r/alabamabluedots • u/sweetpotatolo • 8d ago
Discussion Anyone else too scared to have kids because of the abortion ban?
Little bit of a rant but I've just kind of lost all hope on ever having a baby. My bf and I used to talk about having one in the future but the more I hear about women dying and being punished as a result of roe v wade being overturned, the less I want to have one. Like if I end up having a complication where I NEED an abortion are they going to let me die? Sure there's the exception of the mother's life but we've already seen cases of women in other red states dying regardless of this. Will I be punished for having a miscarriage? It's just so... frustrating I guess. I feel like the only way I could have a baby is by moving to a blue state but all my family lives here and I don't think I can bring myself to leave them. Ugh