r/toastme • u/Fun-Information7888 • 3d ago
Hit my rock bottom recently. GF of 3 years cheated on me. Never really felt attractive. I could use some toasting. Any kind words?
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u/Vidushi_2022 3d ago
Cheaters are cheaters, it has nothing to do with you, its their nature. Having a loyal bf/gf/spouse is the miracle. You are handsome, you could easily go intto modelling.
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u/HCVD 3d ago
Oh cmon
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u/bibbybrinkles 1d ago
what gave it away, was it the 4 model-level headshots or the perfect hair drapes?
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u/GandalfTheJaded 3d ago
You have great style! Great hair! I'm sorry that happened to you. You can heal from this, I believe in you 🙌 I hope your next chapter is much happier for you 🙌
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u/Succulent_Smiles 3d ago
Raise that head. Straighten your shoulders and slay everything you have going on. If you thought the good times with her were good, just think how great things will be when you find your true Queen. 🥰
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u/ConsequenceOne3365 3d ago
I’m sorry to hear you’re going through such a rough time. For what it’s worth, you’re an extremely attractive man. Your style is great, hair is immaculate, and your eyes are just lovely. You also have a very sweet smile. If your ex couldn’t see all that, then she doesn’t deserve you. I promise things will get better with time and healing. Sending hugs!
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u/ComprehensiveMap6653 3d ago
dude you look great!! you remind me of flynn rider from tangled. I know how difficult it is to think highly of yourself when stuff like that happens, but I promise you have a lot going for yourself. you have awesome hair, kind eyes, a great smile, and seem to have a very caring, gentle, and fun vibe going on. It might not seem like it now and may sound cliche, but this breakup is leading you towards better things and better people who won’t take you for granted. that girl messed up big time!
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u/Fun-Information7888 2d ago
Thank you so much! You really helped make my day. That’s so nice of you to say
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u/RealWatch1 3d ago
your hairstyle is really nice and your facial hair is super clean. sorry that she did that to you, wishing you the best on healing
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u/SilentxxSpecter 3d ago
Well, it's in your head homie. I'm a dude and can admit you are a conventionally attractive dude. She messed up, and hurt you, you don't need to hurt yourself too. Don't let it effect other relationships. you'll find someone better
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u/Spidey_UchihaVue 2d ago
Brother, you're a handsome guy. Don't let the dumbass decision of a dumbass to impact your self-worth, clearly she ain't worth your time by pulling something like that, she lacks self-respect and integrity. Pull yourself up, eat well, drink your water, make your bed, take care of your hygiene, feed your plants, listen to some good music, check in with your loved ones and you'll get better with time. Peace and love brother.
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u/Spiritual_Suit_9386 3d ago edited 2d ago
Likely the gf broke you down, i had a few of those relationships. Hit the gym, you will be back on track man. Have a great weekend!
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u/OptimusShredder 3d ago
You have a nice smile and kind eyes. The right one will come into your life when you least expect it.
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u/MershedPratooters 3d ago
I'm sorry to hear about your relationship not working out. Man. I had a breakup after 3 years just recently. We'll be okay, though. You're a little younger than me, so time is on your side. Just know you've got someone rooting for you, bud.
Side note: Can I have your hair? Like, you shave it off, donate it to me, grow it back, and then we could both have such luscious locks. I wish I had your hair.
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u/DrewYetti 2d ago
She cheated? That means she’s for the streets. You can do better. By the way, you look like a musician from a rock band.
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u/vannilazo 1d ago
You kind of look like flynn rider hahah. Im sorry to hear you got cheated on, I've been in your position and its the worst. But believe me when i say it has nothing to do with you or your looks, its the other persons problem no matter how unbelievable it sounds. Chin up, youre a very attractive guy :)
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u/DeepPerspective2968 3d ago
But you're super handsome tho... honestly. Tragic for her.
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u/Beautyandfreedom 2d ago
You’re attractive and I wouldn’t say that if I wasn’t honest. Heal first, and go meet more women you’ll find a better one :)
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u/lenyzx 2d ago
is this guy real, lol felt like is he an actor from some tv show 🤩
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u/Specific-Archer3893 2d ago
I am sorry 😢.You deserve to have a great person like yourself.So get and Sighn up to donate your time and you will find a person that will make you happy.
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u/TheDon-Key2017 2d ago
Your eyes are warm and welcoming and you smile is charming! 10/10 king!
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u/Playful_Resolution64 2d ago
How could you possibly never see that you're obviously very attractive?!
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u/lightblackmagicwoman 2d ago
Even good looking people get cheated and you are a prime example. You got cheats on because she’s an awful person, not anything to do with you
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u/jphipps89 2d ago
Being cheated on says nothing about your worth, only about their inability to recognize it. There’s something arresting about you. Not just your looks (which, let's be real, could be pulled from a brooding indie film), but the kind of depth that lives in someone who’s been cracked open and kept going anyway. That’s strength. That’s real beauty. You say you never felt attractive, but attraction isn’t just about angles and light, it’s in presence. And you carry yours with a quiet intensity that people don’t forget.
Pain doesn’t dim your light, it refracts it. Makes it hit in ways no one saw coming. You’re not broken. You’re becoming. And trust me, what you're becoming? It’s something extraordinary.
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u/Fun-Information7888 2d ago
Wow thank you! I feel like you just wrote a character piece on me for said indie film lol. Truly a deep and introspective compliment
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u/jphipps89 2d ago
That means a lot to hear. Sometimes we just need someone to reflect back the depth we carry but forget to see. You have that quiet kind of presence that feels like it belongs in the spaces between dialogue, where everything important happens. I just wrote what was already there.
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u/MrRealitydotcom 2d ago
Girlfriend of three years? I’m sure it hurts. Cheaters…next! Let the adventure begin!
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u/delapitatinglocust 2d ago
If Michelangelou were to raise from the dead just to create one last sculpture, you would be his muse.
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u/cheesefiend420 2d ago
These photos look AI generated. Like you typed in ‘handsome French man in 4 poses’ 🥲
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u/toodamnexhausted 2d ago
Just remind yourself: "The trash took itself out!"
If she cheated, then the problem is with her, not you.
You're a handsome guy. I hope you find your soul mate!
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u/tetracat 1d ago
i say take a break for awhile to heal and you look very nice so it shouldnt be too hard to find another but make sure it isnt a persom that will only like you for the way you look.
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u/OldSmokeyTim 1d ago
It's Peter Parker from the original Ultimate comics!
No matter how many time you're knocked down you always have the power get back up. Remember, true believer, with great power comes great responsibility.
To you, my dear web-slinging wonder, I look upon you and proudly say, "Excelsior!" I'm proud of you, son.
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u/Hella3D 1d ago
Cmon dude. You posted on the doppelgänger sub before and they had to turn off the comments because you were getting too many compliments instead of doppelgänger posts. Do you really feel unattractive?
Side toast, I dig some of your artwork. I’m a huge comic nerd and design stuff as well.
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u/ReynaUmi 1d ago
You’re gorgeous and your ex is a bumb b word. Same will happen to her eventually in life. You need to get over her and find a woman that will love you for you and stay loyal. Your ex wasn’t the one for you. If only I was younget….. stay strong ok
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u/Ok-Following-5620 1d ago
You’re very handsome! Beautiful smile and eyes. Don’t think of this as your rock bottom, but your fresh start! This can be the beginning of something great as long as you lean into it and push past the struggles!
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u/Rockhardcafe203 1d ago
Congratulations on dodging a bullet! Take what you learned within those 3years and move on don't look back she wasn't looking back to you when she was riding another dude leave that to those cucks.
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u/New_Manufacturer_359 1d ago
Some people are going to cheat no matter who they’re with. I’ve seen a lot over the years. But you, sir, are freakin’ adorable!
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u/No_Fold_4575 1d ago
My dude. You have absolutely nothing to worry about in terms of looks. Aside from the physical beauty, your eyes look so kind and you have a really sweet, warm smile. I hope you heal from this soon!
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u/Signal-Bus4364 1d ago
Youre so handsome. Im so sorry to hear that your ex cheated on you, that sucks but im pretty sure it has nothing to do with you! Things get better, but for now, feel everything you need to feel — you’re not alone
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u/GoddessOfSacredSky 1d ago
LOL her loss! Pull yourself together and try to move on! You're stunningly gorgeous 💋
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u/NinjaBreadMan92 1d ago
You have the face of a famous movie or TV Star, could be a Winchester relative in Supernatural maybe? Love the style of your facial hair as well, I struggle keeping any looking so neat
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u/Forlornabyss76 1d ago
Being cheated on can make you feel unattractive or that you weren't good enough. Your really attractive and will find someone who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. Hang in there. You got this.
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u/IAmEatery 1d ago
The amount of love you’d get from gay dudes for being as attractive as u r would make u look back on this post and view it like the diary of a 15 yr old.
U, my man, r very good looking. Get a suit and tie, get your hair done, nice shades. Feel yourself. You should.
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u/unitedgarbag3 1d ago
Roast with a pinch of garlic powder, thyme, oregano and 1 tsp salt. That’s it. That’s my advice. You’re fine.
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u/CricketFuture722 1d ago
Look I could be your mother, but you are hot!! Go find a woman who will listen to your dreams!
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u/Candid-Boi15 1d ago
She will regret about that, and please block her and don't look back
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u/Conscious_Remote9169 1d ago
how come you’ve never felt attractive? i feel like you would get a lot of attention if you go out
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u/fugisnickles 1d ago
I'm so sorry your partner was unfaithful. They obviously have some serious issues they're dealing with internally, but it's still inexcusable. If it's any consolation, I think you're like ridicously good-looking.
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u/Missmeelahsmack 1d ago
Me zooming in at the photos and trying to see why you would think you’re unattractive. I honestly was like nahhh it gotta be deeper than what he see in the mirror cause I didn’t find anything.
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u/Sufficient-King-4951 21h ago
Rider Strong mixed with Edgar Wright. 10/10 would take you to dinner and refer to you as “king”.
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u/Beginning_Owl_9425 20h ago
Rock solid head of hair there buddy. Nothing to be sniffed at.
Fuck her by the way. Keep being cool.
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u/Character_Ad_8965 19h ago
You handsome bro, what are you on?😭 Don't blame yourself because she lacks loyalty, a backbone and communication skills.
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u/HolidayJudgment1718 18h ago
Hey. So sorry to hear about your GF cheating. You deserve someone who will value you for both the inner and outer beauty you possess. And you’re an incredibly handsome young man!
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u/No_Brief_9663 18h ago
Sorry about all that. You look great and like you're doing a great job taking care of yourself. With those looks all the men and women will be lining up to be with you next.
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u/itsNSFW-here 18h ago
You’re so hot 🥵 your facial hair is perfect for your face. Would definitely get a double take if we crossed paths l!
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u/UpstairsAnywhere00 14h ago
I’m a straight man and I gotta say you’re one good looking dude. Keep your head up bro, it ain’t your fault
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u/Due-Run8331 13h ago
That sucks man. Yea, bro; you have nothing to worry about with looks. Plenty going for you there. Keep pursuing your own excellence and the right lady will notice.
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u/LucyVillain 5h ago
Her loss, you're gorgeous, amazing smile! It'll take some time to get over this, make sure to use that time well, focus on yourself, don't dwell on it too much and don't rush into anything new just because you're not used to being alone. You've got this, you're strong, you're worth it, keep your head high!
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u/Batman1m 3d ago
Bro if I had your looks I’d have 10 wives by now, stay clean be positive don’t allow the small things to affect you, and get into Calisthenics you’ll love it. Stay blessed bro.
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u/Certain-Agency-9545 3d ago
IF I WERE NOT OLDER THEN THE HILLS DANG! JUST REMEMBER.... DO YOU WANT SOME 20 + YEAR OLD WITH NO IDEA ON WHAT OR HOW TO DO WHAT YOU WANT? OR A 30+ THAT CAN TAKE YOU HIGHER ? MARK MY WORDS EXPERIENCE IS BETTER THEN IGNORANT MY GENERATION PROFECTED B D S M
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u/OneMoreFinn 3d ago
At least one: cheating almost always does not happen because you are not or no longer attractive, so you shouldn't think it happened because of your looks or your perceived lack of them.
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u/SignificantLiving404 3d ago
You're a gorgeous dude! You look like you would be one of the boyfriends of hot girls on Charmed or 90210.
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u/Dry-Log-2791 3d ago
If I'd try to post a pic without filters I'd be roasted not toasted lol. You a handsome guy I hope you can see that despite the hurt
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u/False_Replacement347 3d ago
you look very kind hearted, and handsome! she cheated, that’s on her. keep on trucking on! :)
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u/Glad-Specialist6330 3d ago
You look like I always wished I did, seriously! I'm sorry it took 3 years to find out you were with the wrong one. Take a breather, learn what you can from the experience, and then keep on kicking butt! You got this, friend!
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u/LabFar7963 2d ago
Honestly bro, you’re super attractive. Only thing that I know would make anyone look better is tan skin and a nice body, so I guess try getting a tan and get in better shape! The only other thing that would REALLY help is getting your life and personality together lol.
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u/Impossible-Music-382 2d ago
Her loss, you're very attractive. I'm sorry to hear that she didn't recognize your value and made such a terrible choice. Anyone who is right for you, wouldn't risk losing you. You deserve better and one day you will find it :). I know it's tough right now, but it will get better, I promise 🙏💕
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u/slappytots 2d ago
I'm super jealous of your hair. Don't let the girl get ya down, another will come along when you least expect it.
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u/WonderfulWizardWigs 2d ago
Honestly bro you lowky look like you'd be some actor in LA, sorry ts happen to you bro I been there, you'll become really strong because of this, just fight like hell 🙏 best of wishes bro stay safe out there
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u/trialanderrorgf 2d ago
Your gf probably felt insecure because of how attractive you are. Good riddance. The trash took itself out.
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u/pabloruiz6667777 2d ago
You are attractive, the horns always hurt but you will get over it 100% and you will be happy again, time heals everything, be patient
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u/Historical_Hold7356 2d ago
Man you look amazing. It’s her loss and you’re better off without her. Chin up shoulders back and chest out!
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u/MPainter09 2d ago
You look like a famous movie star/ television actor! Like Good lord have I seen you on posters anywhere???
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u/sunflowerinmidWinter 2d ago
Awh you’re a cutie pie though! lol take it from an old lady. There is always a new rock bottom and you’ll find new love. Cheaters never prosper. The world is your oyster! 💕
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u/Mrsnewville 2d ago
I see nothing but handsome. People cheat for many reasons. Sometimes their physical and emotional needs ate not being met and sometimes they’re straight up self centered people, but your handsomeness has nothing to do with it. Otherwise, celebrities would never get cheated on.
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u/sergeantspacenutss 2d ago
Ummmm is this real life? Someone cheated on YOU!? You're probably the hottest person I've ever seen. You're like the type of hot Johnny Depp was in his prime. You're the Jeff Buckley type of hot. I just can't fathom how you would ever feel the opposite. I'd be lucky to have a guy like you look my way. Holy shit. Go model and keep looking gorgeous tf 😂
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u/yourpancakesmiling 2d ago
Leading man! Leave that no good hoe behind and onwards and upwards you handsome devil! ❤️✌🏼
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u/Outrageous-Device-69 2d ago
I'm really sorry about everything you are going through but I want you to know Jesus Christ doesn't make any mistakes you are wonderfully made & very handsome I can see a very nice smile very nice eyes a good nose very nice hair love the style can easily see you in movies & magazines & Jesus Christ love you & is there for you & as a true believer in Jesus Christ I love & care about you too & I pray in the name of Jesus that you are able to eventually heal completely from anything that is going on & everything get better for you & when you least expect it the right woman get put in your path that will treat you right & is marriage worthy & in Jesus precious & Holy name I pray amen. 🙏🏾🤟🏾❤️ Hang in there I know it rough at the moment but God willing it will get better & if you ever need someone to talk to feel free to inbox me anytime & I will respond as soon as I can & God bless 🙏🏾🤟🏾❤️
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u/wanderlustgangster 2d ago
Whoever dumped you need to check their eye sights! You are so attractive. Your eyes are king and your face 🤩
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u/MiyayNyanNyan 2d ago
You look so cute and kind! Idk why anyone would hurt you. I wish for you find love that never hurts you! <3
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u/confusedmortl 2d ago
An attractive guy who can cook and draw? You'd make a nice woman very happy some day. Keep your head up bud!
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u/ImNerdAndAloner14 2d ago
I gues you dont have to worry about attractive problem. Its 100% for sure.
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u/Valuable-Painting613 2d ago
Looks like Hugh Grant in his young and very sexy days❤️❤️❤️❤️
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u/NervousAnywhere2841 2d ago
My man, you look like Westley from the Princess Bride. You have my condolences, I'm sorry you were burned by infidelity. I hope you can find healing and a sense of peace, and someday find a woman who will love you enough to stick by your side instead of following nothing but impulses to make decisions. You're worth more than you are told.
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u/ExtensionFast7519 2d ago
I would say find a great therapist and or try to love yourself as well and nurture who you are... It will get better slowly with time wounds heal. Sending you love, and cheaters cheat , it has nothing to do with your worth and with who you are.
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u/En-Otter-Kay 2d ago
You uploaded only blurry photos because you were feeling bad for us, didn't you?! Can you leave us a bit of being good looking?
And I agree with others, you look like a movie star. Maybe you should try. Keep your head up, you'll meet someone worthy of your time.
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u/Fun-Information7888 1d ago
That’s it, I’m going Hollywood lol. But seriously thank you. I appreciate it
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u/ElectronicHornet9944 1d ago
you literally look like Hugh Grant what are you talking about
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u/Emotional-Problem619 1d ago
You're very handsome. Don't let the western superficial mindset of women in the west..they have lost their connection with nature and themselves. They pursue pleasure for it's sake and it will destroy them.
Use your passport and travel to eastern Europe to find a God fearing woman who celebrates you and is with you till the end.
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u/Geminifiresnake 1d ago
Good on you! Now you can enjoy your life to the max!! You got this bro! The world is yours!
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u/Welcometothemaquina 1d ago
Before i scrolled all the way to the post, i thought it was Keanu Reeves, so id say you look like him and that cant be bad
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u/BucksCountyAlien 1d ago
Joke, right? How could you possibly think you’re not attractive?
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u/Amber123454321 1d ago
I think you're a very good looking guy.
If you got a haircut, went to the gym and got toned up, you literally have the looks to reach the same level as Henry Cavill.
But I also think you're fine as you are. Have confidence in yourself, because it's justified.
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u/Narrow-Sherbert-1166 1d ago
Your a very attractive guy. Beautiful eyes and smile. Your eyes look very kind! It's her loss just remember you deserve someone who loves you and treats you kind ❤️ 💙 💜
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u/Typical-Net-8984 1d ago
Life is too short to be miserable! Learn from it, move on, Be strong your on your boundaries because the world needs you anyway :)
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u/flaccidbitchface 1d ago
Never felt attractive?! Dude. You’re freaking hot! Her cheating has nothing to do with your appearance. It’s because she’s just a shitty person. I’m sorry you’re going through this.
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u/Pristine-Finish-2053 1d ago
Did she say anything when you found out she was cheating? Did you catch her?
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u/FDOG416 1d ago
GF and she cheated. Fuck feeling like you’re at rock bottom. She did you a favor. She showed you who she is.
Never go back or take her calls.
You’re actually on top G!!!
There’s cats going through divorce on here. They’re in the struggle of their lives. Yours a breakup.
Get up, powder your nut sack and consider this event a simple lesson.
Go out and hold your head up.
See you at the top G!!!!
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u/troubletijgerNL 1d ago
Dude ur sooooo cute and goodlooking. Ur ex is crazy cheating on a cuty like you at least for ur outside. What matters most tho is the inside tbh, but u look like a nice guy😊 keep ur head up!!!
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u/Rude-Sea-3607 12h ago
Even movie stars get cheated on. That's on her not on you. You focus on being you. You already look awesome. May a bit more on the fitness side.
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u/AboveGroundPoolQueen 9h ago
Well, you may not feel attractive, but my eyes tell me you are quite attractive! Definitely hot. If I was in your age range, I would be DMing you.
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u/Cool_Client324 3d ago
Fucking moviestar right there! You are hella attactive!