r/mildlyinfuriating 1d ago

"I'm Sorry, I Have to Cancel"

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u/penfoldsdarksecret 1d ago

My wife's hairdresser did that for around 6 months. Then she announced she was quitting. Then passed away (she was 35 or so) a few weeks later. Sometimes it's excusable.

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u/somberfawn 19h ago

Something similar happened to me. My psychiatrist cancelled my appointment and told me I would need a new psychiatrist bc he was retiring. I called like a week later to try and get some scripts written while I went through his recommendations for a new psychiatrist and it turned out he had died the day before. He had cancer and didn’t tell anyone but his close family and instead chose to work as long as he could to keep helping his patients

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u/Jaded_Aging_Raver 10h ago

Although I feel very sad for your doc and his family, did staying in practice as long as possible really help his patients? It seems like referring them to another doctor much earlier would have been the responsible thing to do.

But then again, maybe he thought he had more time. :(

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u/somberfawn 2h ago

I think he thought he had more time tbh. I don’t know what form of cancer or stage he had, nor do I know how long he knew of the diagnosis :(

Edit: his obituary says “a short battle with cancer” so imagine it possibly took him faster than anyone had expected or faster than he could plan for