r/findomsupportgroup • u/PRQueencess • 1d ago
Question/Need Advice How long did it take you?
How long did it take you to get your first tribute/sub? I only just started not long ago and I’ve been told it can take a hot minute and to not get discouraged. I’m just so impatient lmaooo every girlie is different so long did it take you and what were you doing? I’m wondering if I’m not doing what I should be doing to put myself out there more, like maybe the algorithm isn’t in my side 😂
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u/MistressMonaee 1d ago
When I VERY FIRST got into it, it took about 4-5 months maybe 6 until I officially got my first initial tribute….and during that time it was 10$ or 15$ I think, but I NEVER GAVE UP! It’s not fast like I dream, but it’s here and I AM GRATEFUL!
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u/B3ttaTesting 1d ago
It took me about a week for my first, but then 3 months later (a week ago) I did my first drain. I’m hoping that sub doesn’t ghost me though, he was insanely fun to play with
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u/Gothiccc_Goddess_ 1d ago
i got mine on third day. might have technically been 2.5 days when he contacted me though because i woke up to the message from him
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u/goddessLaylaxXx 1d ago
I was on X first and it took me about 2 months to find a sub , but I met him outside of X
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u/strawberrykitty55 Princess 1d ago
Took me two weeks! Had to build some repertoire so people would see I’m legit and it has rewarded me well 😊 it really is just patience, people want to lurk and see you’re a real person
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u/ryustaruch 1d ago
A few days after I started posting and being active. I was a lurker for a year or 2 in all these communities before I caved and started though!
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u/ImUrPrincess13 1d ago
Tbh first send was way before I heard about findom, freshly 18 from some tumblr random
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u/princessxmo0nie 1d ago
My first send was a week into starting my online adventure on X, and my first devoted sub came about two or three months after creating my profile. And those two months of waiting sucked but the interesting thing was that when I stopped giving a fuck, the subs started flowing in. And not in the sense of posting low quality content, but just stopped caring how many sends I was getting and how many subs I had. I think in the beginning we get a little ahead of ourselves but the reality is that it takes time to build a brand and gain trust, especially in this community.
Basically when I started having fun and feeling myself, showing a bit of my own personality as a dominatrix and finding my niche, that’s when the universe started sending money my way.
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u/TheFineDomme 1d ago edited 1d ago
To be honest Reddit a year ago was a very different scene … so meeting being subs was a lot easier …
Personally for me I met my first sub by chance and then once I learned about the lifestyle it was a few weeks …
One tip I will say is personally your profile needs some work .. as it’s the first thing a sub on here considering approaching you will look at
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u/PRQueencess 1d ago
Ok what do you think I should 100% have on my profile? Should I post on it like any social media platform? I’m open to suggestions 🖤
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u/TheFineDomme 1d ago edited 1d ago
I would suggest removing any posts that add no value to your domme persona and add at least one post about you ..with things like Domme style things like…(kinks)… expectations … so you don’t have to waste all day talking fine details with timewasters masking as potential subs
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u/No-Sink7875 1d ago
started a couple months ago only on twitter. which is FULL of scammers, i gave up after a few weeks. so now i’m just on there to post, recently started again i’ve been here for a few days, doing promo and stuff, i found my first legit sub on tiktok, he reached out.. so don’t be afraid to branch out on other socials! and on here you just have to be patient and they will come to you! some subs don’t mind being approached so if any are asking to and seem to be a good fit, approach (as a normal person, remember subbies are real people too!! not just “paypigs”), it’s best to clarify what they want && boundaries, AV etc etc. good luck girlie!! sometimes you get lucky, sometimes it takes a while, but don’t lose hope! x
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