better than being on dating apps.

You can't get cats on Tinder!

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u/MeaningNatural629 Dec 02 '24

He chooses you 😻

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u/Lady_Asshat Dec 02 '24

Tuxes are the coolest cats, he’ll make a believer out of you! Well done Possum, well done OP! 😻😻😻

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u/dubdue Dec 02 '24

“Followed” haha jks

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u/RedditUser28947 Dec 02 '24

He definitely didn't want a cat, he said he practically spawned out of nowhere in the middle of the street and followed him about a block home 🤣

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u/[deleted] Dec 02 '24

 "spawned out of nowhere"

Suddenly a wild Tux appears!

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u/de_Luke1 Dec 03 '24

Spawning out of nowhere "Hello, I decided to adopt you. Resistance is furtile. Everything that's been yours is now mine"

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u/RaisingAurorasaurus Dec 03 '24

Cat has +5 charisma

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u/dat_asssss Dec 03 '24

spawned 😂😭

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u/[deleted] Dec 02 '24

looks like my boy!

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u/bxkgsoye Dec 02 '24

Hello long lost brother!!

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u/Beengone_too_long Dec 02 '24

This little fella showed up at our house, malnourished and broken. Apparently a neighbor abused him as a kitten. I had him x-rayed and leg was broken in three places, but had partially healed. He walks with a limp, but he’s a happy boy now.

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u/Neonlikebjork Dec 03 '24

Aw I’m so sorry he went through that. Thank you for taking care of him. 🩷

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u/curranimal Dec 02 '24

Possum has the makings of a world class pet. I lost my 21 y.o. Tux & was heartbroken for a few weeks when another young Tux moved right in & stayed for 17 years. I’m waiting for the next one! Tuxedo cats are very special.

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u/pansygrrl Dec 02 '24

Awww Possum is almost Frankie’s twin! He’s 8 months and has those long lanky legs and long white guard hairs.

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u/pansygrrl Dec 02 '24

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u/_whatever4ever Dec 03 '24

Aww he almost looks like an oriental short hair with that cute nose! Very handsome little fellow you’ve got there 🖤

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u/AuntieYodacat Dec 02 '24

Omg! He’s absolutely adorable 🥰

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u/psuedophilia Dec 02 '24

Photo 5 has me tearing up 🥹

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u/RedditUser28947 Dec 02 '24

I sent that to my neighbor and told him we found the little guy in the street, he thought he was dead 😭

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u/psuedophilia Dec 02 '24

Hahaha he is playing possum!!

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u/PerpetualEternal Dec 02 '24

Looks he just spit 16 bars of Rapper’s Delight, needs a lil Kangol hat and a tracksuit

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u/_whatever4ever Dec 03 '24

I have always thought my David Bean was the cutest cat in the world but I’ll be honest, Possum is giving him a run for his money

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u/RedditUser28947 Dec 03 '24

They're brothers!

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u/MavenOfNothing Dec 02 '24

Best pick up ever!

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u/TwistedMisery13 Dec 02 '24

Prepare yourself! For that is going to be a large lad!

CDS gave me my boy in July. We had guessed he was around 4 months at the time. At his last appointment, she literally said he may be younger than (currently) 8 months and he's already NINE AND A HALF POUNDS. Your boy also has the bunny feet. *

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u/Stupid_cray0n Dec 03 '24

He looks just like my Henry when he was little! This is him now, 15.5 years later

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u/[deleted] Dec 02 '24

He looks a little young to be drinking!

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u/Cersei_Lannister84 Dec 02 '24

He must have had a rough night at the bar 😆♥️

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u/FlavalisticSwang Dec 02 '24

Cuteness Overload

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u/Drink-my-koolaid Dec 02 '24

Possum says "FIGHT ON!"

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u/RedditUser28947 Dec 02 '24

✌️ he spends equal time on the TTU blankie though 👆 he can't play favorites of mom and dad's schools

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u/slippygumband Dec 03 '24

So cute, I’m sending my wife to the bar now.

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u/GingerinWV Dec 02 '24

He's utterly adorable! Those pix melted my heart. He looks so happy and settled in! 🥰

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u/FoodExternal Dec 03 '24

Congratulations. You are now cat staff*

(Dogs have owners, cats have staff)

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u/Tall_Bandicoot_2768 Dec 03 '24

“Gotta get em when theyre drunk, works every time”

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u/Lordsdaughter_1 Dec 03 '24

What a lucky little guy he is, thank you for keeping him and giving him a loving home. Y'all are the best kind of people 😊

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u/nickheathjared Dec 03 '24

That’s how my first Tuxedo came to live and eat at my house. Now I can’t do without one.

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u/Specific_Award_9149 Dec 02 '24

Have you taken him to the vet to see if he's chipped and posted on forums to see if that's some else's cat?

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u/RedditUser28947 Dec 02 '24

He's actually way tinier than he looks, vet estimated 8-10 weeks, not chipped lol.

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u/yoshi-mochi Dec 02 '24

How cute! He definitely got a good vibe from your bf haha 😺

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u/catladee14 Dec 02 '24 edited Dec 02 '24

He looks just like our Pear-Bear 🥹 What a schnookums!!

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u/impygirl_1973 Dec 02 '24

Cat distribution system has chosen you!

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u/Affectionate_Olive53 Dec 02 '24

A tuxedo that loves USC! He is a keeper!

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u/The_Dead_Kennys Dec 02 '24

What a handsome little fella! 😻

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u/0ldGoat Dec 02 '24

What a beautiful baby 🥰

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u/Unpopular_Mechanics Dec 02 '24

Hey, have you checked this wee guy for a microchip? He looks very healthy in the first photo, some poor family could be missing their kitten :(

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u/RedditUser28947 Dec 02 '24

He was filthy before we cleaned him up. He went to the vet a week after we found him, no chip. There are ferals in our neighborhood and the vet estimated him at 8-10 weeks so his mama probably just started ditching him when he saw a chance and took it to befriend the big man walking down the street lol.

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u/Unpopular_Mechanics Dec 02 '24

Very glad to hear, he looks so happy with his new life ❤️

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u/DueWealth345 Dec 03 '24

He's so adorable and just the sweetest looking kitty ever! I think you have one happy kitty that followed the right person home!

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u/PurpleKittyVIP Dec 03 '24

Those toe beans thouuuu 😍 ahhh so heckin cuteee 💗

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u/krmtca Dec 03 '24

he is SO cute 😭😭

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u/attempthappy2020 Dec 03 '24

He is adorable!!!!

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u/Angrfake Dec 03 '24

“What a little sweet boy- oh my god.”

Literally what I said.

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u/RedditUser28947 Dec 03 '24

Number 5 got you? Number is a killer

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u/Luci-Noir Dec 03 '24

Hey, I had a little meow follow me from the bar a long time ago, and she looked just like this! It was late at night and snowing pretty hard and I could heard some little meows stalking me. I found her in the deep snow and took her home. I didn’t have any cat ingredients, so I made her a piece of chicken and got all the stuff the next day.

A few months later, she disappeared. I think my brother’s POS drug dealer friend let her out or took her. I’m pretty sure he had stolen from me before. Scum.

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u/luciferskitty Dec 03 '24

Thank you!!!

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u/Agitated-Dark-151 Dec 03 '24

So precious 💞💕

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u/powermotion Dec 03 '24

Some folks just have all the luck

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u/JetBlackPugs Dec 05 '24

He is one of the cutest cats I’ve ever seen

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u/_caitleigh Dec 02 '24

He is so cute! Looks like my 15 year old Tuxie when he was a baby. 🥹

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u/Fabulous-Regret20964 Dec 02 '24

Congratulations!!! LOVE LOVE LOVE the name!!

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u/No_Flatworm_3602 Dec 02 '24

Congratulations you’ve both been adopted 🥰

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u/doer32 Dec 02 '24

Nice name for the tux

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u/Aggravating_Cup_864 Dec 02 '24

Hello cute little baby

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u/Leather-Anything8351 Dec 02 '24

He’s now a homeowner😻

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u/Baronessss Dec 02 '24

Ahhhh why don’t I have this luck? He’s so so adorable.

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u/[deleted] Dec 02 '24

so cute omg!!!!!

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u/United_Floor_6646 Dec 02 '24

I love Possum!! He is such a cutie!! Thank you for sharing 🖤🤍

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u/sarah7897 Dec 02 '24

What a FIND!!! 😻😻😻 absolutely adorable. Looks like he’s got a super sweet personality too.

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u/Far-Reward-3894 Dec 02 '24

So cute. Lucky you.

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u/[deleted] Dec 02 '24

Congratulations, you now have a cat.

Do Not Resist. Thanks!

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u/frolicndetour Dec 02 '24

He looks very pleased with his choice of home and hoomins.

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u/bassoonemilee Dec 02 '24

I love how he’s made himself at home 😻

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u/[deleted] Dec 02 '24

Omgosh thank you for taking in this sweet fur baby!! One of my kitties also followed me home from a parking lot over a decade ago haha. 🥰✨

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u/Tink1024 Dec 02 '24

Awesome Possum!!! So happy for all of you and thank you both for being kind and good humans 💕🐾💕

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u/nautjordan Dec 02 '24

What a wonderful little guy! Take good care of him as I’m sure you will, and he will be the best friend you could ever hope to have like my Tux is to me.

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u/Titania_F Dec 02 '24

He picked the right person to follow home that’s for sure! His adorable 🥰

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u/Forward-Ad9023 Dec 02 '24

10% mischief for a tuxie is good going - mine was climbing the curtains till he was 2! 🤣 He’s gorgeous 😍

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u/Mission-Patient-4404 Dec 02 '24

You have a cat now 🖤🤍

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u/mrsdhammond Dec 02 '24

Hes so freaking adorable 😍

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u/dreadrickohollywood Dec 02 '24

He’s a keeper Lil Tux

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u/KickinGa55 Dec 02 '24

Ahh yes. Kitties love soft blankets

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u/Particular-Date6138 Dec 02 '24

I've never wanted another kitten so bad 😭

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u/aspencerr Dec 02 '24

Reminds me of my cat

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u/vpblackheart Dec 03 '24

Look what the cat dragged in. 😂

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u/Superfry88 Dec 03 '24

Howdy Possum! (Your title reads a lil like the beginning of a joke.)

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u/Particular_Click_823 Dec 03 '24

CAT: "In my old hood, they called me Tracker."

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u/SmutStorm Dec 03 '24

He reminds me of one of my current two tuxie boys, Tito! Thank you for rescuing and loving that little bean

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u/Amander12 Dec 03 '24

I love him! He looks like my cat growing up named Sox ❤️❤️

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u/Jean19812 Dec 03 '24

Sylvester!

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u/ninerfan95662 Dec 03 '24

You were adopted as he walked thru the front door you know?

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u/StonerMoonie Dec 03 '24

He is the sweetest little imp! Cat distribution center wins again!!

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u/crunchycakes123 Dec 03 '24

He is soooooooo cute!!!

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u/CharacterVolume307 Dec 03 '24

Sweet little tuxie boo boo baby!

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u/Matto_McFly_81 Dec 03 '24

Mmmmmaybe keep a lookout for Missing Cat posters. Could be someone else's? Doesn't seem like a stray

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u/Real-Apartment-1130 Dec 03 '24

He’s awesome!!!! ❤️🐈‍⬛ Good karma to you guys for saving him. He looks very very happy!

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u/zanaris187 Dec 03 '24

Oh, to be loved and loved in return.

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u/ShastaMB Dec 03 '24

He’s so sploingy

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u/ImDero Dec 03 '24

Shoot I think we got duplicates.

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u/scrutator_tenebrarum Dec 03 '24

first time i see someone being happy cause her boyfriend picked up a nice pussy at the bar.

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u/burntsnoah Dec 03 '24

That's a fucking good looking kitty

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u/Deth_Troll Dec 03 '24

Nr 9. BOOP!

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u/VincentcODy Dec 03 '24

Fuckk when will my time come?

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u/Imaginary-5042 Dec 03 '24

He looks like a short haired version of my Mittens!

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u/AbleHalf6277 Dec 03 '24

What a little winner, lucky you!!!

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u/AggravatingEvent5440 Dec 03 '24

“hey this place is niiiiiice” 🤭

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u/No_Amount9368 Dec 03 '24

You've been adopted

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u/DesperateToNotDream Dec 05 '24

“Hey guys, where ya going? Home? Oh cool, me too, I love going home, let’s go home.”

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u/ChemicalOven3416 Dec 07 '24

Well, I think you need to keep it. He made your home his home.

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u/Tricky_Direction_897 Dec 07 '24

❤️❤️❤️

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u/JohnsonZ887 Dec 08 '24

So has he climbed the Xmas tree yet?

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u/RedditUser28947 Dec 08 '24

Oh god how did you know I just put it up today 🤣🤣🤣

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u/JohnsonZ887 Dec 08 '24

Lol no idea. Thats great. Just so you know this stuff works. Rocco & Roxie No Chew Spray

Love your story on how you adopted.

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u/Jsweethoney Dec 02 '24

That’s the only pusay bwttwr be following my man home from the bar haha jk

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u/TheDog_Chef Dec 02 '24

And he said he wasn’t playing with any pusy at the bar!😂

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u/Local_Muffin_4526 Dec 02 '24

does he have extra beans!!? so cute

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u/lostinthoughtspace Dec 02 '24

Possum is adorable! the sleeping pic with his paws on top of the other is to die for

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u/ballsackballe Dec 02 '24

Call him the drink that you liked the most at the bar

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u/ajb_1302 Dec 02 '24

He's adorable! I hope you guys keep him. I just foster failed a little tuxedo that looks just like him. :)

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u/RedditUser28947 Dec 02 '24

Oh he's very much part of the fam now

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u/liftbikerun Dec 02 '24

My first two cats right after college were tuxedo's, I now have 3 Bengals and three rescues and I'll say there is something special about tuxs, you need to get the little guy a friend if you can. It will enrich his life so much.

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u/SLesleyC222 Dec 02 '24

Oh so precious! 🥰💜

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u/Final-Appointment112 Dec 02 '24

Ohmygoodness….picture 5….he needs something to hug lol

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u/RedditUser28947 Dec 02 '24

Usually that would be me

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u/_DeepKitchen_ Dec 02 '24

I’m going to the wrong bars 🤔

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u/Junior_Trash_1393 Dec 02 '24

He’s sooooo sweet

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u/SpeechRoyal361 Dec 02 '24

He's definitely a keeper 

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u/beardingmesoftly Dec 02 '24

Tuxedo cats are very smart and have a silly sense of humour! Make sure to give him a nice cozy space all his own, and plenty of different ways to engage his brain, or you'll find scratch marks on everything. Good luck and enjoy!

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u/Unplayed_untamed Dec 02 '24

When will it be my turn :(

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u/EntropyNT Dec 02 '24

So cute! I love him! 😻 My tuxedo kitty also found us when we were out on a walk.

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u/Sad_Blacksmith_Forge Dec 02 '24

Great photos. He's so adorable 😻. Thanks for the share.

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u/Healthy_Bet3360 Dec 02 '24

Now that is one comfortable happy and cute playful tuxedo cat

And love the description of his character makeup and his name

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u/unakron Dec 02 '24

Welcome to inside livin' little guy. Enjoy it.

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u/JuniorKing9 Dec 02 '24

The cat distribution system strikes again!

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u/Robinothoodie Dec 02 '24

Love the final photo

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u/Kaliden-Stormblessed Dec 02 '24

Tuxedo cats are the best!!

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u/Micazu999 Dec 02 '24

U can tell he was a house cat by how clean his mittens are 🐾🐾🐾

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u/mattomic Dec 02 '24

He's got a beautiful pattern and a cute bubblegum nose. Cute on the outside and apparently the inside too! <3

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u/RedditUser28947 Dec 02 '24

His perfect little possum nose

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u/TheKnife142 Dec 02 '24

He looks like such a good kitty 🤍

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u/NoInitiative7991 Dec 03 '24

Welp he's yours now lol