r/AITAH • u/infinity_universes8 • 18d ago
I have been married since 2008 and am 36 f. I have been begging for almost out whole relationship to just mabye be treated like a human. I was tricked fooled manipulated and had the most unbelievable inhumane things done for years. How do I finally leave?
Examples of treatment is beating me causing a miscarriage and it wasn't provoked in anyway that I can think of and to this day has not apologized or felt guilty. He almost murdered me fo no reason I was sleeping. And I have covered for him let people think he is a good person he still tells me it's my fault he hasn't felt guilty ever and there is so many other things that are just as bad and he won't change he actually believes he is good to me. I have begged and pleeded to just be treated humanly at minimum he just laughs I am so trapped broken and I really have no one and I can't tell people the truth I won't get help I am so depressed. I think he's a true psychopath narrsist who won't change. What can I do to survive I am a loyal loving caring person but I know he won't change. I think I have tried everything been patient a begged him to just possibly look at me when I am aloud to talk. I want to know how to accept it kw there a way to limit the hurt I feel accept he doesn't care. Is it the right thing for me to continue to let my kids think everything is fine and that he is a great person and that he has kinda convinced them I am the problem. He lives in a fairy tale and I am the evil. I have never had anyone treat me good not my parents family I have nothing I want to mabye be happy one day. How can I make myself accept and give up on helping him change. Why would a person treat there wife asbad as he dose i Wana understand. Dose anyone know is there treatment for a narcissist or true psychopath? Please lmk I am lost confused.
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9d ago
So idk where you live but I am starting a thing with my maincoons who have kittens and I have been looking into listing them as emotional support animals I mean all my babies are amazing I put so much love and attention into them to make them even more loving and like a shadow or Velcro then they already are but I was also thinking of opening an option for people to be able to come and just be loved on by my babies because that's all they want to do so people could come and just sit and hold them and there are so many studies of how an animals touch can heal people a lot so even if a person wasn't able to care for a pet they could come spend time and receive love and attention and touch from the kitten or cat. Animals touch has been said to be ao healing and comforting to so many people what would anyone who reads this post please lmk and give me feedback of what would hopefully help people please lmk