r/existentialcrisiscat 10d ago

“What have I done!?”

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u/AffectionateMemory82 10d ago

Motherhood is the beginning of several long, existential crises according to my mom. Think this shows the beginning of that perfectly 😂

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u/PersonalRaccoon1234 10d ago

Cat was not prepared for the realities of motherhood.

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u/poet_andknowit 10d ago

Her expression reminds me of how I felt a few days after bringing my son home from the hospital. He was really a good baby, didn't cry unless he was hungry, uncomfortable, or needed to be changed. I'd had a C-section and was living with my parents, so I was exhausted in every way. It was Thursday night, and I had just finished giving him his evening bottle. I turned to my mom and said, in all seriousness, that I couldn't wait for the weekend. We just looked at each other and started laughing.

It was then that it really and truly hit me, and I thought holy shit, what the hell have I done? And now I'm truly stuck! LOL. That was 34 years ago and we still laugh about it.

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u/MoFoZed 10d ago

So it was all worth the fuss and heartache then?

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u/poet_andknowit 10d ago

Absolutely! As the saying goes: The days are long but the years are short!

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u/SlippingStar 9d ago

Goddamn if that saying ain’t true.

And really it’s only long when you’re at work 🤣

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u/MoFoZed 9d ago

You must be a very well adjusted individual tho, I was asking because I am just about to miss that boat due to fear. Mostly having childhood traumas and mental health difficulties which should have been addressed sooner but hey we are here. I always thought I should not be worth letting a child into this world when I could hardly take care of myself, I dare say its selfish although sounds a lot like a whole lot of work to have a kid soooooo really. 🥹

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u/ADHDtomeetyou 10d ago

This reminded me of when I brought home a rescue that surprised us with 7 puppies a month later. Our older lab would just look at her like, “what a mess you’ve made of your life.”

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u/joalheagney 9d ago

One of your dogs got pregnant. For the first month, she would come racing if she heard a whimper, cleaned them, doted on them.

And then they learned to walk and opened their eyes. Put them to bed one night in the bathroom (nursing box, food, water, etc.). And we heard whimpering. Checked up on them and mom was sitting beside the box, and the four puppies were trying to get to her.

Mom just looked up at us and you could tell she was saying "Can I have a night off? Can I? Can I please have a break?"

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u/ExtremaDesigns 10d ago

Aww, lend her a paw.

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u/FuzzyManPeach 10d ago

Definitely keeping an eye on them all! With this many kittens it’s not uncommon for the littler ones to need a little help. The two runts are the black one and one of the orange one, so definitely keeping an eye on them. So far she’s doing a great job though! Her kittens are all fat and happy.

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u/MissPicklechips 10d ago

How many? I counted 6, maybe 7 little beans?

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u/Competitive-Ebb3816 3d ago

That is a big litter!

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u/egzovreezi 10d ago

This makes me cackle

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u/Mothertocats16 10d ago

What just about all mothers have wondered since time began. It's okay Mama, you'll be okay and the babies will be too :)

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u/ScreennameOne 10d ago

NEVER let me out again!

(It’s all your fault)

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u/Relvean 10d ago

Good thing she only needs to take care of them for ~6-9 months. Until then though...

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u/dailycyberiad 10d ago

I found my kittens at 2 months and 1.5 months. They had been abandoned by their respective feral moms. They're now around 5 months old.

What should their mom had been doing all this time? Feeding them, maybe? Teaching them how to hunt?

By the time I got them, they were both allowed to eat solid food. I never had to give them milk. But now I'm wondering whether they're lacking something important in their lives :(

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u/SlippingStar 9d ago

Because they at least have each other they can learn boundaries that way, but they’ll probably struggle a little interacting with new cats.

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u/dailycyberiad 9d ago

I'll take that into account! Thanks!

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u/Hyzenthlay87 10d ago

"I shoulda got spayed" 😅🤣

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u/Shine-Total 10d ago

That’s a lot of illegally smols!!! And the verity of colors too Wow! 💕

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u/rainbowsforall 10d ago

Large Variety Pack

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u/Corvettelov 10d ago

Bad girl. Bad girl. Whatcha gonna do?

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u/Alextheseal_42 10d ago

Eight is a lot of legs, David.

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u/AlcoholicGel 10d ago

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u/attachedtothreads 10d ago

Thank you for the new cat subReddit!

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u/Mandalika 10d ago

Linkin Park starts playing

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u/Katiescanlon_ 10d ago

too young for this O_O

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u/ThatMBR42 10d ago

With a dash of "DO you mind?!"

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u/neBular_cipHer 10d ago

I’m sure it was worth that one moment of passion

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u/Ok-Falcon4977 10d ago

Problems of being the most beautiful cat in the neighborhood 🙃

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u/Melodic_War327 10d ago

Wow, she had a lot of babies.

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u/teach4545 9d ago

Same mama cat, same.

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u/pudingrid 9d ago

Oh i luv cat moms

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u/Sad-Macaroon4466 7d ago

The true face of motherhood!

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u/Ok-Pineapple-1221 7d ago

Haha it’s not the cat, it’s the human who didn’t neuter their pet .