I’m an international student in San Diego, and I wanted to share my ongoing two-year-long battle to get my money back from a shady landlord. After countless efforts, I'm finally close to seeing justice. 🧾💥
Here’s how it all started and where it’s going:
⏸️ Background
In April 2023, I was looking to rent off-campus. Young and naïve, I made the classic mistake: I paid a $2000 security deposit before signing the lease. The next day, I read the contract properly and realized it was full of red flags. A quick Google search confirmed tons of terrible reviews about the landlord. When I tried to get the deposit back, they refused.
1️⃣ Stage 1: Email Negotiations
I tried to resolve things through email. All I got in return were threats, intimidation, and complete refusal to talk. At the time, I was scared. Looking back now, it was just bluff and bluster.
2️⃣ Stage 2: Filing a Lawsuit (Small Claims)
Since the amount was under $10K, I filed in Small Claims Court (under civil). Filing fee was $75. I filed in May and got a court date in late August. The waiting was brutal.
3️⃣ Stage 3: Serving the Defendant – Maybe Minor Headache🤯🤯
This part nearly derailed everything. To proceed, you have to legally "serve" the defendant court papers. We weren’t in the same city, and you can’t serve them yourself (or ask friends/family). Court services were unreliable, so I hired a process server. It took money, patience, and literal stakeouts — but the guy finally caught the landlord at home.
4️⃣ Stage 4: Court Day
Surprisingly, court wasn’t scary. The judge hears many cases back-to-back, and everyone lines up until their case is called. My judge was fair and patient, letting each side explain. The landlord skipped the first court date but showed up the second time — gave some fake excuses, which the judge didn't buy. In the end, because we didn’t have a signed lease, the court ruled that the deposit wasn’t valid and ordered the landlord to return the money + penalties.
5️⃣ Stage 5: Actually Getting Paid – the REAL Nightmare 🤯🫣🤭🥵😡😤😳😰🫠🫥
I thought the court would collect the money for me... NOPE. You’re on your own. It took three different levy attempts (to seize funds), and only the rent levy finally worked. Barely.
⚠️I’ll keep posting updates as this wraps up, but I wanted to warn other SD students: do NOT rent from this landlord. And if anyone else is in the same situation, I’m happy to answer questions or offer tips. This process completely reshaped how I view housing, the law, and trust in general.
While in the process, I also encountered another victim who also (different situation) took her money away! ⛔️So… SD students BE AWARE!!!!!!!!! ⛔️
💡Key Takeaways:
1️⃣Never pay anything before signing a contract.
2️⃣Cautios private landlords! Use LinkedIn, Google, reviews. Have your parents read the lease — don’t be shy.
3️⃣Legal action = serious energy drain. Be prepared mentally, emotionally, and financially.
4️⃣Kind ≠ weak. International students can fight back — and win.
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