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Wrong answers only: How Come the Gun Turret Doesn't Need Electricity?
 in  r/factorio  3d ago

Combustion of the pheromones from biters and spitters generate enough electricty to activate the targeting and triggering system. Once the first bullet is fired, the barrel become a thermocouple to power all systems until all targets and the air are clear.

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AIO about my boyfriend not putting effort into our relationship?
 in  r/AmIOverreacting  7d ago

after six years you're not dating - you're married, and these are typical married people problems. This doesn't go away or resolve naturally. After a certain amount of time, everyone gets very comfortable and complacent. It then requires constant active conscious effort to make each other feel special.

In your case, you need to be exceptionally direct and clear about what he needs to exactly specifically do for you.

He on the other hand needs to watch the tale of two brains, and how to stay married and not kill anyone by Mark Gungor.

If you can get over your discomfort about bossing him around and he can act on what he learns from you and those videos, I foresee a long happy relationship.

I really wish you the best.

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AIO? my (17f) best friends moms boyfriend (44m)
 in  r/AmIOverreacting  9d ago

I expected 'groomer' to be the top comment, because that's exactly what this is.

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AIO I wanna break up but i am just so weak to do that?
 in  r/AmIOverreacting  9d ago

Comparison is the thief of joy. People should never compare partners. They're in the past for a reason after all.

Break up with him, then do see a DR about your face.

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Could I run anything reasonable with 3x256gb ram?
 in  r/LocalLLaMA  9d ago

I have access to 50 servers with 768gb ram, same question. what could i do.

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How is retirement for IT folks? I'm 47, 30 years on the duty and I never seen anybody retire (unless they got super rich as C-Levels)
 in  r/sysadmin  9d ago

Fear not, if you want to work, it will be there.

The old systems always outlive the people.

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CXL: Slot RAM into your PCIE slot, great for running Deepseek on your CPU
 in  r/LocalLLaMA  9d ago

Need TEMU to make CXL card that takes 16GB ECC ddrs rams from those tired Dells.

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Counter offer after giving my 2 week notice
 in  r/sysadmin  15d ago

counter their counter with contract availability at 4x your hourly until they fill the void.

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Bought a co-op in NYC, $745k at 6.125%
 in  r/FirstTimeHomeBuyer  24d ago

Check out this guy and his golden hancuffs.

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AITA for telling my girl that I'm uncomfortable with her wearing pasties to a concert?
 in  r/AITAH  26d ago

Never try to lock down a free spirit. If you don't like it, set her free.

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WIBTAH If i paid a guy to flirt with my wife?
 in  r/WouldIBeTheAhole  26d ago

Yes,

Also comparison is the thief of joy. And if you pay attention to the advertising that she gets targeted with. You will have a good idea of what she thinks is expected of her.

I think every couple, past the honeymoon phase deals with this to varying degree, and there is no right answer for how to be supportive without being condescending, judgmental, insensitive or crass.

For the average woman, this isn't something that can be 'fixed' by any means.

I recommend you do your best to keep listening, and letting her sound off how she feels about the topic. Be very, sparing, with your words. Do more listening.

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AITA for ghosting my GF after she invited my abusive parents to my birthday
 in  r/AITAH  Mar 07 '25

NTA, however, when you find a keeper, you need to find the willpower to communicate through this pain. It doesn't mean spilling the beans strictly speaking, It means being willing to tell her, "You violated my confidence, and that is unacceptable. We need to move forward as unified team even when we disagree, this topic(your parents) is currently nonnegotiable for me"

I say currently because, as you get older, you might revisit the idea of no contact.

Being able to adapt and recover from these situations is a sign of a health relationship. As long as that recovery comes from both parties. (that's one way to know Shes a keeper)

On the idea of revisiting, no contact, I don't hold any hope beyond the words, I literally waited until my mom died before having kids for this exact reason, so I'm clearly no authority.

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Blood patch effects if it’s not csf
 in  r/CSFLeaks  Mar 07 '25

2.) For me, the non-CSF symptoms (back pain, stiffness, tiredness) took two weeks to relieve. While I was very bored, I definitely didn't want to move intentionally. After two weeks I went back to work (desk job).

3.) You will still be using the rest room, getting up for food, showering on day 2+, I think bed rest injuries require a higher level of sedentariness. Maybe you're predisposed, but you can get your blood circulating by moving your arms.

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Question for Leakers / Suspected Leakers - when I squeeze the back of my neck, the pulling sensation stops?
 in  r/CSFLeaks  Mar 07 '25

I'm very curious about your situation. I wonder, how do you sleep, back side stomach?

Are you over/underwight/over/undermuscled.

Logically I dont see how pushing on your neck muscles, would affect your cranial pressure unless there's a deformity in your spine, or you're drastically affecting your blood pressure.

How hard do you have to push? What if, for the sake of curiosity, you put a large hair clip in that position, would gentle but sustained pressure have an effect?

in any event I wish you the very best.

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Post delivery help
 in  r/CSFLeaks  Mar 07 '25

My experience matches you. Don't wait on treatment.

My first leak gradually closed over 2 years. But eventually I leaked again; and now I have permanent tinnitus. I'm waiting to see if my most recent patch resolves the leak permanently. But even if I'm sealed, I have wild swings in pressure on a daily basis now.

I wake up normal, hurt for an hour at about 9-10am then around dinnertime get intense pressure, and get sleepy earlier than normal.

I suspect I have a much smaller leak, and routine of coffee in the morning is picking up my pressure.

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Post patch Day 10 symptoms
 in  r/CSFLeaks  Mar 07 '25

It took a full two weeks for my back pain, and general stiffness to be alleviated.

They use a pretty small needle, but my body certainly doesn't think so.

Pay close attention to the site of injection and your temperature to make sure you're not brewing an infection.

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Blood Patch Experience
 in  r/CSFLeaks  Mar 07 '25

Only while vertical. When laying flat no pain.

When the pain is especially bad, I can't even use a pillow. Mitigation for me is a gallon or more of water per day and 4-6 cups of coffee before noon.

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Blood Patch Experience
 in  r/CSFLeaks  Mar 01 '25

Better than pre patch, i've had a couple headaches that feel like low pressure, but nothing like before.

I'm still taking it easy, no lifting twisting bending. Dealing with a virus in the house so that might set me back.

I would give the recovery 6/10. My horizontal desk has only seen use twice this month.

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AITA for refusing to acknowledge my half-sibling?
 in  r/AITAH  Feb 27 '25

Well it goes both ways. What else are you supposed to do with a broken family. leave them to starve or worse.

I can tell you from personal experience it's not better that way.

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AITA for refusing to acknowledge my half-sibling?
 in  r/AITAH  Feb 27 '25

Its a lonely way to live cutting out everyone who doesn't agree with you.

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AITA for refusing to acknowledge my half-sibling?
 in  r/AITAH  Feb 27 '25

The only thing OP has any control over in this situation is OPS own feelings.
So yes, this is 100% about her.

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AITA for refusing to acknowledge my half-sibling?
 in  r/AITAH  Feb 27 '25

yea thats weak person talk.

Loving someone and holding them accountable are not mutually exclusive. Love is not an excuse to walk all over someone.

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AITA for refusing to acknowledge my half-sibling?
 in  r/AITAH  Feb 27 '25

It's not the kids' fault, don't make it about them.
You're free to associate with whomever you like. But you're definitely letting irrational emotions control you.

You don't have to like your family, but you do have to love them. My family motto.

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Would I Be the ads while for leaving my husband for his political opinions?
 in  r/WouldIBeTheAhole  Feb 27 '25

It sounds to me like you're both not having more than surface discussions about the topics. If that's correct, you should definitely try to have a 1-2 hour undistracted discussion about this, no phones no screens. Just looking into each others eyes telling them why you think you're right.

If you can't do that, then gtfo and find someone you're able to communicate, disagree, and yet live with in the end.

This particular situation will pass, both of your view will change, and what matters is if you can move forward as a unit.

It's not a good compromise unless both parties are unhappy.

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AITA for continuously triggering her trypophobia?
 in  r/AITAH  Feb 23 '25

This reads like an episode of The Miraculous Ladybug.