r/mildlyinfuriating 1d ago

"I'm Sorry, I Have to Cancel"

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u/Desperate-Complex-48 20h ago

As someone with major health issues; liver transplant and now failing kidneys, I have had to cancel on so many things that it breaks my heart and makes me just want to stop interacting with people so I don’t disappoint them. Every time I have to cancel I feel like shit because it happens a lot and how are they supposed to know it’s legit when it feels like it happens almost everyday?! If I were on the receiving end I’d be wondering if I was fucking lying too.

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u/Eclipse-Raven 19h ago

Connective tissue disorder, I've just shut myself off entirely for the same reason. Only interaction I get is when I have to go to the store

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u/Desperate-Complex-48 10h ago

I’m sorry. 😞

u/Eclipse-Raven 8m ago

That's just how it is, genetics are like that. Not everyone deserves to have friends or a life, we seem to be a pair of them