r/MadeMeSmile Mar 05 '25

Wholesome Moments A Real Gentleman

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u/CuddlyWuddly0 Mar 05 '25

She was dressed just fine, it was the chair and the position they had her sitting in, up higher than the audience.
And she was dignified enough to realize it

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u/dynamic_gecko Mar 05 '25

So.......she wasn't dressed fine. It's very common to be on an elevated stage when you go to an event. And the way they seated her seems very normal.

Of course, it's always nice to help a person in need. But I dont really feel like I should feel bad for an adult who feels uncomfortable because of their own clothing choices.

Wear whatever you want, as long as you're ok with the consequences. Of course, there might be exceptions.

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u/aSpanks Mar 05 '25 edited Mar 05 '25

Let the lady be goddamnit.

She wanted to wear a short dress. She didn’t want to flash people. She got assistance from a friendly face.

“Wear whatever you want as long as you’re okay with the consequences” is fucking disgusting and you should rethink a few things.

Edit: polite reminder to not feed the trolls. This person clearly has no friends, don’t engage in an online battle with them 😉For your own sanity.

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u/Just-apparent411 Mar 05 '25

that man said "Rape culture, what's that? some Ska Band? Never heard of it. Idk think we introduced each other the name is Brock btw"

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u/DarwinsTrousers Mar 06 '25

She can do whatever she wants. It’s bizarre to wear something that’s so unfunctional that you can’t get up from sitting without feeling uncomfortable.

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u/dynamic_gecko Mar 05 '25

Why is that disgusting? Choices have consequences. Where is your mind going to? I think YOU should rethink a few things.

If you really dont wanna flash people, then dont wear clothes that create that risk just by standing up. That's all I'm saying.

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u/ShrubbyFire1729 Mar 05 '25

Yeah, have to agree with this one. It's nowhere close to "victim blaming" or anything like that. Crazy people are getting downvoted for saying this.

Millie probably had an "oops, I didn't think this through" moment which we all have, no big deal, but choosing to wear something else would completely prevent any oopsies from happening in the first place. Don't wear revealing clothes if you don't want to accidentally end up flashing people. It's not an unreasonable take at all.

Kudos to Christ for rushing in though.

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u/superne0 Mar 06 '25

Its almost like people almost don't like accountability to their actions these days .

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u/QualityDime Mar 05 '25

There is really no way talking sense into those people. Even though I personally think you are in the right, the camps are so divided that it is unlikely we will find common ground here.

The moment you challenge any womans choice nowadays, you are an anti-feminist and a bigot. This is our new reality, better to just get used to it.

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u/-Ducksngeese- Mar 06 '25

Living life as a celebrity and having to account for paparazzi must suck so much, she probably didn't even consider it till she was up there and was like "Ah fuck sake, the moment I try get up paparazzi will start snapping pictures"

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u/mandatorypanda9317 Mar 05 '25

Who is asking you to feel bad?

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u/chrisk018 Mar 05 '25

Me. I send a lot of random DMs to people telling them to feel bad about people’s clothes. I’m Mr. Rainy Day.

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u/gb4efgw Mar 05 '25

Thank you for your service.

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u/AverageEarly5489 Mar 05 '25

Same, you should feel bad about doing so

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u/mandatorypanda9317 Mar 05 '25

Respect the hustle

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u/sumdude51 Mar 05 '25

Nobody man. They are Just perpetually miserable

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u/dynamic_gecko Mar 05 '25

Wow! You picked out that one sentence and made a great counter argument. Congrats!

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u/mandatorypanda9317 Mar 05 '25

I wasn't trying to argue but okay

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u/dynamic_gecko Mar 05 '25

Do you not feel sympathy for the actresses in these situations?

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u/kekdefault Mar 05 '25

No, nobody should be feeling bad for her, and that was the other posters point. You said I don’t think I should have to feel bad, she said “who is asking you to feel bad?” … because nobody is. Pratt did a decent thing, but nobody is like UGH! Poor girl!

It’s not that deep or hard to understand. Stop being so sensitive online, it’s weird man.

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u/dynamic_gecko Mar 05 '25

Because in a lot of posts like these, people express sympathy for the actresses. And that's what sympathy is, feeling bad for someone else's misfortune. Just because you dont feel it, doesnt mean others dont. And I dont what you think is "weird" or not.

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u/BloodMethAndTears Mar 05 '25

You were though, but ok

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u/Mysticalnarbwhal2 Mar 05 '25

Of course, it's always nice to help a person in need. But

So no, you don't actually want to help people in need. You immediately contradicted your claim.

I dont really feel like I should feel bad

Nobody said that you should.

Also, this is a post praising a guy for being a gentleman and you decide to take the time to shit on the lady? Why comment at all at that point. People like you are so insufferably pathetic.

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u/dynamic_gecko Mar 05 '25

A "but" does not cancel out the previous statement. Everything in life is not all or nothing. It's called nuance.

I am not "shitting" on anyone. As far as I know she is a great person. It just doesnt seem like to me that her dress was "just fine", even by her own standards because she was also uncomfortable. And I pointed that out. That's not "shitting" on someone. Talking about behaviors/choices and talking about people are different things. It's, again, called nuance.