r/blackcats Feb 12 '23

Mourning Had to say goodbye to Crowbar after 15 years of love

I will miss you, buddy.

6.1k Upvotes

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u/RachelPalmer79 Feb 12 '23

πŸ–€πŸ’”πŸ–€Hail and Farewell Crowbar. Go Forth, and Fear no Darkness.

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u/calterg Feb 12 '23

Thank you, that means a lot.

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u/RachelPalmer79 Feb 12 '23

I’ve been there. And I’m sorry. Look after yourself.πŸ–€

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u/LadyLazarus2021 Feb 13 '23

I am very sorry about Crowbar. Can I tell you what an AWESOME name Crowbar is, though?

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u/AimDev Feb 12 '23

He is the void so darkness fears him

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u/Electrical-Act-7170 Feb 12 '23

Crowbar is the Darkness!

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u/Electrical-Act-7170 Feb 12 '23

"...For I, Crowbar, am the Darkness!"

Hail and Farewell, good Crowbar! The Rainbow Bridge awaits.

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u/LadyLazarus2021 Feb 13 '23

this is so kind.

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u/BronzeAmzn Feb 12 '23

So sorry for the loss of your sweet furbaby πŸ–€ May he rest peacefully πŸ–€

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u/calterg Feb 12 '23

Thank you, I really appreciate it.

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u/Separate_Performer86 Feb 12 '23

He was your chinky blk boy. I love black cats. 15 years is a damn good car life.

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u/ZenGeka1 Feb 12 '23

Crowbar is a next level name. RIP Void, I'm sure they were dearly loved.

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u/calterg Feb 12 '23

Everyone always loved his name, people couldn’t help but comment. It fit him perfectly. Once he lets you in, he could pry open even the most tightly locked up hearts. Threatening when sitting still on the couch. And always there when you needed him.

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u/ninksmarie Feb 12 '23

And I’m not the only one here that just knew that was the meaning behind such an epic name.

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u/HotAd6201 Feb 12 '23

What a special boy. I am so sorry for your loss, but happy that you have so many amazing memories to comfort you.

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u/javaper Feb 12 '23

Aww, I'm so sorry. Sending warm thoughts and hopes for dreams of Crowbar. πŸ’™πŸ™πŸ’™πŸ™πŸ’™πŸ™πŸ’™πŸ™πŸ’™πŸ™πŸ’™πŸ™

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u/calterg Feb 12 '23

I would love to see him in a dream. Before he passed we got to take one last nap together. I have such clear memories of looking at him before closing my eyes and finding him on my feet when I woke up, still with me. He was a good boy.

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u/javaper Feb 12 '23

πŸ’™πŸ’™πŸ™πŸ™ One of my cats passed a few years ago, and I had a dream of her old fluffy, white, and glowing. She lay next to me and I pet her till I woke up. It made me sad and happy. Hoping for the same to you.

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u/Kristycat Feb 12 '23

Kisses for Crowbar! Such a sweet memory for you ❀️

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u/calterg Feb 12 '23

Thank you.

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u/theproblem_solver Feb 12 '23

Those are the best dreams. I love visiting with much-missed kitties in my dreams.

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u/javaper Feb 12 '23

πŸ™πŸ’™πŸ™πŸ’™ Hoping for more.

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u/[deleted] Feb 12 '23

I'm so sorry for your loss.

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u/calterg Feb 12 '23

I appreciate it. :)

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u/keg025 Feb 12 '23

He looked so sweet ❀ Just out of curiosity, where did you get that fish barrel scratcher? My cat would adore that

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u/calterg Feb 12 '23

Thank you! I actually found it second hand. I think amazon has some good similar options if you search cat scratcher and go down that rabbit hole. Good luck!

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u/keg025 Feb 12 '23

Yeah I want to find something similar in shape. My cat has one of those rectangular bed-shaped ones that she likes alright but I feel like she'd be more into one like that. It's like a cat trap lol

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u/guybuttersnaps37 Feb 12 '23

oh, Crowbar πŸ–€πŸ’”πŸ–€

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u/AntheaBrainhooke Feb 12 '23

May Crowbar find a Summer where the sun is cool and the mice are slow.

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u/littletrashpanda77 Feb 12 '23

I'm so sorry for your loss. Just remember they are only in our lives for a short period. But for them, we are there their entire lives and love them for all of it. 15 years of love is a long time! An entire lifetime of love. Crowbar's entire life was filled with happiness and comfort from you. Imagine how wonderful it would be to find the love of your life at a very young age and be with them until you die of old age.

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u/calterg Feb 12 '23

Thank you. I really appreciate your perspective.

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u/ninksmarie Feb 12 '23

God that’s beautiful πŸ–€πŸˆβ€β¬›

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u/feministbitch11 Feb 12 '23

Rest in peace void baby

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u/MissTesticles Feb 12 '23

Deepest condolences from the core of the earth to the beginning of the galaxy. Crowbar looks like he was a gentleman & an angel. Those table manners are enviable (for my void, not for myself haha).

Edit: love the Japanese death poem book, looks interesting

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u/calterg Feb 12 '23

He was both of those things. He was happiest when next to me or when eating, so sometimes he got both. Thank you.

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u/MissTesticles Feb 12 '23

Sounds like you were both immeasurable gifts to each other. If you ever wanna vent or remember memories of him, and nobody's around to listen, my inbox is always open.

Best of luck in your healing process, dude

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u/wallstreetsilver15 Feb 12 '23

Sorry for your loss 😒

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u/calterg Feb 12 '23

Thank you, it is nice to have people seeing him off.

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u/Minirex81 Feb 12 '23

I’m so sorry for your loss 😿

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u/Flintlet Feb 12 '23

So sorry for your loss of handsome fur baby.

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u/barely_cursed Feb 12 '23

Crowbar looks awesome. I once met a void named Yardstick, he only had 3 legs as one got amputated in his youth. So, he had 3 feet. Like how a yardstick is... 3 feet.

I feel like Yardstick and Crowbar would've been fast friends. RIP buddy.

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u/Shawty_sad Feb 12 '23

Crowbar is the most wonderful name I’ve heard for a cat. I’m sorry for your loss ❀️

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u/[deleted] Feb 12 '23

πŸ–€πŸ–€πŸ–€

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u/calterg Feb 12 '23

Much appreciated.

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u/Dhindsman Feb 12 '23

Condolences. I too have a void, and I hope to have that many years as cat daddy.

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u/grapesaresour Feb 12 '23

I’m so sorry, it looks like you gave Crowbar a great life and a great name :)

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u/stringedinsanity Feb 12 '23

I am going to have to say goodbye to one of mine on wednesday. I already know it is going to crush me. Everytime I have done it , I say NEVER AGAIN but I always give in and rescue another. He is 16 y.o. and has cancer. Wish I could give him a few years of my life.

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u/Organic_Equipment100 Feb 12 '23

Awe! I’m so sorry for your loss!

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u/calterg Feb 12 '23

Thank you.

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u/[deleted] Feb 12 '23

I’m so so sorry

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u/KrobarLambda3 Feb 12 '23

Hopefully he can find a friend named Gordon in the great beyond. ❀️

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u/Hot-Shoulder-2815 Feb 12 '23

I'm so sorry for your devastating loss. Cherish your memories and know you gave Crowbar his best life. He loved you.

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u/PochinkiPrincess Feb 12 '23

What a sweet sweet cat. What a great long life they got to have with the best owner they could have asked for! I’m sorry for your loss

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u/calterg Feb 12 '23

Thank you.

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u/ILoveSkeletalFamily Feb 12 '23

Sniffin shelves in heaven

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u/calterg Feb 12 '23

This one made me smile. No heavenly cabinet or door will be allowed to be closed ever again.

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u/Ill_Quantity_5634 Feb 12 '23

He was the best cat.

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u/calterg Feb 12 '23

Thank you. I agree.

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u/Albert_Caboose Feb 12 '23

Oh my goodness.

This boy looks absolutely beautiful. I am so happy to tell you that my boy I adopted last year is also named Crowbar. His spirit will certainly live on, and I am giving him extra scratches in your boy's honor right after I post this.

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u/calterg Feb 13 '23

Very glad to see another Crowbar void out in the world today.

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u/eric9905 Feb 12 '23

Such a beauty

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u/Wide_Doubt_1427 Feb 12 '23

I'm so sorry about your fur baby. You gave them the best kitty life. πŸ’œ

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u/jackyliam12 Feb 12 '23

So sorry to hear about Mr. crowbar. What a beautiful void sending all my love.

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u/blujavelin Feb 12 '23

I'm sorry.

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u/mygallows Feb 12 '23

A beautiful void indeed! Rest easy, Crowbar.

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u/randomferalcat Feb 12 '23

Sorry for your loss 😒

I know you will miss him they are irremplaçable,I still think about my first cat often and it's been 25 years, I understand how you feel r.i.p crowbar

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u/calterg Feb 12 '23

He will always be with me. Every shadowy clothing pile. Every time I look out a window, as he used to come up and look with me. In so many small things. Thank you.

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u/thestareater Feb 12 '23

I hope you find peace, and that he is also at peace, I'm so very sorry for your loss, I couldn't even imagine losing my girl.

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u/Commercial_Cat_7722 Feb 12 '23

May your kitty be one of your fur guardian angels now

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u/cyclenaut Feb 12 '23

Crowbar looks just like my Steven. I'll go give him a hug now

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u/calterg Feb 12 '23

Tell him you love him. He will know how much you mean it.

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u/Short-Ad-3135 Feb 12 '23

So sorry for your loss! πŸ₯Ί Know how it is to lose someone you love! But he will be watching you now thinking of all the good memories you have! ❀️

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u/calterg Feb 12 '23

Thank you.

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u/princeofparmesia Feb 12 '23

I hope he stays with you always - much love to you and your sweet boy!

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u/Medic_Bear Feb 12 '23

❀️

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u/slyGypsy Feb 12 '23

Sorry about your friend....it sucks. Crowbar looks like a good pal.

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u/archerpar86 Feb 12 '23

Crowbar looks like the best bud. Until you meet again ❀️

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u/NinaCR33 Feb 12 '23

So sad! my cat looks just like yours but he is still a kid, just 4 months I couldn’t imagine losing him :( I know all our baby furrs will leave us one day but still sucks πŸ₯Ί sorry for your loss

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u/Alone_Aardvark_4589 Feb 12 '23

I’m so sorry. Hang in there. Your lil’ buddy was lucky to have you for a buddy for 15 years.

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u/iwanttoseeart Feb 12 '23

Good by beautiful cat

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u/eva_thb Feb 12 '23

My deepest and sincerest condolences for the loss of your handsome and beautiful boy, Crowbar (badass of a name may I add) ❀️

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u/calterg Feb 12 '23

Thank you and thank you. I appreciate it.

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u/Reiberjakobsson Feb 12 '23

R.I.P void prince

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u/[deleted] Feb 12 '23

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u/calterg Feb 13 '23

Thank you.

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u/thatdudeoverhere69 Feb 12 '23

Sorry for your loss but i just wanted to say crowbar is a great name for a creature that loves destruction

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u/theproblem_solver Feb 12 '23

I'm so sorry for your family's loss. Crowbar is gorgeous in these photos.

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u/[deleted] Feb 12 '23

Rip wee man. Sorry for your loss OP. However 15 years is a long time; I'm sure he had the best wee life which is what most of us wish for.

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u/Okay-Look Feb 12 '23

He seems like a good lad. Thanks for loving him so much.

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u/jtulick Feb 13 '23

Wait wait wait. βœ‹οΈ Your buddies name is crowbar? That is not just the best name. That is the most awesomeist name. I'm sorry for your loss.

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u/LadyKlaymoor Feb 13 '23

In the land across the rainbow bridge, dear Crowbar came to rest, Near fields of wild squirrels and nice and birds in low-hung nests. Eternally, he stalks them now, he's granted every wish, And lies in sunlight for all time, tummy full of barrel fish.

My deepest condolences in the loss of your fur friend.

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u/Cat_Coop23 Feb 13 '23

May his name and memory be for a blessing

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u/goodsteve980 Feb 13 '23

Take a little time to grieve. Then remember that there's another kitten somewhere, seeking her loving nurturing forever home. Although she probably can't ever fully take the place of your beloved little Crowbar, you'll soon find out that you need her, at least as desperately as she needs you.

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u/Healthy_Resident2521 Feb 13 '23

i am truly sorry for your loss rip crowbar please find peace in heaven please remember that he will always be in your heart and in your memories too please give comfort in the fact that he had a great life with you and you had a great life with him too he was truly lucky to have had you and you were truly lucky to have had him too

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u/calterg Feb 13 '23

Thank you.

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u/Healthy_Resident2521 Feb 13 '23

I hope that you have a great support system during this difficult time in your life too

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u/Embarrassed_Wing_284 Feb 13 '23

Voids are such special cats! I’m so sorry for your loss πŸ’

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u/calterg Feb 13 '23

I like that. I agree.

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u/cubanosani59 Feb 12 '23

Such a wonderful catπŸ˜πŸ–€i am sorry for your lossπŸ–€

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u/AutumnYuki Feb 12 '23

I’m sorry for your loss, lots of people are going through this and you’re not alone. I’m sure he’s dancing and playing with other kitty friends in cat heaven. 🀍🀍🀍🀍

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u/Recluse83 Feb 12 '23

😒

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u/[deleted] Feb 12 '23

Love the name. So sorry for your loss ❀️❀️❀️

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u/Ok-Seaworthiness-186 Feb 12 '23

Goodbye sweet boy, you are loved.πŸ–€πŸ–€πŸ–€πŸˆβ€β¬›πŸˆβ€β¬›πŸˆβ€β¬›

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u/VapidResponseUnit Feb 12 '23

Paw prints on your heart never fade. Rest easy little panther.

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u/Airbus3800 Feb 12 '23

Sorry for your loss RIP Crowbar

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u/[deleted] Feb 12 '23

I love that you named them Crowbar!!!! We love you here still now Crowbar, and we’ll love you again in cat heaven! <3 when I die, it’s one of the first places I want to visit!

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u/sirwankins Feb 12 '23

I am so sorry for your loss

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u/[deleted] Feb 12 '23

Sorry for your loss. He looks like a great companion. Sweet Dreams Crowbar D:

What is your favourite memory of Crowbar?

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u/littleredjencb Feb 12 '23

I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful baby

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u/Livid-Basket2471 Feb 12 '23

RIP Crowbar. I’m glad you had such a loving life and that you were a best friend to your human.

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u/serenaTcat Feb 12 '23

rest in peace, beautiful void.

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u/Doughnut_Kindly Feb 12 '23

Sorry for your loss, we all been there, hurt and grieve. You will get better!

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u/[deleted] Feb 12 '23

Gorgeous.

All we can do is give them as happy, comfortable life full of love and affection. He had that and more. Rest well, Crowbar.

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u/[deleted] Feb 12 '23

Rest in peace Crowbar❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️

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u/say-jack-o-lanterns Feb 12 '23

Sincerest condolences

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u/theweird_blonde Feb 12 '23

I am so sorry.

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u/Big_Primrose Feb 12 '23

Crowbar is a great name. I know my kitties that have crossed the rainbow bridge will look after him.

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u/physicscat Feb 12 '23

I lost my black cat last April after 15 years. I miss him everyday. Condolences.

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u/Floggingmicah Feb 12 '23

RIP crow-bub, extra treats today for my 2 black cats in your honor!

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u/Diane1967 Feb 12 '23

I’m so sorry for your loss 🧑

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u/AmericanDreamDR Feb 12 '23

Very sorry for your loss.

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u/Particular_Kick_9868 Feb 12 '23

I'm so sorry for your loss of your beautiful Crowbar. I don't doubt you loved him, but he loved you back even more during those 15 years. My 3 fur babies and I are sending you our hugs and deepest condolences. Rest peacefully Crowbar, fly high little angle and God speed. πŸ˜”πŸ’”πŸ˜ΏπŸΎπŸŒΉ

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u/perplherpnderp Feb 12 '23

Black cats really are the best

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u/CmC51 Feb 12 '23

Rest in Peace sweet Crowbar. Sleep well.

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u/[deleted] Feb 12 '23

Eyes bright,

claws sharp,

tail held high.

Go keenly into the mist, old warrior.

Valhalla waits for you.

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u/pauluxita888 Feb 12 '23

O have 3 black panters, very sorry for your loss πŸ™πŸ€

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u/shinatree Feb 12 '23

🀍🀍🀍🀍🀍

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u/Seabastial Feb 12 '23

I'm so sorry for your loss OP. May Crowbar continue being your shadow even though he's no longer with us.

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u/jeanb23 Feb 12 '23

so very sorry.

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u/[deleted] Feb 12 '23

Rest peacefully, fuzzy

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u/JovialPanic389 Feb 12 '23

I'm so sorry. He looks like such a lovely friend.

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u/OreJen Feb 12 '23

I'm very sorry for your loss. Fluffy voids are my favorite. Was the belly a trap with that patch of r/hiddenwhitefur?

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u/Jackiemom121 Feb 12 '23

I'm so sorry πŸ’”

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u/CorVus_CorVoidea Feb 12 '23

bless you, Crowbar <3

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u/kirpal777 Feb 12 '23

I’m sorry for your tremendous loss

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u/And_Everything Feb 12 '23

Rest easy ol buddy. Love the white patch.

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u/Mia_B-P πŸ–€ Feb 12 '23

I'm sorry for your loss, he looked like a very sweet cat. Sending love. πŸ«‚

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u/Doucevie Feb 12 '23

I'm so sorry for your loss. πŸ’” Losing a furbaby is hell. Be gentle with yourself.

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u/Quinn8267 Feb 12 '23

Rip Crowbar. You will be missed.

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u/TobyDaMan8894 Feb 12 '23

So sorry for your loss. May Crowbar Rest in Power πŸ™πŸ½πŸ–€πŸ–€and be waiting for you at the Rainbow Bridge.

Purrrss and head rubs from my void Diamond (14 yrs young)

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u/Chillyphilly12-34 Feb 12 '23

Sorry for your loss ❀️‍πŸ”₯

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u/Msunp Feb 12 '23

He only knew love and happiness thanks to you.

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u/xkoffinkatx Feb 12 '23

I'm so sorry sweetie x

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u/MonicaNarula Feb 12 '23

Hugs to you, take care!

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u/ninksmarie Feb 12 '23

πŸ–€πŸ–€πŸ–€ So sorry for your loss. That little white spot on the belly is everything.

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u/freelycreepy Feb 12 '23

I'm so sorry for your loss πŸ–€πŸ–€πŸ–€πŸ–€

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u/Unknown_N4me Feb 12 '23

I’m sorry for your loss. πŸ’”

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u/Katze71 Feb 12 '23

Sorry for your lost. How did he get the name Crowbar? Very unique name for a cat.

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u/istarian Feb 12 '23

Very sad. :(

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u/JR71160 Feb 12 '23

What happened to him . I hope you have another friend for comfort

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u/Beginning_Garden9520 Feb 12 '23

This makes me cryπŸ’”πŸ’”. Hope your memories provide comfort.

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u/[deleted] Feb 12 '23

I just lost my Salem to cancer 😭 I'm so sorry for your loss I miss my black void everyday

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u/Raiderleo69 Feb 12 '23

Very sorry for your loss! It’s never easy to say goodbye to our loving companions. Godspeed crowbar kitty! Rest easy!

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u/Nggalai Feb 12 '23

Condolences

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u/[deleted] Feb 12 '23

❀️❀️

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u/FilmActor Feb 12 '23

Just lost my orange boy suddenly 2 weeks ago. Sending all my love to you and Crowbar.

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u/EggOnLegs99 Feb 12 '23

RIP. Hes gone off to help Gordon Freeman.

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u/EternalAkatsuki Feb 12 '23

Goodbye is never actually goodbye. ❀️ They’re always with us. Sending love.

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u/Jonsnow2017 Feb 12 '23

Fuck , I’m tearing. Rip buddy . I miss my ninja too

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u/poisonideas Feb 12 '23

Run far on young legs little one.

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u/EmbarrassedPie2502 Feb 12 '23

Beautiful cat…rip buddy. ❀️In my mind..both of you..πŸˆβ€β¬›β€οΈ

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u/CantStandIdoits Feb 12 '23

Why was he named crowbar?

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u/LordofThaTrap Feb 12 '23

Sorry for your loss. Pets are just as much family as humans. Just wondering how you got the name Crowbar? It makes me immediately think of the band

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u/[deleted] Feb 12 '23

RIP Crowbar! ❀

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u/AbstractBug Feb 12 '23

I’m so sorry for your loss

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u/I_Feel_Dizzzy Feb 12 '23

Farwell Crowbar πŸ–€

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u/Small-Cry3966 Feb 12 '23

I’m so sorry you lost your friend ❀️

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u/cplindsay10 Feb 12 '23

So sorry for your loss.

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u/Accomplished_Rub117 Feb 12 '23

We love you Crowbar! May you rest well in the Abyss πŸ–€

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u/madcat2112 Feb 12 '23

Sorry for your loss. RIP Crowbar.

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u/mcreckless Feb 13 '23

Love the name Crowbar, so sorry for your loss.

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u/Front-Ordinary7030 Feb 13 '23

Rip little loved voidlet. You gave him a good life, he looks like a happy boy. I’m sorry for your loss. Crowbar had a good taste in toys, my kitty loves that bee one

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u/NorCal_Terrier_81 Feb 13 '23

😒 sorry for your loss..had my void for 13 years before I had to say goodbye.

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u/Mammoth-Telephone106 Feb 14 '23

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u/Joaniemeow Feb 15 '23

What a sweet little fella πŸ–€. He had a good life with you and he's going to be your guardian angel ❀️ my condolences, I know it's hard.