r/mildlyinfuriating 1d ago

"How about some English?"

As I have at least 1,000 times before, on my bicycle I came up to a vehicle stopped at a light and let the driver know that their brake light was out. It's an easy, low-effort way to help people out.

This guy was on a beat-up old scooter, wearing a full-face helmet with big dark sunglasses. All I could see of his face was his nose and gray scruff, and he showed no response other than looking in my direction. We're in Japan and maybe my Japanese wasn't clear, so I said the same thing in a different way, saying that he should change the bulb on his brake light.

More stare, and then in a upper-class British English: "How about some English?"

Not "Sorry, I don't speak Japanese" or "Oh, do you speak English?".

"Fuck dude, we're in Japan and you have a full-face helmet on, what do you expect?" followed by "Your brake light is out."

More stare. No "Oh, thanks" or anything like that.

Sigh.

[Before anyone comments about it, I make sure to pull up in a nonthreatening way, keeping distance from the vehicle and pulling slightly forward before stopping so that they're not surprised by a big white dude addressing them from the corner of their eye. The vast majority of people are surprised and thankful to be told.]

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u/Kinghamsterr 1d ago

This is what happens when you try to be nice in the world. Thank you for being the kind person you are, but to protect your peace, just keep to yourself next time.

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u/Jeffrey_Friedl 1d ago

Nah, I'll continue. I've done it literally over 1,000 times, and I've had two experiences like today: today's and one where the guy in a work truck just waved me off for bothering him. The vast majority of folks indicate appreciation.

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u/Kinghamsterr 1d ago

That's good news! I agree with continuing on doing this if you've had majority of folks appreciate this. You're saving lives