r/cockatiel Dec 14 '21

Frequently Posted (+ Answers)

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We have been getting a lot more repetitive posts in our sub so I wanted to put this information together in the hopes of reducing the amount of questions that are frequently asked. In turn, hopefully this will make our community a little more light hearted :)

*I want to preface this by saying I am not a vet or anything just someone who really loves my cockatiel and learning everything I can to ensure he has the best life possible. I think the best thing you can do for your birdie is lots of research before anything happens (especially in the case of illness). They are fragile so having the right knowledge and tools at your disposal can quite literally be the difference between life and death.

Lets begin!

Is my bird sick?

Common signs of a sick bird include:

  • Tail bobbing, sitting at the bottom of the cage, inability to stand on a perch (loss of balance)
  • Sneezing, clicking respiration (cough), or any discharge coming from the eyes or nostrils.
  • Eyes dull or sunken.
  • Change in vocals (can be hormonal but after puberty could be cause for concern)
  • Change in appetite (loss or increase of food or water)
  • Change in droppings (color, consistency, or frequency - this could be due to diet like eating more fruits and vegetables but it should not last more than a day or two after)
  • Constantly fluffed (happens for a number of reasons like keeping warm, preening, sleeping but they should not always be like this)
  • Feather loss (not related to a regular molt that happens 1-2x per year)
  • Trembling (can mean they are cold, stressed, or sick)
  • Drooping wings

If you notice any of these signs or a combination of them its crucial to get your bird to a vet (preferably an avian one) as soon as possible. No one on the internet is able to diagnose your bird or give it the treatment it needs.

Note: Some of these symptoms like change in droppings, being fluffed up, and feather loss can be normal but if it is persistent the best thing to do is ere on the side of caution and get them checked out.

Is my cockatiel male or female?

Color Patterns: Baby cockatiels that have not gone through their first adult molt (usually between 6-12 months) will typically have female colorations regardless of gender. After their first molt, males tend to get more vivid colors, lose the stripes on the underside of their tail and spots on the wings, The opposite is true for females and their color changes minimally after their first molt.

Different mutations make it more difficult to tell the difference between males and females even after their adult molt.

Behaviors: Males tend to be more vocal (mimicking sounds and singing), heart wings (see example), more likely to "show off" (strutting, hopping, tapping on surfaces), and attempting to mate with objects. Females are often less vocal (although some are) and when wanting to mate will tilt her head, flatten her back, and rock back and forth while chirping softly.

All of the above are good indicators if you have a male or female HOWEVER the only true way to know is if you get a DNA test or if your cockatiel lays an egg. People have noted that their DNA sexed female has shown male behaviors or colors and vise versa. No one can tell you for sure by looking at it!

What is this noise my cockatiel is making?

Some common cockatiel noises and what they mean:

Contact Call: Cockatiels like to keep track of their flock members so when you leave the room you may notice your cockatiel yell for you with a loud chirp or series of chirps. Even if you aren't bonded to your bird they may still do this. Put them at ease by "answering" them from where you are. I like to whistle back the same "contact call" so they know that I will be right back.

Contact Call Example

Attention Scream: Often a loud high pitched screech that is meant to get your attention. They can do this when they are scared, lonely, bored, or even to alert you of something (like a potential predator). Excessive screaming means you might need to change something in their environment. A common cause of this is hormones and boredom, both of which can be decreased by adding more enrichment to their environment with foraging, toys, and training.

Attention Scream Example

Whistling//Mimicking/Chattering: Usually (but not always) done by males and often means they are happy and connecting with you as part of their flock. They may mimic you, the radio, the tv, or even just sounds that they hear outside or inside the house. A lot of the time cockatiels learn these sounds through repetition. Search cockatiel training songs if you don't want to be whistling a song all the time and with time they may pick up on the tunes.

Whistling Example

Beak Grinding: They do this when they are happy and content. Usually it is accompanied by being fluffed up and being sleepy. The cheeks will fluff up as well and the cockatiel will look very relaxed. This is a great sign that your cockatiel is comfortable in their environment.

Beak Grinding Example

Hissing: Like other animals cockatiels do this when they are angry or threatened. This is often a warning to back off and can be accompanied by biting if the behavior is not stopped. If your cockatiel is hissing at you its best to leave them alone for a bit - just like us, our birds have boundaries we should respect!

Hissing Example

Baby Noises: These sound a bit like static and usually do this if they want something (often food, water, or even just attention). This is completely normal for young cockatiels and after a few months will go away. Mine went away at 4 months but this can vary!

Baby Noises Example

What is this behavior?

These are some behaviors that are normal with cockatiels that I noticed are commonly asked about here:

Mating: This is probably the most common one. Males and females display different mating behaviors.

Males will typically rub their cloaca (this is the opening underneath the base of the tail for a birds digestive, urinary, and reproductive tracts) on an object like a toy, your foot or hand, a pillow, ect or a bonded female. Male Mating Behavior

Females will droop their wings and raise their rump while swaying and chirping quietly. You may notice your female also rubbing its back on their toys to try and stimulate themselves. Female Mating Behavior

In addition to these mating behaviors, take note if your bird is territorial, screaming, plucking itself, or aggressive. These could all be signs that your bird is sexually frustrated.

This handout I received from my vet gives some behavioral modification you can make to try and reduce these.

Clearing Crop: Looks a lot like yawning but usually they will do it consistently over a short period of time. Their crop is located below their beak in the neck area. The crop stores food before it is sent to their stomach and acts as a "reserve" so they are able to eat more in one feeding. When they clear the crop they are moving that food to the next stage of digestion. Cockatiel Clearing Crop

How do I tame my cockatiel?

If your bird is brand new to your home, the best thing to do for a day or two is let them soak in their new envionrment. This can be a stressful time for them so its important to let them learn that their new home is a safe space. Talking in a quiet voice and even whistling around them is the best thing to do during this transitiion period. It can be tempting but don't try and pick them up or pet them right away. They may be fearful of hands and scaring them could further your progress of taming them. Whether they are a young cockatiel or an older adult that was rescued or rehomed, taming them will take patience and time. How long can vary on a lot of different factors but it's important not to rush it. Read the links below to get more information on how to achieve this:

Taming step-by-step

I am thinking of getting a cockatiel and would love some tips!

There is really too much to cover in one post so I will address the most common tips for new owners and provide some links that go into detail about all things cockatiel.

Vet Access: This should be the most important thing to consider. Making note of an avian vet that is close by is crucial. Be extra prepared and make note of the closest emergency vet as well that you can go to outside of your regular vets hours. If you do not have one close by or you do not have the money to pay for one, please reconsider getting a bird. It is disheartening to see very obviously sick bird where the owner has no access or money to go to a vet.

Basic Needs: Before purchasing supplies for your bird, do as much research as you can regarding cage size, toys, and food.

Health: Take note of the signs of a sick bird and when to take them to a vet. In addition, cockatiels are sensitive to strong smells, gasses, drafts, and smoke. This also requires some research as there are common household items that can poison and kill your bird (for example teflon pans and some plants you may have lying around).

Links:

Cockatiel Cottage

VCA - Cockatiel Diet

Safe and Toxic Foods

Proper Caging

Introducing New Food to Picky Birds

Training

Taming, potty training, and more

I hope this helps some people learn more about their cockatiels! Of course this is not exhaustive and there is always more information to be learned. Please let me know if I should add anything or if I got any information wrong :)


r/cockatiel 4h ago

Cuteness Overload the birb can fly

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282 Upvotes

r/cockatiel 6h ago

Cuteness Overload Finally found a way to make him eat fruits!

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201 Upvotes

He won’t eat normal fruits, but loves purée. Don’t worry, it’s all natural with no sugar added.


r/cockatiel 14h ago

Cuteness Overload Birb in a bottle!

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704 Upvotes

How do I get him out???


r/cockatiel 6h ago

Cuteness Overload Pure bliss..

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Sunday morning scritches


r/cockatiel 2h ago

Advice Blood - Advice?

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So this happened to Gigi shortly after his morning flight. 3 drops of blood on the ground and lots of blood under his wing.

He had a feather sticking out which fell out, but it doesn’t look like a blood feather, as the shaft is clear and white.

The bleeding seems to have stopped, but I’m worried there’s still a blood feather, and he won’t let me handle him to apply corn starch.

Will the blood clot on its own? Or does he need to see a vet? And would a spray bath be advisable? Or should I leave it so I don’t disturb the clotting?

FYI he is eating and drinking and in good spirits!

Thank you!


r/cockatiel 9h ago

Funny Peekaboo

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153 Upvotes

I love when I say peekaboo and my boy is like "what?"


r/cockatiel 17h ago

Cuteness Overload Pippin gets pet with his favorite: a q-tip!

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590 Upvotes

My bird’s favorite toy is a q tip for some reason. Today for the first time I wanted to see what he would do if I pet him with a q tip… I think he liked it haha


r/cockatiel 1d ago

Funny cockatiels living safely with unlimited food, and a loving family seeing a window opened by 0.001 cm:

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r/cockatiel 7h ago

Advice PLEASE HELP!!!!

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my 1 and however year old male(?) cockatiel is nesting in anything he can and is becoming aggressive towards me and anyone that dares to go near him (video for ref) i have clothing boxes which are ideal for him to set up a nest and he has but i don’t know how to stop him!! he’s constantly flying at my head and biting anything he can, i’ve started having thoughts of rehoming him but i’ve grown so attached to him yet its hard to be around him since he’s so aggressive.. i’m not sure when mating season is for cockatiels in australia but it is autumn right now, what do i do to improve his behaviour please. don’t want to get rid of my little guy


r/cockatiel 9h ago

Advice My female cockatiel has a hump on her back.

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81 Upvotes

Can someone please tell me what's going on? Could this be egg binding? She hasn’t eaten or drunk anything since yesterday. Should I take her to the vet immediately?


r/cockatiel 18h ago

Loss & Mourning My baby is gone and I'm heartbroken

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296 Upvotes

I know cockatiels can live up to twenty years and I was ready for her to be my forever pet. Which is why, losing Beksa after just one year shatters me even more.

This weekend I was visiting my mom's home and I took my bird with me. I have a special carrier she can comfortably travel in and a cage for her prepared on site. I usually let her sit on my shoulder a lot though, because she's incredibly clingy. Sometime around afternoon my brother came home from a walk and when I walked up to say hi, I found out he didn't close the door behind him. He accidentally let her outside and she flew away. Right as snow started falling.

The wind carried her off. I heard her squeaking the whole time. I went around searching for hours, yelled after her, even when the snow got awful and I couldn't see anything. There is no way she survived. She must've died cold, scared and alone.

Just earlier today she was on my shoulder, cuddled up to me and asking for kisses. I really, really loved her. She didn't like travelling but she loved sitting on my head. She loved chewing up all my cables though I constantly tried to stop her. She loved preening my eyelashes. Fighting with bells on her toys.

I feel so unbelievably awful. I don't know how to cope with this. She was my baby. I've tried so hard to make her life warm and loving and safe. I can't even think about how she must've felt. I don't know if I'll ever get another pet again.


r/cockatiel 4h ago

Funny Best Friend

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Does anyone else talk to themself and then turn to your bird and say ' Right buddy?' 😂😂


r/cockatiel 2h ago

Cuteness Overload Can someone tell if my birb cock or hen? Thank you

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r/cockatiel 1h ago

Other Birb tax

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Homemade bread, Chicken loves her toast crumbs!


r/cockatiel 4h ago

Cuteness Overload Training object recognition with Cookie!

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15 Upvotes

r/cockatiel 19h ago

Advice My birb keeps going to high places where she didn’t ever went before, so sudden. Anyone knows what it might be?

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r/cockatiel 5h ago

Advice Whats that, on its Beak?

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I left home for 2 days and left him with my grandma. When I left he did not have this. I thought it was some dried up fruit or food but I'm scared to pick at it in case it's something else that might hurt him. Please help me


r/cockatiel 12h ago

Cuteness Overload Soggy

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60 Upvotes

Soggy Chai. Jasmine was mad at getting damp and did not allow pictures


r/cockatiel 21h ago

Funny Teila sings the GREATEST HITS

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255 Upvotes

She learned the popular teil songs in one night!


r/cockatiel 2h ago

Advice I am at a loss.

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My cockatiel is sick. I’ve had her about ten years, and within the last two years she has been suffering from constant regurgitation. She has the vets at a loss too. We have tried so many different medications, also Lupron to rule out that this is behavioral. It really came out of nowhere. Ever since it started, I’ve been able to sort of manage it with medications. Recently it’s not working as well. She’s lost so much weight, the regurgitation gets all over her feathers and hardens and becomes almost impossible to keep her clean. She just hasn’t been herself since this whole thing started. I know she is uncomfortable. She’s gotten x rays, bloodwork, crop gram stains, there isn’t much else left to do. The next thing they suggested is a procedure that involves watching her through an x ray when they feed her something radioactive so they can see where food is going. She is too weak for all of this now. I love this bird so much and at this point I just don’t know if I should go through with that or not. She doesn’t even want to do anything anymore. She’s lost her spark. It seems like she has given up. I would do anything to help her but I just don’t want to end up hurting her more.


r/cockatiel 4h ago

Advice Should I be wary of this behavior??

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They were getting ready for the day next to each other but suddenly Tofu pulled on Miso’s tail… is this something to be concerned about or is it normal behavior??


r/cockatiel 6h ago

Cuteness Overload It's that time of year again

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13 Upvotes

r/cockatiel 7h ago

Advice 5 day old cockatiel overfed by parents?

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This is my 5 day old cockatiel and I think the parents overfed it. Is this normal or am I just thinking the baby looks overfed? If it is overfed, what should I do right now?


r/cockatiel 2h ago

Health/Nutrition Help?? Cockatiel eye problem

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I have been to the vet a few times because our pet cockatiel has swollen areas around both eyes. She has taken antibiotics but it has not gotten better and we are worried because they seek to be getting worse. Anyone ever have this happen to their bird??


r/cockatiel 22h ago

Advice Any hope for an injured bird to become friendly again?

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141 Upvotes

(Not sure if this needs to be spoilered since there’s no visible injury here, just the cone)

I got this guy a few days ago, and he came to me with some pretty bad burns. We went to the emergency vet and he’s all squared away now and will be fine, but I’m so scared that all of the pain and fear he’s experienced with me so far will make him unwilling to bond with me. He is hand tame and was a friendly and outgoing bird before his accident.

Between the wound care, medication, and hospital trips, he’s grown to really hate me, hissing and screeching whenever I’m near and it’s heartbreaking. Is there any hope of him warming up to me after all of this?

I offer treats and millet and I have another cockatiel who I interact with in front of him as well, and I try to spend time in the room with him just to talk sweetly to him and play soothing music, that way he’s not only getting bad interactions with me, but I worry it’s not enough.