r/trans 2h ago

Do you actually care about what you look like?

6 Upvotes

So exactly what the title says, do YOU actually care what you look like? Because personally, I don’t care about what I look like be it masculine or feminine; so long as I am always considered a woman, the only reason I put in effort at all for how I look (aside from trying to be attractive and well groomed) is so strangers know to refer to me as “her” instead of “him”. Anyone else feel the same way?

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Go ahead, Detectives. What does my fridge say about me?
 in  r/FridgeDetective  1d ago

LOL at the ketchup comment. I use that bottle in 5 burgers. 3 with fries

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My little girl. Can guess her name?
 in  r/cuteanimals  1d ago

Seraphina

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800K Wow!
 in  r/OneOrangeBraincell  1d ago

She’s trying

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Why is it so cute when they cover their faces with their tiny paws? Show me your face-paw nap kitties please
 in  r/cats  2d ago

Close enough? Had to dig too deep for this. Conclusion: take more cat pictures

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My girlfriend (MTF 21) wants me to call her by her dead name and I'm really worried
 in  r/trans  2d ago

Be patient, even medicated bipolar disorder can be extremely intense when paired with hormones

Source: I am a medicated bipolar trans woman on HRT (with BPD no less)

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a friend's deadname (dw i got permission from him)
 in  r/tragedeigh  3d ago

Aww I have never thought about drawing Eevee, I will have to give it a go! Aww Hi! And thank you so much!! 🥰😊

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a friend's deadname (dw i got permission from him)
 in  r/tragedeigh  4d ago

Of course! I don’t comment too often, but I just couldn’t pass by without stopping and saying something! Eevee is my favorite Pokemon 🥰❤️ (probably because I am trans, but you didn’t ask; so sorry for the unprompted information)

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a friend's deadname (dw i got permission from him)
 in  r/tragedeigh  4d ago

I love your name

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Just got told by someone that I pass for an older lady what do we think (please don’t be too harsh 🥹)
 in  r/transpassing  4d ago

Totally agree it doesn’t work here, I was just saying with the right clothes it CAN be a super fun and cute aesthetic

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AIO to think this is cheating?
 in  r/AmIOverreacting  5d ago

This sounds like insecurity. There is nothing inherently wrong with a picture of someone. I take pictures of ALL my friends whenever they are having a cute day because I want to remember how nice they looked for their sake. It works as a “I know you are upset right bow but lets think about this bomb ass day where you looked like this. Now lets dress up and forget about our problems for the day.” Like pictures are meant to be shared between friends. It’s weird to think otherwise, you share “selfies” or pictures of yourself with family dont you? Friends should be an extension of that family.

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Just got told by someone that I pass for an older lady what do we think (please don’t be too harsh 🥹)
 in  r/transpassing  5d ago

I was thinking the same thing, with the right mix it can look really cute or give off a certain “exuberant punk” vibe that some people go for

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is my haircut really that unflattering?
 in  r/lesbianfashionadvice  10d ago

I gay this. Uhh I mean third

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Made Hash Pancakes
 in  r/trees  10d ago

Hash pancakes?

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AIO for breaking up with my bf because he got mad at a song I sang
 in  r/AmIOverreacting  11d ago

I guarantee all because of the “last December “ line. If you were with your ex during that time then he is making STUPID ass connections to it. Could be some sort of projection, but what do I know? I am an English major, not a therapist lol.

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Several adults with advanced degrees could not solve this kindergarten homework
 in  r/mildlyinfuriating  11d ago

Im interested in linguistics and this is super cool to know because I am too busy to actually pursue it atm!

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What is this style called?
 in  r/tattooadvice  11d ago

People are so fucking judgmental about saying “this isn’t art”. Did an artist do this work? It is THAT fucking simple

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What is this style called?
 in  r/tattooadvice  11d ago

Some people are healthy, functioning adults, who happen to thrive in chaos and just find life more enjoyable when things aren’t “following a mold” art doesn’t mean they are mentally ill or unstable, and implying it does is gatekeeping of artwork. Just saying.

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What are pets that will replace wanting a monkey?
 in  r/Pets  13d ago

Only when they can get away with it! But those rare times they know they can’t play it off are gold 😭😂

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Do male arcane fans exist?
 in  r/Arcanecirclejerk  13d ago

Sadly, you must be a lesbeen (male) scientist, just as viktor the glorious evolutionist.

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Do male arcane fans exist?
 in  r/Arcanecirclejerk  13d ago

Silly just be a Lebsian man like Viktor-The Lezbeans- (kinda like “The Guy” in spy kids game over)

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Do male arcane fans exist?
 in  r/Arcanecirclejerk  13d ago

I was pretty sure I was lezbeans before arcane, but now I am nothing Butt.

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What are pets that will replace wanting a monkey?
 in  r/Pets  15d ago

And the one time their precarious balance slips, and they fall, they look at us like we are monsters for not catching them!