r/mildlyinfuriating • u/Jeffrey_Friedl • 1d ago
"How about some English?"
As I have at least 1,000 times before, on my bicycle I came up to a vehicle stopped at a light and let the driver know that their brake light was out. It's an easy, low-effort way to help people out.
This guy was on a beat-up old scooter, wearing a full-face helmet with big dark sunglasses. All I could see of his face was his nose and gray scruff, and he showed no response other than looking in my direction. We're in Japan and maybe my Japanese wasn't clear, so I said the same thing in a different way, saying that he should change the bulb on his brake light.
More stare, and then in a upper-class British English: "How about some English?"
Not "Sorry, I don't speak Japanese" or "Oh, do you speak English?".
"Fuck dude, we're in Japan and you have a full-face helmet on, what do you expect?" followed by "Your brake light is out."
More stare. No "Oh, thanks" or anything like that.
Sigh.
[Before anyone comments about it, I make sure to pull up in a nonthreatening way, keeping distance from the vehicle and pulling slightly forward before stopping so that they're not surprised by a big white dude addressing them from the corner of their eye. The vast majority of people are surprised and thankful to be told.]
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u/Amplidyne 1d ago
No good deed goes unpunished.
I used to bother. Back in the 70s, a good mate of mine who was a lorry driver, told me that drivers always like to be told of blown lights, as it's an easy pull for the law, and nobody wants that.
Used to be that whatever they were driving, private or commercial. you'd get a "Thanks pal" sort of response. Sometimes "I'll see to that before I get a pull"
These days you either get treated as a nuisance, or ignored.
So now I don't bother,