Allowing people to make their own mistakes is a way of not giving a fuck about the outcome of people’s actions. Telling people what to do, regardless of intentions, is not giving a fuck. It places expectations when there should be known. Especially when people have different solutions for their problems. Advice should only be given when requested.
Only if you’re actively fixated on not clinging. But real detachment isn’t about managing ‘clinging status’—it’s just moving on without needing to measure it.
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u/NewPurpleRider 6d ago
Don’t cling to revenge. You’re still giving a fuck. Go do your own thing, who cares what that one person feels about you?