I've been diagnosed with ADHD by two seperate psychiatrists over the years, one of them Harvard trained, and this bullshit is infuriating.
"It's really hard for me to study sometimes cause I just get so bored, I'm totally ADHD, it's really a problem."
Shut the hell up, you have no fucking idea what you're talking about. You can't focus on studying? I litterally can't count 100 things sometimes without my mind wondering off into some dumb bullshit. My memory is so shot I have to rely in Facebook to tell me my mother and sister's birthdays every year. I've lost jobs because I could keep on task long enough to get anything done even when I know full well I have to stay focused or I'll lose the job.
It's the most crippling thing that I can't tell people about because idiots like that have made ADHD appear to be an excuse. If I tell people I have ADHD, the response I'm always likely to get is "quit complaining and just focus" or something similar. It's something you get eye rolls for now.
I have ADHD, diagnosed when I was 4 years old in 1991. I haven't used it as an excuse since high school. Main reason, I've learned people don't care. I have a fellow who worked under me, only about 5 years younger then me. The first few weeks every time he made a mistake he blamed it on his ADD. After 2 weeks I had enough and told him flat out, i have ADHD and I don't use it as an excuse. If I fuck up, I deal with it and move on and try to learn from it.
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u/[deleted] May 30 '17
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