r/findomsupportgroup 1d ago

Announcement A quick message from the FSG Mods

27 Upvotes

I keep seeing a LOT of comments and posts about the mods in here removing posts for no reason. If there is a blatant rule violation, we are removing them. THAT BEING SAID, Reddit removes tons of comments and posts in here every single day. We know this because when you message mod mail and ask why we took something down, we can see any actions taken against your account in here.

Over half of you that message us have never had a single comment/post removed from us which means it went against Reddit's TOS or someone reported it directly to Reddit. They auto mod every subreddit. The biggest complaint I've seen in mod mail recently is that you either can't post (don't forget to select post flair) or your sends are getting removed.

If your Throne/YouPay sends are showing anything NSFW, Reddit will pull it before we can even see it. If someone reports your comment or post to Reddit, they'll also pull it if it goes against their TOS.

We have over 75k members in here so things are constantly getting removed. If you want to post your sends, by all means do it! We want you to succeed, but be careful about what is showing in the post. If you have questions, feel free to comment below or message modmail for help.


r/findomsupportgroup 2d ago

Warning Just a friendly reminder that you shouldn't be doing this in PPSG.

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56 Upvotes

I understand that it's the sister support group to this one, but there is almost no reason for Dommes to be posting in that group. I've seen 18 advertisements in there today and this ss was within the last hour. Commenting in there is fine, but Dommes keep taking over the "safe space" for subs and this ss is the reason most of them don't want to interact in there anymore. This is the why it's no longer a safe space for them. Stop it.


r/findomsupportgroup 2h ago

Warning Findom is NOT JUST FUCK.U PAY ME, ITS A DYNAMIC

101 Upvotes

Edit:: THIS IS ABOUT MORE THAN JUST THE POST FROM THE OTHER GROUP TODAY!

I am so tired of reading about all these scammer dommes. I've been in the community for a while and they have always been here but holy fuck you leeches are really fucking up the scene. Findom is a SEXUAL dynamic, and it doesn't have to inherently be but it is. It is also a relationship, and yall don't want to build shit. This is not a side hustle , this is a lifestyle and to be quite honest most REAL dommes don't NEED shit from anyone, we deserve it. We should be spoiled but we can live with out.

Some of you guys thinks this is a side hustle or you can get a whale sub and live off of him and that's not it at allll.


r/findomsupportgroup 9h ago

Discussion multiple coffee sends for everyone today!!! claim it now 💗💸

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207 Upvotes

r/findomsupportgroup 7h ago

Yay! Happy thing happened. Forgot to post this but got sent 150 as first tribute!!! 🫢

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108 Upvotes

My tributes way cheaper than that but he wanted to send more 🤭🤞🤞


r/findomsupportgroup 4h ago

Discussion Tips to be a Findomme without being the most boring bland “Send. Send More. Pay up loser.” Conversations 😄

44 Upvotes

Hiii! So I do want to make it clear to all dommes especially the newer dommes that not EVERY SUB enjoys being bullied and degraded especially upon first encounter. Some also get bored of being told to send over and over again with little effort.

Yes for some this is a major turn on but for a handful it’s not. Especially if you seek to establish any long term dynamic. There are much more creative ways to dominate someone financially without repeating “send. 🙄Tribute loser. 🙄Send more. 🙄Approach piggy🙄” like some GTA NPC’s. My first sub was actually the one to tell me this was the reason he ghosted another domme. You don’t want that to be you especially if it took you a bit to find a sub in the first place!

I don’t blame any of you for behaving this way because you have seen the success it has given other dommes. Especially if you found this kink community from X or TikTok because that’s usually what’s promoted. However most of those dommes won’t tell you how long those subs stick around, if they have long term dynamics, if they have any consistency overall etc etc.

At the end of the day Findom is a Power Exchange kink that involves money. You do have to dominate someone financially at the end of the day. You need to make them want to send. Not just once. You need to make them feel like them sending to you is the only thing that they should be doing in that moment. Like their desire to send to you outweighs all reason in that moment. Like the only thing they should be doing is exchanging monetary power to their goddess who they want nothing more from than their attention, acceptance, and approval.

There’s soooo many ways to do this without being rude or flat. Get in their heads. Use your words. Embody the Goddess you are and act accordingly. If they’ve already approached you that’s half the work done. You have the control now, so fucking wield it. Turn this into something more than just a quick little send.

Here are some examples of things I’ve said with my own recent dynamics that have worked flawlessly to give you a better idea of what you can try. That will not only have them so needy for you but can also help you easier reach some personal financial goals you have easier.

“That send was cute but not enough to make me entertain you much after this.”

“You know you’re really teasing me from the full amount of (insert name of whatever gift you want on your wishlist.) That’s almost insulting. Naughty Naughty.”

“With that amount..is that how little you get turned on by me? Your message history says otherwise so you better correct that accordingly before my patience is lost for good.”

“Such a shame, you could’ve been my favorite if you did a little more.”

“Youre so much cuter when you go above and beyond you know…Are you feeling like you want to be my cutest sub today?”

“The heels you bought last time are also useful for kicking you to the curb if you don’t give me exactly what I want. And I don’t think you want that. ”

“Sorry my phones do not disturb function only turns off when my sub is eager to please. With the amount of $ notifications I’ve gotten from you…it doesn’t seem that you’re eager.”

Do you see what I mean? Clearly drawing the line of who has the power here in every line. But not by calling them loser, pig, whatever other degrading copy paste word.

I could go on and on but I’m typing this out on my phone during my morning walk and no doubt there are probably a million typos and word vomit. Lmao.

Does this help or am I just talking out of my ass here? 💀

I think what I’m trying to say overall is that you can push for more sends ( within reason of your subs agreed upon budget ) without bland responses and mistreatment. Again I know some subs are very into that and those are fun little one and domes but I know most of you want to engage in a more fulfilling dynamic. Everything I just typed out is why I have 2.5 long term dynamics and more subs who immediately respect and beg to serve than I’ve had before.

I truly hope this helps all of you ladies and femme presenting dommes.

From one Domme to another, get your bag up and be submitted to the way you truly deserve. 😘


r/findomsupportgroup 7h ago

Discussion Hunting down lurkers shouldn’t be frowned upon and I will never understand dommes that say not to message a sub first… ok you’re missing out on money but whatever floats your boat. Dominance is setting your own rules and taking control, do what you want to do. (Don’t do this is they’re not lurking)

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60 Upvotes

r/findomsupportgroup 2h ago

Yay! Happy thing happened. 🖕

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21 Upvotes

perfect way to start the day 🥰


r/findomsupportgroup 2h ago

Discussion question!

17 Upvotes

can we chat on here? i really want to connect with this community about literally anything. i mostly just reply to comments but they usually don’t lead anywhere. this isn’t an attention seeking post, i just want to make friends with people alike. we could talk about niches or crazy experiences or funny sub/dom things or fave chat logs or pet peeves idkkkkk anything. i want fangirl over somethinggggg


r/findomsupportgroup 1h ago

Discussion Hey queens, what are we manifesting tonight

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I want a rich, generous, relaxed, happy, and calming sub who can age verify, is the right amount of "obsessed with me, likes a chat but understands a day off, and gives me endless money obviously:)

Just a manifestation haha I accept all subs, but can't a girl dream?


r/findomsupportgroup 2h ago

Yay! Happy thing happened. Sub got me new skin care🥹🥹

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After a long time of waiting around to get spoiled, finally got it! I'm so happy, they literally smell like Johnson's baby powder 💕😭melts my heart when I apply it on my skin So lucky to have someone who cares this much about me, although he knows he can never smell it :) hahaha


r/findomsupportgroup 20m ago

Warning Not him again🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 new account, same game 🤣

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r/findomsupportgroup 33m ago

Question/Need Advice Messaging subs? Yay or Nay?

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Saw a post today mentioning how dommes should take more charge in messaging subs cuz we missing out on possible subs. Ik a lot of dommes tend to be very opposed to being the first to message since subs tend to dislike getting reached out to so this made me curious. What do yall think, as a domme how often would u say u message subs (if at all) and if not why are u opposed to the idea? Also if any subs are lurking, do yall actually mind getting messaged or ignore dommes who do and prefer to seek them out on ur own?


r/findomsupportgroup 5h ago

Discussion Sub funded Plastic surgery

20 Upvotes

Have yall ever had a sub fund some type of surgery for you? Or maybe in the works of doing so? I think the whole idea of a bbl, lips, botox being funded by a sub is soooo🥵 if it was to happen what would you get? What would you enhance?


r/findomsupportgroup 8h ago

Humor need the lurkers to stop being shy and get to sending

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37 Upvotes

r/findomsupportgroup 3h ago

Warning Picking and choosing who to remove and ban

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Such a weird experience this morning 💀 I had posted on this subreddit to promote ofc and this morning I got a message saying it was removed and I'm now banned from the community because I didn't have my age in the caption. The note from the moderator said "Enjoy your ban" which was so unnecessary btw but I digress. I know it's completely my fault for missing that rule, not disputing that but I mentioned how it's weird they pick and chose who to remove and ban because before I posted I saw MULTIPLE people post with no age in caption and are still there. They were mad and got so rude in the responses.

Apparently a moderator is also sub who posts sometimes and seems to be very rude and says interesting things but that's besides the point...moral of the story watch out for which groups you join some are odd.

Also if you saw my post about how Black dommes are treated this is a prime example iykyk


r/findomsupportgroup 4h ago

Yay! Happy thing happened. new sub!🥳

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16 Upvotes

after 3 weeks of suddenly losing my old sub i found another one! and get this--we live in the same city!!! Manifesting this for other dommes🥳 (regarding the relative specificity of the send--i have my subs send their tribute according to their age lol)


r/findomsupportgroup 6h ago

Question/Need Advice How long did it take you?

19 Upvotes

How long did it take you to get your first tribute/sub? I only just started not long ago and I’ve been told it can take a hot minute and to not get discouraged. I’m just so impatient lmaooo every girlie is different so long did it take you and what were you doing? I’m wondering if I’m not doing what I should be doing to put myself out there more, like maybe the algorithm isn’t in my side 😂


r/findomsupportgroup 2h ago

Discussion Nothing is hotter than a sub who asks you what you want too!

8 Upvotes

It's been quite a while since I was thinking about this and maybe I'm just speaking from my own experience, but I think it's REALY important that your sub gets to know you too, not as their domme , but as a human being. I think the key to a happy and long term D/S relationship is the common knowledge of each other's personalities and interests.

When a domme is asking a sub questions like "how do you want this to go" , they should ask this back and try to understand what makes HER the happiest version of herself. What color does she like? What kind of presents does she prefer? What works great when she's feeling down or angrier than ever?! Sometimes it's not ALL about kinks...

As a girlie who needs her skin and nails and hair done all the time, a spa lover and a massage freak, there's nothing hotter than a sub who loves to fund my special appointments. Like wow you know me?😍😂you really do love me like that?

I personally prefer this kind of dynamics. I'm not sure about everyone else, but I love it whenever this happens to me.


r/findomsupportgroup 4h ago

Humor 😵‍💫Is FSG just a ‘gains’ subreddit?😵‍💫

9 Upvotes

Is it funny maybe? An honest thought —

Honest question - Curious minds want to know?

Did we just narrow down every interaction we have with finsubs and turn it into a ‘notch in the bedpost’ dialogue?

Should everyone reading these ‘gains’ posts be proud of that?

Is there a leaderboard no one told me about?

I feel like yall are turning findomme into a fvcking car dealership salesman board.

It’s dirty. It’s thirsty. I don’t like it. - SUBS DON’T LIKE IT. - SUBS DON’T DESERVE it.

Remember to respect your subs. It may be fun and games to you but it’s their DYNaMIC! Not all interactions with subs should be based on your capitalizing or marginalizing them. They are making themselves vulnerable to you. Appreciate that.

  • Remember that you may be dealing with a true sub, not just a dabbling kinkster.

Thanks for reading this- Comment an emoji if you get it.

I’ll probably get banned for this - no surprise if that happens 🥱


r/findomsupportgroup 8h ago

Yay! Happy thing happened. drain sesh last night !!

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25 Upvotes

all from one piggy within one hour!! was in a bit of a drought recently with paypigs but so happy that I got reminded of the thrilling feeling I get dominating a simp <33


r/findomsupportgroup 25m ago

Dommes ONLY My new dommes

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We were all new at one point , what can I help the new & up coming dommes with??

Step 1: is always going to be age verification (LF or OF) post it in your bio along with your payment options Step2: post consistently about you, if you are not comfortable with posting your body don’t do it! If you don’t want to show face don’t do it! Do what feels right/natural for you. If you wanna be a feet account be a feet account! Did you get lunch today ? Did you go shopping hit the gym or get coffee? Post it!

Be aware that time wasting is an actual kink! So if you have brought up tribute or payment of some sort and they bluntly ignored it and changed the subject , they are NEVER going to pay you, delete the convo and move on

Good luck out there 🫶


r/findomsupportgroup 38m ago

Humor Anyone else have findom taking over ur daily thoughts?

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I just find it funny cuz I bought a McDonald’s Minecraft meal today and didn’t get the collectible I wanted and my first thought was “damn can’t believe I just wasted $16 because I don’t have a sub to treat me to meals”😂…I wanted the bee🤧


r/findomsupportgroup 9h ago

Discussion What do u seek in a sub?!❤️

30 Upvotes

Say in the comments what u seek! I have a long term sub but i miss more rude talk! Im a soft dom to him but i crave give a sub my anger to! It's such a good outlet!😈 Um courius about u all! Also subs them self, what type of dom u prefere 💸❤️😈


r/findomsupportgroup 5h ago

Yay! Happy thing happened. Happy domme ♥️

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9 Upvotes

My new sub is so easy to deal with its like a dream and they show admiration so well! This is just off good morning replies to them and than we break down the day 😊 very low maintenance very good sub they knows how to treat their queen! Love a loyal sub


r/findomsupportgroup 13h ago

Yay! Happy thing happened. It’s so hot when they approach like this

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44 Upvotes