r/blackcats 1d ago

Abyss 🖤🖤🖤 He doesn’t like to cuddle, but within 5 minutes of me laying down on the couch he does this. Every time.

He only ever sleeps on my legs.

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u/Possible-Berry-3435 1d ago

He likes to make sure he's only giving you affection on his terms, none of this "laying on the human's face" B.S.

I love this round-headed little guy you have. Please give him some of his favorite attentions and/or treats for me <3

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u/Netsuko 1d ago

round-headed? Oh you don't even know HALF of it :3

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u/plantsproud-laura 1d ago

He looks like a chipmunk, omg 😭😭💜 Please tell him I love his round face and round chipmunk cheeks and him for making sure his boundaries for limited cuddles are being respected 🫶

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u/Saltythrottle 1d ago

My Luna(tic) absolutely loves sitting upon my chest, her ass just a couple of inches away from my face. >:(

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u/ktrad91 1d ago

My Susu does the same 😭

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u/sugarkowalczyk 1d ago

Susuwatari?

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u/ktrad91 19h ago

煤 - or Susu in English means coal or soot

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u/Royalchariot 1d ago

Awwwww he DOES like snuggles! Just on his own terms

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u/Alternative-Read-236 1d ago

Awww and love your plushies.

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u/Netsuko 1d ago

I‘m a huge Octopus fan and avid octopus plushie collector 🐙

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u/PrincessMagDump 1d ago

Me too, I have some of the same as you! Cephalopods are so rad, and so are back cats!

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u/augbanane 🖤 1d ago

that's so cool 💜

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u/WEEAB_SS 1d ago

I do the same thing but with whales 🐋 I have whale slippers. Whale tapestry's. Whale plushies. Whale coffee mugs. Everything whale.

I live in Missouri and have never seen a whale irl :(

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u/lazyycalm 1d ago

Wait I love the octopi!!! (Octopuses? Octopodes? Lol) they’re like my favorite animals, other than voids of course 🐙🐈‍⬛💜

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u/Bhulaskatah 1d ago

My girl void is kind of like this. No cuddles but will plop against my back or legs and then leave after a few minutes.

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u/Playful-Squirrel-332 1d ago

Also, nice plush octopus collection 😀

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u/mrcub1 1d ago

Mine does this as well. She won’t cuddle but will sit along side me or next to me. If I pet her too much she’ll get up and leave!

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u/Bedroom_Bellamy 1d ago

Yep I have a void boy that would rather die than get cuddled but every night without fail he jumps up and snuggles down between my knees

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u/trisanachandler 1d ago

I really want to know why you have the octopus collection. I see you saying you love them, but I'm wondering if there's a reason. (We have at least 4 ourselves, just curious).

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u/Netsuko 1d ago

They are my favorite animal and I am endlessly fascinated by them. That’s why :)

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u/TopSecretSpy 1d ago

Given all the plushies, can we just call him a "cuddle-fish"?

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u/Purple150 1d ago

What a good boy

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u/undermind84 1d ago

I would squish those cheeks!!!!!!

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u/Intelligent_Detail_7 1d ago

That is an amazing collection of stuffed octopuses. We have the marigold-colored one too, and also a giant red one. (And, also, a black cat!)

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u/Annual_Crow4215 1d ago

“I’m NOT cuddling with you…..it is simply my time to sit….on your legs….that are in my sitting spot….But do not move your legs!!….”

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u/CbeareChewie 1d ago

I read somewhere that sleeping by your legs is them being protective of you. I kinda believe it’s true. My orange boi always slept under my arm but when I got a flatmate he started sleeping at my feet. One time her bf came home late at night and he was ready to go at the guy!

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u/Teahouse_Fox 21h ago

I have a couple of voids from the same litter. Personalities are night and day. She will find me, and pluck at the covers until I let her in, and she snuggles up and goes to sleep.

Her brother, is not Mr. Touchy Feely. Unless he wants to be. Then he presents himself by flopping into or beside your lap, and peers at you pointedly.

You are now to pet. No, continue. Keep going, I've got a few more minutes to grace your lap with my glorious personage.... (30 mins later)... 'K, bye.

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u/GoodRaccoon1622 1d ago edited 1d ago

Octopussy 🤌🏽 🐙

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u/SongbirdBabie 1d ago

Mine is the same way xD

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u/No-Conclusion-1394 1d ago

Such a stankin cutie

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u/Substantial-Tone-576 1d ago

My void occupies my leg and claws me if I try to move.

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u/mmmkayolay 1d ago

He loves you 🥰 he just loves his personal space too lol

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u/therisingalleria 1d ago

oh hes so cuteeeee

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u/PagesMom 1d ago

Mine also doesn't like cuddling. But he'll make sure to stay right by us

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u/qqchlo 1d ago

Mine too, don’t like cuddles or pets. But love us on his own terms.

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u/PingasRape 1d ago

Of coursw the cuddliest looking cat ever doesn’t like cuddles